what's your definition of a people pleaser?.I want to know.I am here to learn.I think someone that doesn't know when he/she is being manipulated or exploited is a people pleaser.

introvert2:
what's your definition of a people pleaser?.I want to know.I am here to learn.I think someone that doesn't know when he/she is being manipulated or exploited is a people pleaser.

A people pleaser is someone who will never say no. He/she will inconvenience themselves and indirectly, others; lie, enter relationships they don't really want, fail on schedules and promises, waste much time in places they don't want to be, and do terribly substandard work on any project or job; all because they cannot say "no, I cannot do it" or "no I will not do it".

people of low esteem

Just ask Air hostesses on duty.. They will tell you they are "man pleaser"
They can about do anything for you with a smile even though it didn't reach the heart... Try and repeat the nonsense u made them do outside the plane

Don't be a men-pleaser because man is difficult to please and you gain absolutely nothing from doing so. Rather, be a God pleaser because in it there's much reward.

Shalom.

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Extreme people pleaser are even worse. They can sell their own family in order to be called a good person. A man that spends more on outsider but finds it difficult to cater for his own family just because he wants to be called a good man is a top-notch people pleaser.

irijuola:
Extreme people pleaser are even worse. They can sell their own family in order to be called a good person. A man that spends more on outsider but finds it difficult to cater for his own family just because he wants to be called a good man is a top-notch people pleaser.

. it is never a good thing.i used to be one but not anymore