MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Tajbol4splend:




Yoruba people dey get sense

OlawaleBammie:



See u

Na people like that recv the biggest kponran

yahjac:


na wa o, na everything una must carry God come inside ?
wetin concern God and romance ?

Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.

favour32:

Wetin you talk?
I get two wives and I dey go for the third.

mariahAngel:


Na God create true romance na...

You no wan add God so that you go dey do bad bad tinz abi? Immorality different from romance shey you know?

fati2001:


no be everything you go dy use catch cruise..

Alexxien:

If I may ask what professional group chat.
I am sure the name will give us all the information we need!!!!

Kriss216:

You didn't say anything about the virgin part. Why skip that important part

MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for the advice. I have already planned places we can go and have fun and see around my city. But I need to do things that will not allow the guy know that I like him too much.

MeghaneMorgane:


It was a WhatsApp group chat

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

MansoryMX:


Just be yourself. No knacking! I repeat!! NO KNACKING!!

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Reeberry:
What if she wan knack?

Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control

OlawaleBammie:


Waooo

Congrat brov, congrat

See, marry as many as possible o, so far u love them equally and treat dem well, women are meant to be married in their multiple.


As Solomon(baba agbalagba, tuale o baba)

raphroye:

God bless you for this advice... You just get a sister off market

Thanks. God bless you too

cho25bc:


Hope this is not saphiere or Zzor? The future is female crooner? If so, no need to hide your identity.

Since both of you are mature adults,and you both like each other,i dont see any reason why you should restrain yourself from showing your affections to him. If he takes you for granted,then it's his loss. All you need do is to be careful with him and dont give him your all. Dont pretend or conceal your feelings for him because you are scared of being taken for granted. In the end,it doesnt pay. You will just keep suffering in silence. Just take your time to know him better and dont let him in all the way. If he asks for a relationship and you want him badly too,give him a try while finding out more about him before committing yourself fully into his hands. Cheers.

Martinez39s:
@emboldened

MeghaneMorgane, just like all other women, regularly project her female nature on men, even without knowing it. She thinks if she likes him too much, he will take her for granted because it's what she, and all other women, do to guys that like them too much (nice guys). She thinks he is like that and she is trying to avoid the śhit she has fed other nice guys that have loved her too much.

Actually, men like women, especially the women they love, to love and like them very much. We men are simple. Unfortunately, what men (the ideal lovers) see as a mutually happy and romantic union is what females see as a game.

Kriss216:

You didn't say anything about the virgin part. Why skip that important part

Kaymaxine:

Am sure you don't know the real meaning of "misunderstanding"!!!

Slimslimqq:
bro I swear, I like ur vibes, am always following ur comments. I love d way u relate and react

favour32:

Yes correct man!
Na one lady wey call herself sapphiere dey challenge God because,HE placed man for leadership position.That girl claim say the future na female.We dey wait for that time when female go lord over male
Nor be for this world.
Nai bring my private life come online say I get her mates surplus for my houses.

Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control

Kriss216:

You didn't say anything about the virgin part. Why skip that important part