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unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by yinkaOdutuyo: 12:41pm On Feb 23
I have this girl am dating, I love her alot and I use to do everything she want for her to the extend that I pay her school fees.

All these expenses are making me broke, because by the time I pay for hair, handout, school fees, hostel rent and I'll also buy her clothes, shoes, bags and other ladies stuffs, all the little money I have will finish and I'll go broke and start thinking about my life.

Mind you i have a work am doing and I use to make money, but most of these money made, will be spend on my girl, to the extend that I hardly buy ordinary wears for myself.

Of a recent i have made up my mind to staer savings and stop spending or sponsoring a girl fake life.

Yesterday I got 60k work and I have completed it and I was paid.

From the 60k I save 20k in an investment mutual funds, which I can collect or have access to it until 6months, of which I'll be saving any money that i see from my works.

From the remain 40k that remain after i save 20k from the 60k. I paid service charge to my landlord 10j and I also buy foodstuffs to my house worth 10k, so i have extra 20k as pocket money.

And mind you my work is a moving work even before the end of today or this week, I'll still see another money.

I want to start a saving habit and stop impressing and stop funding a girl fake like (opor opor).

Pls is this decision ok. Or what other advice can you give me guys??
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Xenry: 12:42pm On Feb 23
Another case on Nairaland, una no dey tire? undecided
Chai, what exactly have you benefit from that relationship/girl? Just don't say Séx.
I wonder why some guys like to attach themselves to come certain Liabilities that they call Girlfriends.
There are chances that you guys won't even marry each other, so what's the use of playing a risky game? Falling in love is risky, and that's where you are now.
It's just like bet9ja, just a little thing can cut the game for you—also a little can cut any relationship.
You should know that it's dangerous for a man to fall in love, because love comes with emotions, and emotions are distractive especially when you are emotionally attached to someone (at least pray it won't be a Nigerian girl, lol.)
As for me and Myself wink, the only girl I can spend money on without expecting returns is my wife (not gf) and my mother. And note, séx won't be any f*cking returns. sad
What pains me even more is that those girls are broke, yet they won't accept to date broke guys. Who does that? They are always trying to take advantage of anything and everything.
Op, if you find it difficult to fix this situation, then break up with her—you won't lose a damn thing, but she would lose a lot (her source of income). It's difficult, yes I know — but it's for the sake of your sanity.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by fati2001(m): 12:42pm On Feb 23
JUST TAKE THE RED PILL

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by yinkaOdutuyo: 12:42pm On Feb 23
Xenry:
Another case on Nairaland, una no dey tire? undecided

Advice needed bro pls
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by yinkaOdutuyo: 12:46pm On Feb 23
fati2001:
JUST TAKE THE RED PILL

Ok bro, how does redpil work on spending on your girl?
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Officialgarri: 12:48pm On Feb 23
I still don't know how people manage to invest in a woman who is not yet their wife.

She would leave you when you go broke, because she's dependent and would often need someone to foot her bills.

Where many simps get it wrong is when they try to keep a lady by impressing her.

Damn, the proper way is to make a lady perceive you as someone that can give when you choose to and also refuse to give you when you don't feel like..

If she sticks with you, fine. If she doesn't, let her go for life.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Murjem(m): 12:50pm On Feb 23
Please can you hint us on the work you do that's moving like that...?

You might just be helping a fellow who knows??

To your question, the decision you have made is perfect. You owe no woman anything unless of course you just want to help, even a wife is limited to what she can get from her husband most times.

Please focus on your self investment and save those innocent sperms from unnecessary ejaculation!!

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Kobicove(m): 12:51pm On Feb 23
You're paying the school fees and rent of a lady who is not even your wife?! shocked

You're a real dunderhead! angry

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by harmargedon: 12:51pm On Feb 23
you don't need any advice, wait on nature to do that.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by fati2001(m): 12:51pm On Feb 23
yinkaOdutuyo:


Ok bro, how does redpil work on spending on your girl?

email me at @gmail..

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Spending123(m): 12:58pm On Feb 23
place your hands on your head and repeat after me " my father my father, anywhere they have placed my brain is it inside bottle or is it inside ugba tree let sense locate me O Lord. Amen. You better start investing on your parents and siblings now cos it will all end in tears.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Jack005(m): 1:00pm On Feb 23
These simps keep springing out from God knows where!

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by stupidmod3: 1:02pm On Feb 23
wow u never even settle down u don turn maga all this in return u get what

toto and cooking undecided

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by yinkaOdutuyo: 1:07pm On Feb 23
Officialgarri:
I still don't know how people manage to invest in a woman who is not yet their wife.

She would leave you when you go broke, because she's dependent and would often need someone to foot her bills.

Where many simps get it wrong is when they try to keep a lady by impressing her.

Damn, the proper way is to make a lady perceive you as someone that can give when you choose to and also refuse to give you when you don't feel like..

If she sticks with you, fine. If she doesn't, let her go for life.

Thanks bro
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Xenry: 1:27pm On Feb 23
yinkaOdutuyo:


Advice needed bro pls
I modified the comment, read the update! tongue
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by DaddyRochie1642(f): 1:52pm On Feb 23
I can bet that several of this man's Friends have once been in serious need of maybe Financial Help and the must have come to him to seek his help and he'll tell them the usual
"My brother the country is hard I can help you".... But look at him here spending everything he has and he's even going broke just to IMPRESS a Woman.

Oga even if you like Spend Heaven and Earth on a Woman, you can never buy her Love.

Men Like you Disgust me.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by SmellySperm(m): 1:53pm On Feb 23
ride on bro, you're a SIMP.le man by nature

meanwhile: you by the end of the year

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Mrscarter(f): 2:15pm On Feb 23
yinkaOdutuyo:
I have this girl am dating, I love her alot and I use to do everything she want for her to the extend that I pay her school fees.

All these expenses are making me broke, because by the time I pay for hair, handout, school fees, hostel rent and I'll also buy her clothes, shoes, bags and other ladies stuffs, all the little money I have will finish and I'll go broke and start thinking about my life.

Mind you i have a work am doing and I use to make money, but most of these money made, will be spend on my girl, to the extend that I hardly buy ordinary wears for myself.

Of a recent i have made up my mind to staer savings and stop spending or sponsoring a girl fake life.

Yesterday I got 60k work and I have completed it and I was paid.

From the 60k I save 20k in an investment mutual funds, which I can collect or have access to it until 6months, of which I'll be saving any money that i see from my works.

From the remain 40k that remain after i save 20k from the 60k. I paid service charge to my landlord 10j and I also buy foodstuffs to my house worth 10k, so i have extra 20k as pocket money.

And mind you my work is a moving work even before the end of today or this week, I'll still see another money.

I want to start a saving habit and stop impressing and stop funding a girl fake like (opor opor).

Pls is this decision ok. Or what other advice can you give me guys??

Coming from a woman I will tell U that U can never buy a woman's love.
Seems Ur just buying her attention. If she loved U she'd notice Ur wasting your hard earned money on useless n unnecassary things for her n going without yourself.
If she sees a future with U she would be suggesting U save for it not wasting it.
If I was you I'd stop the spending

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by emetisuccess(m): 3:43pm On Feb 23
Who send you?

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by fineboynl(m): 3:57pm On Feb 23
them say when he set. everyone will answer him papa name. always imagine your worst moment in life and the things you draid the most happen to you. check around and figure out the people that will stand by you at all time and the people that will japa. and I think those are the people you should invest on.

I am not after the fact you are helping her, but if the table turn if she will assist you.the truth is any girl that have entitlement mentality can never help you and stand by you in difficult time.

but ones that never ask until you give them and always contemted are most time the ones that can help you because they do appreciate every bit of things you do for them.

because when e set you will answer your father name.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by AFvckingAlpha(m): 4:02pm On Feb 23
The fvck


Niggarr!!


Thats best decision you will ever make in your life my niggarr!!

You were blind before now you can see my niggarr!

Continue like this and you will be fine.

I won't bash you for your foolish acts before cos you're wiser now.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by SweetCunt97(f): 4:09pm On Feb 23
yinkaOdutuyo:
I have this girl am dating, I love her alot and I use to do everything she want for her to the extend that I pay her school fees.

All these expenses are making me broke, because by the time I pay for hair, handout, school fees, hostel rent and I'll also buy her clothes, shoes, bags and other ladies stuffs, all the little money I have will finish and I'll go broke and start thinking about my life.

Mind you i have a work am doing and I use to make money, but most of these money made, will be spend on my girl, to the extend that I hardly buy ordinary wears for myself.

Of a recent i have made up my mind to staer savings and stop spending or sponsoring a girl fake life.

Yesterday I got 60k work and I have completed it and I was paid.

From the 60k I save 20k in an investment mutual funds, which I can collect or have access to it until 6months, of which I'll be saving any money that i see from my works.

From the remain 40k that remain after i save 20k from the 60k. I paid service charge to my landlord 10j and I also buy foodstuffs to my house worth 10k, so i have extra 20k as pocket money.

And mind you my work is a moving work even before the end of today or this week, I'll still see another money.

I want to start a saving habit and stop impressing and stop funding a girl fake like (opor opor).

Pls is this decision ok. Or what other advice can you give me guys??
Tell her you broke and work has stopped and see her reaction. Know if she's d supportive type

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Kondomatic(m): 4:35pm On Feb 23
Y'know, a lot of our Uncles came back from Panya with nothing but 8 battery cassette player and big Ghana must go back that had not more than 9 clothes inside.

The only thing they had in abundance was stories.

How they made money
How they dated beautifully beautiful women
How they had kids and all that.


But all these didn't come back with them.



Simply put, they wasted their youth, strength and ultimately life whoring in Panya.



Since people no longer travel to Panya to be useless, Panya has disguised as a woman and the OP is dating her.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by jesmond3945: 5:11pm On Feb 23
yinkaOdutuyo:
I have this girl am dating, I love her alot and I use to do everything she want for her to the extend that I pay her school fees.

All these expenses are making me broke, because by the time I pay for hair, handout, school fees, hostel rent and I'll also buy her clothes, shoes, bags and other ladies stuffs, all the little money I have will finish and I'll go broke and start thinking about my life.

Mind you i have a work am doing and I use to make money, but most of these money made, will be spend on my girl, to the extend that I hardly buy ordinary wears for myself.

Of a recent i have made up my mind to staer savings and stop spending or sponsoring a girl fake life.

Yesterday I got 60k work and I have completed it and I was paid.

From the 60k I save 20k in an investment mutual funds, which I can collect or have access to it until 6months, of which I'll be saving any money that i see from my works.

From the remain 40k that remain after i save 20k from the 60k. I paid service charge to my landlord 10j and I also buy foodstuffs to my house worth 10k, so i have extra 20k as pocket money.

And mind you my work is a moving work even before the end of today or this week, I'll still see another money.

I want to start a saving habit and stop impressing and stop funding a girl fake like (opor opor).

Pls is this decision ok. Or what other advice can you give me guys??
what of your mother?

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Wuenglishepp03: 5:33pm On Feb 23
Continue spending on her, GOD go rewards u., okay?
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Saucy1(m): 5:49pm On Feb 23
Op, you're doing well.
Continue spending on her, your reward is in Heaven... I don't get why guys be watering another man's farm for the owner.

Cut the unnecessary spendings and you'll see how you'd be saving and still got much cash for better stuffs and not spending on that gender that'll leave you if things go sideways.

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Shokoloko(f): 7:06pm On Feb 23
yinkaOdutuyo:
I have this girl am dating, I love her alot and I use to do everything she want for her to the extend that I pay her school fees.

All these expenses are making me broke, because by the time I pay for hair, handout, school fees, hostel rent and I'll also buy her clothes, shoes, bags and other ladies stuffs, all the little money I have will finish and I'll go broke and start thinking about my life.

Mind you i have a work am doing and I use to make money, but most of these money made, will be spend on my girl, to the extend that I hardly buy ordinary wears for myself.

Of a recent i have made up my mind to staer savings and stop spending or sponsoring a girl fake life.

Yesterday I got 60k work and I have completed it and I was paid.

From the 60k I save 20k in an investment mutual funds, which I can collect or have access to it until 6months, of which I'll be saving any money that i see from my works.

From the remain 40k that remain after i save 20k from the 60k. I paid service charge to my landlord 10j and I also buy foodstuffs to my house worth 10k, so i have extra 20k as pocket money.

And mind you my work is a moving work even before the end of today or this week, I'll still see another money.

I want to start a saving habit and stop impressing and stop funding a girl fake like (opor opor).

Pls is this decision ok. Or what other advice can you give me guys??

If you were my son eh.....
Shun premarital financial assistance

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Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Erojepromise(f): 8:07pm On Feb 23
are you aware that all the expenses you are shouldering doesn't mean at the end of everything the lady won't fall out of love for you?
do you also know that what you are doing is charitable spendings and not a guarantee to a marriage with her?if you don't know, know now that you are only being benevolent and at the end of it all and she doesn't get married to you, you can't hold her responsible for being a gold digger because she's not!!
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by i926: 8:54pm On Feb 23
yinkaOdutuyo:
I have this girl am dating, I love her alot and I use to do everything she want for her to the extend that I pay her school fees.

All these expenses are making me broke, because by the time I pay for hair, handout, school fees, hostel rent and I'll also buy her clothes, shoes, bags and other ladies stuffs, all the little money I have will finish and I'll go broke and start thinking about my life.

Mind you i have a work am doing and I use to make money, but most of these money made, will be spend on my girl, to the extend that I hardly buy ordinary wears for myself.

Of a recent i have made up my mind to staer savings and stop spending or sponsoring a girl fake life.

Yesterday I got 60k work and I have completed it and I was paid.

From the 60k I save 20k in an investment mutual funds, which I can collect or have access to it until 6months, of which I'll be saving any money that i see from my works.

From the remain 40k that remain after i save 20k from the 60k. I paid service charge to my landlord 10j and I also buy foodstuffs to my house worth 10k, so i have extra 20k as pocket money.

And mind you my work is a moving work even before the end of today or this week, I'll still see another money.

I want to start a saving habit and stop impressing and stop funding a girl fake like (opor opor).

Pls is this decision ok. Or what other advice can you give me guys??
Just swallow The Red Pill. It is a tough route to take when you want to see things clearly and be free from the shackles of craps.

You wont regret it but I bet you, there will be lot of changes in your life.
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by mrgbenga1: 9:14pm On Feb 23
Wisdom is profitable to direct. Get wisdom.
Re: unnecessary spending on my girlfriend is making me broke. by Stephenmoka4(m): 10:33pm On Feb 23
There is a time to raise that flag and stop. The girl is hurting your financial life, which is bad for you please stop

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