I remembered when we have our first kiss and she got really wet(no sex), she was just asking me how I did it

Yankee0071:
Just try your possible best to be a good friend & perhaps a lover to her. Try not to take advantage of her vulnerability. Since you claimed to like her also, you two are good to go & if sex happens so be it. since you're both adults.

Yankee0071:
Just try your possible best to be a good friend & perhaps a lover to her. Try not to take advantage of her vulnerability. Since you claimed to like her also, you two are good to go & if sex happens so be it. since you're both adults.

Kriss216:
Hahahaha

The truth is, the OP is the vulnerable one here.

waleyp:
Are you going to marry her? If you are just friends and you ain't going to marry maybe you shouldn't... She is broken already don't break her the more. What if you ended up having sex but didn't end up getting married to her... You gonna break the already broken heart... I know she go dey curse the rapist, don't let her curse you too... Or you just ask her if having sex with her will not have any strings attached to it.... Lobatan.

EzegeNdiigbo:
Xex is definitely the answer

But tread with caution

Godoverevery:
same line....lol

Most of them say the same thing..... I don't fall for the BS neither should you... they're always victim

Kriss216:
Hahahaha

The truth is, the OP is the vulnerable one here.

callmeRichie:


Apart from some of them mofos, some of them are really real with this u know

My brother, I have no problem with her wanting to have sex with you. To me, it's a sign she finds you attractive.

However, before you go ahead with the sex, make sure you do the following in chronological order.

1. First, have evidences that she indeed wants you two to start having sex. For example, have a conversation with her again about the sex and secretly record the conversation. Video recording is better but you can settle for audio too if her voice can be easily recognizable in the recording. Also, if you guys chat online (on WhatsApp, Facebook or other platforms), chat with her about the sex such that she will reveal she really wants it. Once you have the evidence, save them in a permanent place in case you need them in the future.

The reason you MUST do the above is to protect yourself against false rape accusation in the future. Trust me, she can bleeped you up in the future if she wants to. Your evidences of initial agreement for sex is what will save you.

2. Once you have done the above and you guys have agreed on having sex, tell her you want the two of you to do some medical tests to ensure you and her are clean. In the least case, do HIV test. Note that HIV test is free in standard hospital.

3. Try to use condom always, even if the medical tests show she's clean. This is to protect against pregnancy and other STDs. N100 condom can save you a lifetime of pain.

4. As you guys have sex, repeat method 1 above from time to time to see if she has changed her mind concerning the sex. If you notice she has changed her mind, kindly cut off the sex because she can claim you rape her or took advantage of her.

Stay ahead of female's game bro. I wish you all the best.

callmeRichie:
I won't want to bore you with a long epistle here, so I'll make it as simple as possible.

How can I help a rape victim?

I met a beautiful young lady early last year, and we really got so close over time. I became part of her life someway, shared some deep part of her life with me, in short she couldn't really do anything without really consulting me first.

Yeah, along the way emotions set in, and I wouldn't want to lie that I didn't like her too.

So late last year, she told me how she was raped back in her 100l days, a story only few of her family sef knew! They just got to know of recent sef. Mind you she was just 18 at the time.

It was so bad that she didn't even know that this monster was married! He just took advantage of her innocence and curiosity to try out new things! Well the bull dog had his way the night she allowed him paid her a visit!(Her greatest mistake as she always says) Worst of it was that this man still went back home with everything he got for her! As in everything he brought along for her that night!

To cut the story short, after this experience, it has been so awful emotionally. You know how bad it could be if you ever have anybody with this same experience. She hates men! and vowed never to get married again not until we met!

This was when I came in the picture. I think I gave her hope. I remembered when we have our first kiss and she got really wet(no sex), she was just asking me how I did it? That she has tried her best to be moved buh never.

Now the problem...

She has been pestering and begging me to have sex with her these days. She says she really wanna feel like a real woman again, that she might forget the experience if I could paint another picture about sex to her, that sex can be enjoyed. And she really wanna do it again this time with who me she loves.

Do you think sex is really the answer??

How can I help her and she won't really go back into that shape again??

Is sex really the answer??

Ketapu:
My brother, I have no problem with her wanting to have sex with you. To me, it's a sign she finds you attractive.

However, before you go ahead with the sex, make sure you do the following in chronological order.

1. First, have evidences that she indeed wants you two to start having sex. For example, have a conversation with her again about the sex and secretly record the conversation. Video recording is better but you can settle for audio too if her voice can be easily recognizable in the recording. Also, if you guys chat online (on WhatsApp, Facebook or other platforms), chat with her about the sex such that she will reveal she really wants it. Once you have the evidence, save them in a permanent place in case you need them in the future.

The reason you MUST do the above is to protect yourself against false rape accusation in the future. Trust me, she can bleeped you up in the future if she wants to. Your evidences of initial agreement for sex is what will save you.

2. Once you have done the above and you guys have agreed on having sex, tell her you want the two of you to do some medical tests to ensure you and her are clean. In the least case, do HIV test. Note that HIV test is free in standard hospital.

3. Try to use condom always, even if the medical tests show she's clean. This is to protect against pregnancy and other STDs. N100 condom can save you a lifetime of pain.

4. As you guys have sex, repeat method 1 above from time to time to see if she has changed her mind concerning the sex. If you notice she has changed her mind, kindly cut off the sex because she can claim you rape her or took advantage of her.

Stay ahead of female's game bro. I wish you all the best.

callmeRichie:


I always ask her if she's really sure if she's ready for this, and her answer still remains yes. if it's left to me, I really don't wanna do anything cuz m not sure I can mange sex in a relationship. It's not easy on my part too buh still think it would b difficult on my part to manage too.

Well don't know sha...

Kriss216:
Women and their manipulative games.




Ordinary kiss, she got wet, not just wet, really wet, yet she claimed she hates men.


Nna, don't fall for all these gimmicks from vagina people. Use your head and swim responsibly.