Was just thinking, between a guy and a lady, who moves on from a break-up faster?

Who heals faster?

#seun
#lalasticlala

it depends on who was really in love.
Most times before a breakup, one of the party is already tired of the relationship, those ones can even move on the next minute while some who are deeply in love will take months or years to finally let go.

Prettyangelng:
Please I am begging you never love anybody out of pity. They must like you first even a little. I loved out of pity and now I was dumped not even pitied though I cried so many tears.

These are the kinds that move last, I've been in this situation, the truth is that I do not forgive these type of people, if I love u out of pity and u dump me without pity, ill get u back, fvck u without pity and give u the most brutal break up line.

@prettyangelng, sorry dear. u go move on, its a matter of time

richmond500:
it depends on who was really in love.
Most times before a breakup, one of the party is already tired of the relationship, those ones can even move on the next minute while some who are deeply in love will take months or years to finally let go

Like who moves on faster has nothing to do with gender?

No be by gender.
Na by how heartless a person is.
The most heartless in a relationship always moves on 1st in my opinion...

grim33:
No be by gender.
Na by how heartless a person is.
The most heartless in a relationship always moves on 1st in my opinion...

@the bolded got me laughing hard.

Who invests more moves on last.

cchub:
Who invests more moves on last.

This is deep.

The issue on ground is not about gender issue cus both genders can do that,

The card the person is playing and the kind of person he or she is , is the major way of determining what you asked

tesolmake:

Like who moves on faster has nothing to do with gender?

nope it doesnt

tesolmake:
Was just thinking, between a guy and a lady, who moves on from a break-up faster?

Who heals faster?

#seun
#lalasticlala

Using myself as a case study
The person that loved more
It can take up to 2 year's, even more before moving on

richmond500:
it depends on who was really in love.
Most times before a breakup, one of the party is already tired of the relationship, those ones can even move on the next minute while some who are deeply in love will take months or years to finally let go.

These are the kinds that move last, I've been in this situation, the truth is that I do not forgive these type of people, if I love u out of pity and u dump me without pity, ill get u back, fvck u without pity and give u the most brutal break up line.

@prettyangelng, sorry dear. u go move on, its a matter of time

Kilode
Be calming down
You don't have to retaliate
Let the person meet it at the front

Cc: seun

Lalasticlala

Lucrativress:

Using myself as a case study
The person that loved more
It can take up to 2 year's, even more before moving on

2years?? Wetin happen?

tesolmake:


2years?? Wetin happen?

O man sele

tesolmake:
Was just thinking, between a guy and a lady, who moves on from a break-up faster?

Who heals faster?

#seun
#lalasticlala

The one who invested the least in the relationship.

If the guy was the one doing all the spending and wasn't even able to see her panties all through the relationship, then even after 2 years of them being apart, he still won't be able to move on.

If the girl was giving him her body, money, time, everything...and the guy invested nothing aside the energy he used in making love to her, the girl will find it more difficult to move on than the guy.

If it's a relationship where both parties invested equal time, money and sacrifice, the most emotional of the two will find it difficult to move on.

Nazgul:

The one who invested the least in the relationship.

If the guy was the one doing all the spending and wasn't even able to see her panties all through the relationship, then even after 2 years of them being apart, he still won't be able to move on.

If the girl was giving him her body, money, time, everything...and the guy invested nothing aside the energy he used in making love to her, the girl will find it more difficult to move on than the guy.

If it's a relationship where both parties invested equal time, money and sacrifice, the most emotional of the two will find it difficult to move on.

On point.

2years ke..after 2 weeks,I am already imagining spanking another babe

Ayo2004:
2years ke..after 2 weeks,I am already imagining spanking another babe

Just like that??

Depends on who invested more in the relationship. If you are type that likes spending on a girlfriend or guyfriend as the case may be, it might take time to heal and move on. I have a friend who took one yr to get over his ex.

tesolmake:
Was just thinking, between a guy and a lady, who moves on from a break-up faster?

Who heals faster?

#seun
#lalasticlala

Personally I feel it all depends.
The emotional one find it more difficult.
I don't feel it involves, who spends more. Some men have money, and can spend it just anyhow they want. But the day they get tired of the girl, they let her go without a blink.
So I feel it has to do with emotions.
Personally for me, I spend more on a woman I don't like because I feel I pay her for her services. And when I say its over, I hv no regrets.

Let me put it this way again.


We all have our dream partner, if I meet mine, I tend to love her more because she's all I ever dreamt of. I.e she has every quality I want in a woman.
The probability of that same girl seeing me as her dream man might just not be there. So I guess when we break up, I'll feel it more because she was the woman of my dream.
It happens both ways.

tesolmake:


Just like that??

Na only mumu dey trust completely or fall in love with woman deeply...if she Bleep up,I don expect am,so I just meuveee

lusid:
Depends on who invested more in the relationship. If you are type that likes spending on a girlfriend or guyfriend as the case may be, it might take time to heal and move on. I have a friend who took one yr to get over his ex.

Right duo

Ayo2004:

Na only mumu dey trust completely or fall in love with woman deeply...if she Bleep up,I don expect am,so I just meuveee

It depends. Some females can still be trusted completely.

Like very few.

JERRY1925:



Personally I feel it all depends.
The emotional one find it more difficult.
I don't feel it involves, who spends more. Some men have money, and can spend it just anyhow they want. But the day they get tired of the girl, they let her go without a blink.
So I feel it has to do with emotions.
Personally for me, I spend more on a woman I don't like because I feel I pay her for her services. And when I say its over, I hv no regrets.

Let me put it this way again.


We all have our dream partner, if I meet mine, I tend to love her more because she's all I ever dreamt of. I.e she has every quality I want in a woman.
The probability of that same girl seeing me as her dream man might just not be there. So I guess when we break up, I'll feel it more because she was the woman of my dream.
It happens both ways.

Most comments here keeps saying who invested more.

That means it's the lady that moves on faster because men tends to invest more most likely.

The one who stuffers the least loss would probably move on quicker. In other words, the one who gained more from the relationship would find it more difficult to move on.

If you don't add any tangible or intangible value to my life while dating, you don't expect me to be down when you're gone.

tesolmake:


It depends. Some females can still be trusted completely.

Like very few.

No female should be trusted completely..all of them are capable of doing the impossible, completely trusting a woman has been the foundation of the downfall of most men,don't just wear your heart on your sleeves,treat them right,care for them and take up a your responsibilities but do not for once ever completely trust a woman...do not wait to experience it before u know

You can do what u want sha,afterall,what do I know?I am just a teenager

Ayo2004:

No female should be trusted completely..all of them are capable of doing the impossible, completely trusting a woman has been the foundation of the downfall of most men,don't just wear your heart on your sleeves,treat them right,care for them and take up a your responsibilities but do not for once ever completely trust a woman...do not wait to experience it before u know

You can do what u want sha,afterall,what do I know?I am just a teenager

I doubt if you are a teenager though. Most of what you pointed out here are facts.

Who moves on faster? Men

Who heals faster? Women

aroundtheearth:
Who moves on faster? Men

Who heals faster? Women

This sounds complicating Bros.

Explain.

tesolmake:


I doubt if you are a teenager though. Most of what you pointed out here are facts.

I was born in 2004 but I was exposed very early to most things so I learnt what most adults learn at a young age

Ayo2004:

I was born in 2004 but I was exposed very early to most things so I learnt what most adults learn at a young age

No b small thing.

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