If sex doesn't prove love, then why is
cheating painful?

You are contradicting yourself

OP seems to me you slow...if you think cheating is all about sex..

Molahnelson:
You are contradicting yourself

No he isn't contradicting himself. Let's hear others talk.

cheating is not painful to a bad guy, it means you get to chop the pusssy aggressively without dropping one naira

Cheating is simply painful cos is it a breach of promises and emotional commitment. Nothing about sex.

Wonder why bad boys and bad girls move the mess on when they're cheated on?

It is not always about sex.

Meekha:
Cheating is simply painful cos is it a breach of promises and emotional commitment. Nothing about sex.

Wonder why bad boys and bad girls move the mess on when they're cheated on?

It is not always about sex.

you nailed it

To a man, it is painful because it casts immediate doubt on his existing or future children's paternity. For traditional men, it also implies that someone is eating out of his personal investments.

To a woman, her man having sex with other women (we shouldn't call that cheating) threatens her share of his cake. The more women he has, the smaller her share. This however, is more painful if the man is poor, or not so well off. A very wealthy man can and usually does have sex with as many women as he likes, because each of them know that her own share is still considerable and she would not want to lose it. Women in cultures where polygamy is not permitted tend to be more jealous, because they know that another woman may not be content to share, and could replace her completely, leaving her in the dry; while in polygamous cultures, a woman knows that she will still be likely to get a share is she agrees to co exist with other women.

In all cases, love is not part of the picture.

you are bundling different concepts together and it only makes your secretion.

sex and love is a concept

pain,loss,betrayal is also a concept

cheating is a totally different topic on its own.it is genre of human psychology on its own

sex isnt related to loven dts why prostitutes do have sex with countless men but can still fall in love to just one guy..

paulolee:
sex isnt related to loven dts why prostitutes do have sex with countless men but can still fall in love to just one guy..

and because of love have sex with the guy.

the issue here is sex and love

phork is sex
romance is sex
make love is sex
buy and sell is also sex

at any given time sex can express itself in many ways and can be used in various forms but it is different from cheating