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If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by AMAARSALAN: 10:51am On Jan 29, 2021
If sex doesn't prove love, then why is
cheating painful?

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by Molahnelson(m): 10:55am On Jan 29, 2021
You are contradicting yourself
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by karkinase(m): 10:58am On Jan 29, 2021
OP seems to me you slow...if you think cheating is all about sex.. angry
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by dmk23: 10:59am On Jan 29, 2021
Molahnelson:
You are contradicting yourself
No he isn't contradicting himself. Let's hear others talk.

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by johnkey: 1:08pm On Jan 29, 2021
cheating is not painful to a bad guy, it means you get to chop the pusssy aggressively without dropping one naira
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by Meekha(m): 1:12pm On Jan 29, 2021
Cheating is simply painful cos is it a breach of promises and emotional commitment. Nothing about sex.

Wonder why bad boys and bad girls move the mess on when they're cheated on?

It is not always about sex.

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by AMAARSALAN: 2:34pm On Jan 29, 2021
Meekha:
Cheating is simply painful cos is it a breach of promises and emotional commitment. Nothing about sex.

Wonder why bad boys and bad girls move the mess on when they're cheated on?

It is not always about sex.
you nailed it

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by baralatie(m): 2:34pm On Jan 29, 2021
Molahnelson:
You are contradicting yourself
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Jan 29, 2021
To a man, it is painful because it casts immediate doubt on his existing or future children's paternity. For traditional men, it also implies that someone is eating out of his personal investments.

To a woman, her man having sex with other women (we shouldn't call that cheating) threatens her share of his cake. The more women he has, the smaller her share. This however, is more painful if the man is poor, or not so well off. A very wealthy man can and usually does have sex with as many women as he likes, because each of them know that her own share is still considerable and she would not want to lose it. Women in cultures where polygamy is not permitted tend to be more jealous, because they know that another woman may not be content to share, and could replace her completely, leaving her in the dry; while in polygamous cultures, a woman knows that she will still be likely to get a share is she agrees to co exist with other women.

In all cases, love is not part of the picture.

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Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by baralatie(m): 2:37pm On Jan 29, 2021
you are bundling different concepts together and it only makes your secretion.

sex and love is a concept

pain,loss,betrayal is also a concept

cheating is a totally different topic on its own.it is genre of human psychology on its own
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by paulolee(m): 3:52pm On Jan 29, 2021
sex isnt related to loven dts why prostitutes do have sex with countless men but can still fall in love to just one guy..
Re: If Sex Doesn't Prove Love, Then Why Is Cheating Painful? by baralatie(m): 4:40pm On Jan 29, 2021
paulolee:
sex isnt related to loven dts why prostitutes do have sex with countless men but can still fall in love to just one guy..
and because of love have sex with the guy.

the issue here is sex and love

phork is sex
romance is sex
make love is sex
buy and sell is also sex

at any given time sex can express itself in many ways and can be used in various forms but it is different from cheating

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