Romanoff:
Instead of the girl to focus on whether you have an intimate relationship with God, she's bothered with you not going to church.

Church is a place where you'll find drunks, wife beaters, rapists, thieves, ritualists, fornicators and adulterers and Children of God in the same building claiming to be worshipping God, a God that many of them do not know.

May God epp us.

you can not have an intimate relationship with God. I hate going to church.

Let her go bro . She will later marry her self

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

It was not a church but a Christian she said. Can two work together, unless they agree.
She's right to have dumped you.

VulgarLee:
Presence of God is everywhere stop being religious

I never said God's presence is not everywhere, but our Lord Jesus commanded us(Christians) not to neglect the fellowship of the brethren (Heb10:25).

98% of guys who refuse to go to church are not proper husband material.

No conscience
No rules guiding them except their own which are just pure vibes.
Nobody to advice them; always taking their own advice.
Guys who take church seriously are the best guys to marry. Most of them have conscience.


ORRRR

Your babe may have found someone better and using this opportunity to get rid of you.
Kikikikikiki

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

how old are you?

What you bois put here sometimes is so senseless and unthinkable. Stale

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

beautiful, a virtueous women like her are very rare to find these days...
Why are u sad that a church goer broke up with u,when u don't want to go to church....why are u confused...look for a fellow pagan or non church goer like urself to date...

She obeys the high code of ..if u don't love my God I don't need ur love

Maybe your girlfriend doesn't know that going to church is not by force....

Kelblaq:
You won't understand Sir.

you and God dey quarrel wey u wan explain? My friend go to Church and live a good life.

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

Very good decision

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

Guy no follow that woman go Church ...they believe it makes her a good girl..na them evil pass

kingxsamz:


As a Christian that you are, shouldn't you be more worried about him having an intimate relationship with a lady he's not married to rather than being focused on him not going to church? I'm sure you also fornicate, so why are you here killing yourself over someone's decision?

My brother, you have made two errors here :

1. Going to church has nothing to do with his relationship with the lady. Rather it is an obligation on all christians (Heb10:25). And I do not see anything wrong in telling him to go to church (since I believe he is a Christian like me)

2. Your assumption of me engaging in fornication is a very foolish and wicked thought. Because you do not know me, neither have you seen me; but based on your mistrust for people, you generalize and think we all are the same. And this is wrong. Please repent. Peace

Cgame:


He's very narrow minded.
Please don't engage him .
As for the girl , she did the right thing.

You are right. I have discovered that people of this generation dislike church or news of it.

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

Amos 2
Amos 4

Amos 3:3
King James Version
Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

It depends on why she is dating you. Is it for fun or with the intention to settle down eventually. If it is the latter, then her core beliefs must align with yours. Some are negotiable, but some are not. Probably, a man who takes his faith seriously is of importance to her. I don't blame her, I would dump you too if it were me
I can't have someone frustrate me in marriage later :
Preventing I and my kids from attending Church, not being able to discern spiritual matters or attacks, no inkling of the place of christ in our home, not able to pray, fast or read bible together.... Nah
Psalm 42:7 Deep calleth unto deep

Wetin dey do me today sef

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

Amos 3:3
King James Version
Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

It depends on why she is dating you. Is it for fun or with the intention to settle down eventually. If it is the latter, then her core beliefs must align with yours. Some are negotiable, but some are not. Probably, a man who takes his faith seriously is of importance to her. I don't blame her, I would dump you too if it were me
I can't have someone frustrate me in marriage later :
Preventing I and my kids from attending Church, not being able to discern spiritual matters or attacks, no inkling of the place of christ in our home, not able to pray, fast or read bible together.... Nah
Psalm 42:7 Deep calleth unto deep

Wetin dey do me today sef

She has been lookin for excuses that’s not one she is just tired go get you more money she will never leave

Ishilove:

Stop what?

You're making me feel guilty and i don't like it

Please stop messing with my mental

stonecoldcafe:


Amos 2
Amos 4

Amos 3:3
King James Version
Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

It depends on why she is dating you. Is it for fun or with the intention to settle down eventually. If it is the latter, then her core beliefs must align with yours. Some are negotiable, but some are not. Probably, a man who takes his faith seriously is of importance to her. I don't blame her, I would dump you too if it were me
I can't have someone frustrate me in marriage later :
Preventing I and my kids from attending Church, not being able to discern spiritual matters or attacks, no inkling of the place of christ in our home, not able to pray, fast or read bible together.... Nah
Psalm 42:7 Deep calleth unto deep

Wetin dey do me today sef

as you dey quote scriptures left and right?

I have one massive problem with this topic and the fact that all and sundry are allowed to comment here. I think everyone commenting on this kind of topic and similar ones should be made to sign an undertakings that they accept

"JESUS CHRIST AS THEIR LORD AND SAVIOUR"

The Christian folks should push for this too. I read every comment on this thread and I had the inclinations that all the stupid comments are coming from people from other faith.

While can't they also sign an acceptance form every Sundays like it is made compulsory on Fridays?

This is very unjustified, as you can see the stupid and unreasonable comments most of them are putting out here...... Jesus is our Lord and Savior.

arsenal444:
Bross, to go church mean say na to please woman? Abi na crime for ur babe to tell you say make u go church wit her?

E get reason why i no dey go church b.4, so one woman no fit just come stop that without first solving the issue.

BTW, i avoids women like that, they are extremely dangerous.

learner007:


And the God of that heaven you are going to didnt advise you in His word that you should fellowship together with people of like mind? I'm sure the day the church starts paying members, just like your job does, then you would start encouraging them to go...

Fellowshipping has become something people do in order to please other people which shouldn't be so. We should be do it because we were advised to do so. But now because of influence (pastoral and economical) we refuse to do so.

Akamariner:

E get reason why i no dey go church b.4, so one woman no fit just come stop that without first solving the issue.

BTW, i avoids women like that, they are extremely dangerous.

No problem, you have your point

Shelumiel:
I never said God's presence is not everywhere, but our Lord Jesus commanded us(Christians) not to neglect the fellowship of the brethren (Heb10:25).

See pastor, was that christ's script, or paul's.

[quote author=Masonkaycares post=98824196]Going to church doesn't signify the fact that you'll go to heaven. Some people go to church based on the fact that " If I don't go people will talk" which is absolutely wrong. Go to church because you want to and not because you are forced to. She can force you to church but she can't force you to heaven[/quote


All you have typed up there is balderdash. If she forces him to go church successfully, she can force him to do more like joining a department and so on. Kudos to the lady cos she knows what she wants.

JudgeKronos:
About 3.6 billion women on this planet....
why kill yourself because of one

There are millions of empty girls out there whose destinies have already been used up by Yahoo boys!!! You date them, your life goes down!. You have a choice to make between between empty traps and a lady who knows what she wants.

blinking001:
You just dodged a bullet op...

Big bullet i tell you

Masonkaycares:
Yes she is. If you don't like someone based on the fact he/she doesn't do what you like, it's your choice to let go of him or her. Don't please people and don't expect people to please you.

.going by ur illustration, op don't need to come online to make an issue WHR thr is none

Kelblaq:
We started dating about 4weeks ago! She said if she had known that I'm not a Church goer she wouldn't have accept to date me in the first place.

She just broke up with me now

U be Muslim? Or native doctor?

Romanoff:
Instead of the girl to focus on whether you have an intimate relationship with God, she's bothered with you not going to church.

Church is a place where you'll find drunks, wife beaters, rapists, thieves, ritualists, fornicators and adulterers and Children of God in the same building claiming to be worshipping God, a God that many of them do not know.

May God epp us.

You understand.
When you get close to the pastors, your ears will be full from the things that go on in the church even among pastors.

Op should simply know that she's not looking for a guy like him. She wants a church guy.
And OP should know that he probably doesn't need a girl like her too. He needs someone of like mind.

Amos 3:3 Can two work together unless theyre agreed?

Well bro, allow her be and face what's important.....u just Dodge a stray bullet honestly.....dis just d tip of the iceberg.....who knows if she wudav broken up wichu just because your name is not found in d Bible.....chai, churchy gials......na Dem spoil pass

Romanoff:
Instead of the girl to focus on whether you have an intimate relationship with God, she's bothered with you not going to church.

Church is a place where you'll find drunks, wife beaters, rapists, thieves, ritualists, fornicators and adulterers and Children of God in the same building claiming to be worshipping God, a God that many of them do not know.

May God epp us.

Can you have intimate relationship with God without fellowship? NOOO!!! They both work together. You don't know what you typed actually!