Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,150,332 members, 7,808,146 topics. Date: Thursday, 25 April 2024 at 07:45 AM

How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down - Romance (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down (70636 Views)

How Masturbation Saved Me! / How Masturbation Saved My Ass Yesterday / How Masturbation And Pornography Almost Ruined My Life (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by blinking001(m): 10:12pm On Feb 02, 2021
Wahala grin
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by LegendHero(m): 10:12pm On Feb 02, 2021
It’s not masturbation that turned your life upside down bro.

That feeling of guilt is just an imagination in your brain and you shouldn’t let it take hold of you.

11 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by 2rez: 10:15pm On Feb 02, 2021
Do u turn upside down when masturbating

8 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Tonnierichy(m): 10:18pm On Feb 02, 2021
troublemakea:


jesusjnr2020 that was a soul lifting exaltation thanks n I'm trying I'd say but I feel like the spirit have not left me completely cuz atimes the thought of the feeling flashes everyday and Bfr I know it the urge kinda comes but not as hard as it used to Bfr tho the thing would later die down within minutes

How can I help fight the thoughts please bcoz tbh I really can't control it, it just flashes n i feel the urge again tho I try to replace the thought with something else but I do have this fear in me that if not careful I might go back to the act unknowingly

Something tells me you'll backslide at some point. If you do, don't hate yourself. It's an addiction. It doesn't just go once. If you do, forgive yourself and ask God for forgiveness. Then go again. Fast and pray fervently so you can be filled with the holy spirit and kept in check by the fear of God. Stay strong bro

1 Like

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nonconformist00(m): 10:19pm On Feb 02, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr Isoright
Boss! No insights on this topic from your grandpa?

7 Likes 1 Share

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by omobaba1759: 10:20pm On Feb 02, 2021
I applaud your effort combating masturbation for 3 weeks but brother the bitter truth is that you haven't combat it yet, wait till after 3 months, 6 months even A year before you can say you overcome masturbation. I will advise you to keep working on yourself and make sure you keep yourself busy and be prayful as well




troublemakea:
@soulwin4life me to brother. I just clocked bout 3weeks last weekend without masturbating after series of prayers n counsel but ion know thing have really not turn normal yet like that even tho I have this happiness in me that I've finally overcome masturbation but I Feel like God is kinda punishing me for wasting my time all thr this years cuz I really lost lotta opportunities last year due to masturbation n i know it...I just pray n hope He have mercy on me as soon as He can cuz I'm always down with disturbing thoughts embarassed

Cc; Righteousness2 jesusjnr2020 royalhouse femoint007 GodPraise

2 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by zakkxx: 10:21pm On Feb 02, 2021
I am happy for u! Don’t ever watch blue film ooo if not e go resume and make sure u live a righteous life! If you are of age and their is money marry make u rest!
soulwin4life:
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, so one day I was sitting alone and discovered that I was feeling some kind of Hot. To cut the long story short that was how the issue of masturbation en kindled me. But I discovered something then I lived a very stagnant life, I hardly have any goal accomplished, I will pray to God, cry, beg and fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times.

Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note.

As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thought cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing.

I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am.

1 Like

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Starkid3010(m): 10:21pm On Feb 02, 2021
Lol nothing happens when you don't work for it
Masturbation is not the cause of your problem, you're

2 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Vivian16: 10:21pm On Feb 02, 2021
The only potent antidote against masturbation is fasting and prayer, fasting helps to fight bad habits and addictions by weakening the flesh and strengthening your innerman (spirit )

1 Like

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Messiah123: 10:21pm On Feb 02, 2021
My brother masturbation didn't leave you, Masturbation went on vacation believe me the only cure to masturbation is get a girlfriend that you will be banging constantly am talking from experience sex is a 100 times better than masturbation for me after masturbation I feel remorseful and dirty but me after banging da pussy I feel good.

5 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Mancrossfire: 10:22pm On Feb 02, 2021
Young man you have psychological problems. Don't accuse innocent masturbation.

7 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Renegade23: 10:22pm On Feb 02, 2021
Prayers, for masturbation...lmao....

4 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by einsteine(m): 10:23pm On Feb 02, 2021
Nigerians are silly.

OP is sillier than the average Nigerian

8 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by lovchalice(f): 10:23pm On Feb 02, 2021
It was masturbation.
Happened to me also.
kalu61:
What's wrong with African man?

Masturbation was hindering your progress and causing your money to vanish. Tell me, is your money not vanishing again.

Your problem was not masturbation but twist of life. When things doesn't work out, we naturally tend to question and blame everything. Sometimes it may just be indicipline, careless decisions, environment and state of mind etc.

Anyways, when you feel the urge, first is to work out of your house. Take a stroll. Occupy your minds with meaningful things, get obsessed with your vision and most importantly, if you have the courage, make female friends in your church.

Because your fear will always stare at you.

3 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by fuckingAyaya(m): 10:24pm On Feb 02, 2021
I only pity people that says masturbation is not a sin, let me not tell my story it only God that can bring someone out of that shit.

1 Like

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Zinpat: 10:25pm On Feb 02, 2021
Glory b to God. Congrats
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 10:25pm On Feb 02, 2021
nah only for africa devil dey, na only for africa masturbating be demonic matter.

pele ohhhh

5 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by seanwilliam(m): 10:27pm On Feb 02, 2021
With people like this , Nigeria can never move forward .. imagine someone saying mastubation deh make money disappear for him hand .. hahah rubbish

4 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 02, 2021
The solution is not in "fighting" it nor not thinking about it.
Those don't work.
The solution is to use ur "Discriminatory Mind" and try to negotiate yourself out of it.
Thank u
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by ZICO111(m): 10:27pm On Feb 02, 2021
To God be the Glory.
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Nobody: 10:28pm On Feb 02, 2021
Masturbation turned your life upside down?


Just finished a good round and am not upside down undecided

You all Bible salesmen by selling stories too

4 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 10:28pm On Feb 02, 2021
Cool

1 Like

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by abdulskulboy(m): 10:28pm On Feb 02, 2021
Stop blaming masturbation for your doom and dark, its as a result of your laziness and pessimism.

7 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by Klechman(m): 10:29pm On Feb 02, 2021
Hey how did you really do it
What you went through is exactly what am going through now
I really need help

soulwin4life:
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, so one day I was sitting alone and discovered that I was feeling some kind of Hot. To cut the long story short that was how the issue of masturbation en kindled me. But I discovered something then I lived a very stagnant life, I hardly have any goal accomplished, I will pray to God, cry, beg and fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times.

Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note.

As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thought cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing.

I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am.
Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by milkyworld(m): 10:31pm On Feb 02, 2021
A better title for this post would have been "How I turned masturbation upside down".

Masturbation is a common sexual practice even amongst animals e.g cats, dogs, monkeys etc...

Are you now implying that those animals should give their lives to Christ in order to be saved?

If everything (including masturbation) is done in moderation, there would be no cause for alarm.

Shalom!

7 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by livinbygrace: 10:35pm On Feb 02, 2021
But hope you know that if you wants to do fertility/semen test the lab scientist will ask you to masturbate inside a tube as specimen?I have been there before and i know how it feels but things happen.

4 Likes 1 Share

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by wisewordd: 10:35pm On Feb 02, 2021
Religion is really killing our sense of thinking.

1 Like

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by sayittome(m): 10:36pm On Feb 02, 2021
Ok

5 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by chelseamann(m): 10:37pm On Feb 02, 2021
Masturbating is a bad addiction and I thank God for saving me...it's being extremely long (I think since my last birthday) that I made a commitment with God to stop it and yes..God did it...my birthday is June 27.

5 Likes

Re: How Masturbation Turned My Life Upside Down by moneyissweet(m): 10:38pm On Feb 02, 2021
Masturbation is evil.

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply)

Julieth Gonzalez Theran Sexually Assaulted On Live TV In Russia At World Cup / Are Nurses Really Promiscuous? / Groom Disappears On His Wedding Day, Bride Goes Ahead With The Event In U.K

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 39
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.