Warrgidanairala:
Part of what promiscuous men do these days to have free access to a lady's body,I pity any lady still falling for that scam

Slimdada:


you really think a sensible man boldly who has no good intention for a Lady
would bodly walk up to her mum
and tell her he Love's her daughter and would love to marry her subsequently?

guy pass me wetin u dey smoke abeg....

Warrgidanairala:
Part of what promiscuous men do these days to have free access to a lady's body,I pity any lady still falling for that scam,if you don't have money yet to do the necessary things then go and look for money before thinking about such visit,e no get head

Warrgidanairala:
Weed people have come again, so its weed you want to offer your prospective inlaws abi? I pity the lady dating your sorry ass.

Sonnobax15:

Exactly,the mum no dey use me play even up till this very minute..

Slimdada:

.you be oluku

why pitying me when u don't know me or what I could offer my future in-laws

wetin come bring weed for the matter's now
if you don't have anything meaningful thing to say,can't you read and fem
you go just come online
dey cap careless??

Warrgidanairala:
Part of what promiscuous men do these days to have free access to a lady's body,I pity any lady still falling for that scam,if you don't have money yet to do the necessary things then go and look for money before thinking about such visit,e no get head

Sonnobax15:

There's nothing to be afraid of...

When I started dating this my present girlfriend,I remembered me visiting her mum for the first time....She even compelled me to spend the night at their place and of which I did because where I came from was farther...

Over night,her mum and I became so acquainted to the extent that we played ludo games..

justosee:
spend the night at a girlfriend family house. there must be something wrong with the girls mum head and yours.

justosee:
spend the night at a girlfriend family house. there must be something wrong with the girls mum head and yours.

Slimdada:


what if the girls family lives in a duplex with empty room's
for The young man to spend the night since he came from a very far distance do you know if the girl already told her mum about him and she has been waiting for him to visit probably
does sleeping in their house means he had sex with her or he should have sex with her.Is he foolish?
see eh
Na negative mentality go kill una for Nigeria

Sonnobax15:

You no get sense?, didn't you read where I said where I came from was far,and there wasn't any hotel around on the village.....

Btw self,it wasn't under the same roof with her...it was a family compound and my girl's elder brother had a room..That's where I spent the night,but I returned the following morning...

Slimdada:
There's what my village people call
"Igba eriri"
A young man boldly going to a girl's house and declaring his interest in her,
That's Getting Married to her subsequently even when they are both are not ready ATM,
You Can buy a bottle of wine for the family or drop other stuff's which I have forgotten.

I think I have seen a girl who I would love to marry In the nearest future she has some xtics of my kind of woman,so
I want to go and see her mother then declare my intentions
With a Sharwamma I will make and a bottle of her chilled favourite drink
Is it a bad idea??
I need a girl by my side now so we can push forward and plan
Now I never blow
Not when I cash out loud
goldiggers will now choke everywhere,making it hard for me to find true love..

Mikester:

If you make quick decisions in relationships especially marriages, you're likely to come to regret

justosee:
You didn't see hotel? what kind of man go to his potential in-laws house without making proper arrangements?

You are throwing away the little respect they should have for you a son-in-law.

Ask your father whether sleeping in a potential in-law home is the best thing to do. we are Nigerians

Slimdada:


so a young man should wait until he has 100 billion dollar's before he should visit the family of a girl he loves and would want to marry

why y'all talking about going for a girl not until when a man is rich what then happens to man and woman coming together to plan together for their future and a young woman sticking with and praying for her man until he finally makes it,have you forgotten that some women brings good luck and open door's in a Mans life

Slimdada:


so a young man should wait until he has 100 billion dollar's before he should visit the family of a girl he loves and would want to marry

why y'all talking about going for a girl not until when a man is rich what then happens to man and woman coming together to plan together for their future and a young woman sticking with and praying for her man until he finally makes it,have you forgotten that some women brings good luck and open door's in a Mans life

Mikester:

If you make quick decisions in relationships especially marriages, you're likely to come to regret

Yusufisraelj:

And how do you know it's a rushed decision?

OP of this trend, have you spoken to the girl, or you day eye from distance?

Slimdada:


me I get your point but bro no be every day something e fit be emergency and the guy no carry h ATM card,or maybe ATM swallowed his card and he was stranded that day lol

Mikester:

All I advised was that he shouldn't make quick decisions in relationships as people end up regretting when they decide too quickly without carefully thinking it through. I don't know the OP or the said lady but that advice will be helpful to him... and you as well

Yusufisraelj:


I'm never in denial of this sound advise, your answer seem to give a negative connotation to his logic, since you never understood the situation surrounding his decision to see the mum.

If you know me well enough, you will know where to channel this counsel. Lols