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My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 4:44pm On Feb 14
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Cutehector(m): 4:46pm On Feb 14
Why would they have sex in your room shocked

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 4:49pm On Feb 14
Cutehector:
Why would they have sex in your room shocked
I won't judge much on that one, it is their house and no one knew I will be coming back today, but why in heavens name won't she at least wash the bedsheet, I'm disgusted honestly,

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by fati2001(m): 4:52pm On Feb 14
Gang90:
So guys it valentine's day, I'm really disgusted, okay I stay in my brothers house, I travelled, I came back around 2:30 I wanted to enter my room but my brother told me wait a while, with my adult mind, I realised they having some couple time, I dropped my bag in the living room and head out.

But I came back to find out the room is scattered and the bedsheet there, a responsible woman should at least wash the bed sheet noting that a grown up Male stays there.

I will be 26 this year, I had not really had sex so all these things imagining a strange woman's bodily fluids in my bedsheet is disgusting. I can take it from the side of my brother but not the wife, she disgusts me honestly, she is not my girlfriend, not my sister, not my wife, not my mother why should she expect I wash her after sex sheets for her or why can't she just pick the sheet immediately and wash it, it could have dried by now. And it really feel awful for me if I try to wash it, honestly.

This is about to be the worst valentine's day for me, I'm planning to head out and rent a room in hotel but who knows most hotel rooms will be disgusting today, what do I do please advice.

I'm hating knowing already, cause if I didn't know it could all not be so dirty to me, now my bed looks so dirty to me and I can't attempt to wash it until at least 24 hours and I will wash it soaked in hot water, I hate nonses just cause my brothers accepts you does not mean everyone in the family sees you as one flesh.

lolz

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 4:53pm On Feb 14
Frip:
Sex no concern brothers o. What nonsense is this I'm reading.
It disgusting, seriously, and I can't just head back to my family house I just came back from there, and it some hour and 30 minutes journey, these things irritates me,

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Cutehector(m): 4:55pm On Feb 14
Gang90:

I won't judge much on that one, it is their house and no one knew I will be coming back today, but why in heavens name won't she at least wash the bedsheet, I'm disgusted honestly,
yeah i can totally relate. It had better been you didnt even know. Now the thought of them having sex on your bed would be recurring

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Callmegerald2(m): 4:56pm On Feb 14
There are a number of options available to you. First, keep calm. You still live with your brother. Wash the sheet. Do not confront his wife. She will make life miserable for you under your brother's roof.
Secondly, at 26, maybe you should consider getting your own apartment. Maybe a room selfcon will be cool. If they could have sex in your room and not clean up, it may be a subtle sign to get your own room.
Thirdly, do not discuss this issue with your brother. Next time when going out, lock your room.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by merieam16(f): 5:02pm On Feb 14
Just tell ur brother you cant wash it, that he should tell his wife to do it cos she disgusts u undecided

Buh on a serious note for peace to reign do whatever u er asked to do nd start planning on getting urself an apartment

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Callmegerald2(m): 5:04pm On Feb 14
merieam16:
Just tell ur brother you cant wash it, that he should tell his wife to do it cos she disgusts u
Wrong move.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by uncleck: 5:04pm On Feb 14
At 26, you're grown. Stop complaining about little things like this. Pick the sheet and wash or buy another one and fold the old one inside an abandoned case.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 5:06pm On Feb 14
Callmegerald2:
There are a number of options available to you. First, keep calm. You still live with your brother. Wash the sheet. Do not confront his wife. She will make life miserable for you under your brother's roof.
Secondly, at 26, maybe young should consider getting your own apartment. Maybe a room selfcon will be cool. If they could have sex in your room and not clean up, it may be a subtle sign to get your own room.
Thirdly, do not discuss this issue with your brother. Next time when going out, lock your room.
I'm not looking to confront her, I can wash the sheet, but it disgusts me to wash an after sex sheet of a woman that naturally looks disgusting to me, for this I will leave the house soon, but note maybe it feels this way cause I had not really had sex, the fact is that I can't touch that bed sheet, the closest I had come with a woman is kiss here and more mild romance but this us in a whole new level for me to handle, I know what sex looks like when I see one, my mind could be playing an exaggeration scene in my head but it still disgusting, if I can go through this kind of horrible moments it should be at least for my own women not for a woman that has no atom of respect for my person, the issue is not about washing a bedsheet, sometimes ago when I abd my sister used to visit the orphanage I wash the kids clothes including their bedsheet but washing this particular one it totally dirty to me,

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by SmellySperm(m): 5:08pm On Feb 14
na una mata... that one no concern us

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 5:08pm On Feb 14
uncleck:
At 26, you're grown. Stop complaining about little things like this. Pick the sheet and wash or buy another one and fold the old one inside an abandoned case.
Who is talking about grown here, I'm talking about tonight, where I'm I going to sleep, washing it is not the problem, I can get a new one tomorrow or get the dry cleaner to come pick it up and wash, I'm talking about today, where should I sleep, i had told you that sex from strange people disgusts me, so it not about pick it up and wash, that bedsheet currently looks like puke to me, or even worse

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Callmegerald2(m): 5:17pm On Feb 14
Gang90:

I'm not looking to confront her, I can wash the sheet, but it disgusts me to wash an after sex sheet of a woman that naturally looks disgusting to me, for this I will leave the house soon, but note maybe it feels this way cause I had not really had sex, the fact is that I can't touch that bed sheet, the closest I had come with a woman is kiss here and more mild romance but this us in a whole new level for me to handle, I know what sex looks like when I see one, my mind could be playing an exaggeration scene in my head but it still disgusting, if I can go through this kind of horrible moments it should be at least for my own women not for a woman that has no atom of respect for my person, the issue is not about washing a bedsheet, sometimes ago when I abd my sister used to visit the orphanage I wash the kids clothes including their bedsheet but washing this particular one it totally dirty to me,

You are taking this issue way too seriously. Do you have a well thought out plan when you leave your brother's house? What would be your reason for leaving his house if you are asked? If you had a fight with his wife, that will be a different case. Just wash the sheet. Lock your room henceforth when going out. This can't be more difficult than it already is. It disgusts you, fine. A lot of things disgust us. Just man up and get it done.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by addexx: 5:19pm On Feb 14
Gang90:

Who is talking about grown here, I'm talking about tonight, where I'm I going to sleep, washing it is not the problem, I can get a new one tomorrow or get the dry cleaner to come pick it up and wash, I'm talking about today, where should I sleep, i had told you that sex from strange people disgusts me, so it not about pick it up and wash, that bedsheet currently looks like puke to me, or even worse

I'm sure you will still sleep somewhere after everything. Like you said it's their house. Either you dialogue with your brother on the stained sheet or just keep it aside and sleep on a sheetless bed. U won't die.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by myami: 5:19pm On Feb 14
Get ready to leave that house for peace sake.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Bluntguy: 5:20pm On Feb 14
Is it your brother's wife that took him to your room or your brother that took her there? No vex o. Just asking.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by merieam16(f): 5:22pm On Feb 14
Gang90:

Who is talking about grown here, I'm talking about tonight, where I'm I going to sleep, washing it is not the problem, I can get a new one tomorrow or get the dry cleaner to come pick it up and wash, I'm talking about today, where should I sleep, i had told you that sex from strange people disgusts me, so it not about pick it up and wash, that bedsheet currently looks like puke to me, or even worse
Sleep on the floor or is d floor also disgusting

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 5:22pm On Feb 14
Callmegerald2:


You are taking this issue way too seriously. Do you have a well thought out plan when you leave your brother's house? What would be your reason for leaving his house if you are asked? If you had a fight with his wife, that will be a different case. Just wash the sheet. Lock your room henceforth when going out. This can't be more difficult that this. It disgusts you, fine. A lot of things disgust us. Just ma. up and get it done.

This is already past 5 o'clock, despite that I can't touch the bedsheet for at least 24 hours, even if I man up as you said and wash it, it will not dry now, whatever they did was around 2:40, if she washed it since 3 o'clock it should be dry by now, this is more than enough reason for me to leave a house, people are different,

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 5:22pm On Feb 14
merieam16:
Sleep on the floor or is d floor also disgusting
I'm allergic to cold floors,

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by uncleck: 5:23pm On Feb 14
Gang90:

Who is talking about grown here, I'm talking about tonight, where I'm I going to sleep, washing it is not the problem, I can get a new one tomorrow or get the dry cleaner to come pick it up and wash, I'm talking about today, where should I sleep, i had told you that sex from strange people disgusts me, so it not about pick it up and wash, [b][/b]that bedsheet currently looks like puke to me, [b][/b]or even worse
You see the bold statement? It's just in your head. I repeat, grow up. There's something inside you that allows some little sights, smells, thoughts, feelings etc to irritate you. Kill that thing. How can a grown man say he is irritated by a sheet that sex took place on? You said you've not had sex. If you can control the most powerful urge in the universe, I don't see why you can't see sheet as just normal sheet you use to know. Someday in your journey as a man, you'll see and touch shitsss.

Well if you can't, just look for wrapper...

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Romanoff(f): 5:28pm On Feb 14
If you're not paying rent in that house, wash the sheets and move on or start looking for a place.

You no get mouth for that house o.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 5:30pm On Feb 14
uncleck:
You see the bold statement? It's just in your head. I repeat, grow up. There's something inside you that allows some little sights, smells, thoughts, feelings etc to irritate you. Kill that thing. How can a grown man say he is irritated by a sheet that sex took place on? You said you've not had sex. If you can control the most powerful urge in the universe, I don't see why you can't see sheet as just normal sheet you use to know. Someday in your journey as a man, you'll see and touch shitsss.

Well if you can't, just look for wrapper...
You should have asked why have I not had sex, it is not on any self control stuff but although as a child I wanted to be a priest, I grew up to see somethings as impure, including people, note this is not in the moral concepts, I only accept people that I love, by love here I don't mean sexual attraction, for instance even if my brother has an infectious disease, I may not leave his side but a stranger that I dislike with common cold could irritate me, that's how some things work for me, first of all I don't like my brother's wife whatsoever so this type of thing from her even seems more irritating .

I might stay up and work throughout the night so that tomorrow morning I can sleep in the living room a bit before sorting everything out tomorrow by noon
Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 5:32pm On Feb 14
Romanoff:
If you're not paying rent in that house, wash the sheets and move on or start looking for a place.

You no get mouth for that house o.
I don't even understand your own, I'm telling you that I can't wash a sex sheet not that I can't wash the bedsheet, I prefer to wash a truckload of normal clothes, that had been used by coal miners than washing that, seems you don't understand the word disgusting, who is dragging house or house rent here.

To think that you are even a woman saying this does not even show you have any values or respect.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by VanillaIyce(f): 5:35pm On Feb 14
Callmegerald2:
There are a number of options available to you. First, keep calm. You still live with your brother. Wash the sheet. Do not confront his wife. She will make life miserable for you under your brother's roof.
Secondly, at 26, maybe young should consider getting your own apartment. Maybe a room selfcon will be cool. If they could have sex in your room and not clean up, it may be a subtle sign to get your own room.
Thirdly, do not discuss this issue with your brother. Next time when going out, lock your room.
He doesn't have a room in someone else's house how much more locking the door.p

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by uncleck: 5:37pm On Feb 14
Gang90:

You should have asked why have I not had sex, it is not on any self control stuff but although as a child I wanted to be a priest, I grew up to see somethings as impure, including people, note this is not in the moral concepts, I only accept people that I love, by love here I don't mean sexual attraction, for instance even if my brother has an infectious disease, I may not leave his side but a stranger that I dislike with common cold could irritate me, that's how some things work for me, first of all I don't like my brother's wife whatsoever so this type of thing from her even seems more irritating .

I might stay up and work throughout the night so that tomorrow morning I can sleep in the living room a bit before sorting everything out tomorrow by noon
everything still boils down to your emotions. It seems yours is a weak emotion. Fortify your emotions with rationality. See the world as something that your emotions cannot control one bit. Whether you love/accept someone or love/unaccept them, it doesn't affect them one bit. That is the reality of life. Strengthen your emotion. Forget about your upbringing and all that. We grew up in a dream world, but laslas reality is reality. If you doubt me why not just go and tell your sister in-law to go and wash the sheet?

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by debbydams(f): 5:44pm On Feb 14
Wetin we no see for NL oo grin

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Romanoff(f): 5:45pm On Feb 14
Gang90:

I don't even understand your own, I'm telling you that I can't wash a sex sheet not that I can't wash the bedsheet, I prefer to wash a truckload of normal clothes, that had been used by coal miners than washing that, seems you don't understand the word disgusting, who is dragging house or house rent here.

To think that you are even a woman saying this does not even show you have any values or respect.

See this one.

You're insulting me about values or respect. If you respect your brother, you would not bring his business to social media.

What happened to a heart to heart?

Small children go get android phone and small data come dey run mouth for social media.


Omase o.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Bankerboy(m): 5:45pm On Feb 14
Guy you have a problem, why is it dat you hate ur bro's wife dat much. Ordinary bedsheet. . Is either you remove it or you wash it or you pack out for them. . U've almost rejected every advice here , what do you want us to do 4u nw?

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by greatiyk4u(m): 5:45pm On Feb 14
Go to the nearest big store and buy a new bed spread to replace the one disgusting you or simply pack out.


Your choices are limited in that house, thread with caution to avoid spoiling your brother's marriage.

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Re: My Brother And The Wife Had Sex In My Room, Why Won't She Wash The Sheets? by Gang90: 5:46pm On Feb 14
uncleck:
everything still boils down to your emotions. It seems yours is a weak emotion. Fortify your emotions with rationality. See the world as something that your emotions cannot control one bit. Whether you love/accept someone or love/unaccept them, it doesn't affect them one bit. That is the reality of life. Strengthen your emotion. Forget about your upbringing and all that. We grew up in a dream world, but laslas reality is reality. If you doubt me why not just go and tell your sister in-law to go and wash the sheet?

Let me tell you a little story, 4 years back a jambite about 19 years back then was staying over in my house as she came from Lagos within two days of her stay she was in love with me, I don't seem to notice much, next day I saw her wearing my track suite, that was the end of it, I wanted to tell to have it but while leaving she dropped it, I threw it into the waste bin right away, you need to understand the challenge, I'm facing right now, is not on telling her to wash it, if I do that I'm disrespecting my brother, if my brother was did not take her to my room is she stupid, wife or not, I'm only calm becuase she's not the only culprit, if she was the only culprit, I will not mention a word before she picks it wash it and dry it is she stupid, does being her husband place give her any right to contaminate my room.

Bro I'm a strict person, If my brother is not around or let's say she can't try it on her own, lol if I move out of my brothers house it won't end there and I don't have issue with him, if I move out of there many more cases will arise

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