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Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by SmileB1(m): 7:34am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Plan and have an exact amount you want to spend for the own month, change the DSTV for GOTV (subscription is low), work on things that expenses can be cut on, all the best 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Nobody: 7:34am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Especially on the guys, Oga na God oh. it's not been easy 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by SIRRITE: 7:35am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx: My dear i feel ur pain cos am there too, but i ask myself, is there anything i can do for my parents that is too enough to appreciate them while they are still alive?? Some spend so much running into millions for their parents burial when they are dead, but cant cater for them while they are alive,cos they will say him or she owns them nothing, but when is time for burial u will see them spending so much. My dear dont be feel depressed, finitely they are seeing wat u are doing, they are praying for u, they are crying for u for blessings, keep doing wat u doing for ur parents. 7 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by 15ssDRIVE(m): 7:38am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: Correct teacher......... I know a stingy guy... he is doing very well,because guy no see you,and him no send you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by KvngEric: 7:39am On Feb 27, 2021 |
HappyNigerian: Sir, please adopt me as a brother . So i can be flexing free weekly airtime and pocket money. My parents stopped giving us money for airtime and pocket money when we graduated from uni. So everybody dey fend for himself and its good to me cos too much dependence on someone else made some of us lazy. 4 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by babzlim(m): 7:39am On Feb 27, 2021 |
To him much is given much is also expected... He didn't feed or school himself to that level... This question is asked by people who Is looking to run away from responsibility. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by SIRRITE: 7:40am On Feb 27, 2021 |
alexola20: U said ur mother want to kill u?? Oga the vision or prophecy they told u is not true |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by authority2006(m): 7:42am On Feb 27, 2021 |
HappyNigerian: You have to put yourself on top of the list first, that includes your health. Then, wife and kids if you have. Then, your parents basic needs. And if possible, little investment for them. They could be selling bulbs, padlocks and all those small household items in front of the house. There is a lot of profit in it. Then, follow by more savings and investments for yourself, for your future and that of your nuclear family. Lastly, the little things you can do for your siblings and other family members. It shouldn't be on top of your to-do list at all. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by cocolacec(m): 7:42am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Antoeni: Funny man,you need to invest in your wife to share the burden of expenses. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by ndat(m): 7:43am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Just focus on your old parents as for the rest get a piece of land and start building project with this you have excuses when ever they ask for money. Just tell them u are working on your site. They will survive definitely but seeing that u aren't really doing anything with money and you deny them, you will be object of mockery should any of them make it in life. Though, you can support them with school fees. 3 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Cutehector(m): 7:44am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Yxxx:this one is just too serious in his life...shift |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Offpoint1: 7:45am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx:Sorry my sister, the thing can be frustrating... No kill yourself, do those you can and leave the rest. May God open bigger ways for you. 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by vecman22(m): 7:45am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Zanxx: Hmmmm this sounds like too much burden on you already 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by authority2006(m): 7:47am On Feb 27, 2021 |
babzlim: How can you be so sure? You would be surprised to know what many people passed through before getting to where they are today! It is not about running away from responsibility, it is about prioritising one's responsibility with the little income you have. You've got to prioritise when you don't have enough or excess money to go round unless you want to be down with stroke or something 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by vecman22(m): 7:48am On Feb 27, 2021 |
SIRRITE: You think its easy abi,from what that girl said up there its obvious she's going thru alot at her age ,dont forget she has her own life to plan 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 7:51am On Feb 27, 2021 |
alizma: Thank you |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 7:52am On Feb 27, 2021 |
vecman22: It is. I am constantly checking my Bp because I keep getting palpitations |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 7:53am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Offpoint1: Amen and thank you |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Offpoint1: 7:53am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Antoeni:Na diz kind plenty wahala make men dey naturally kpai first before women.... Widows full everywhere. 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by awulio(f): 7:54am On Feb 27, 2021 |
If they call you stingy then stop sending money. Only send to your parents. Put your parents on monthly salary. If they can’t use the salary to pay their bills then it means they living above their means....if your younger ones call you stingy, immediately stop sending them money...you wasting money buying airtime every week for them. HappyNigerian: |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 7:54am On Feb 27, 2021 |
SIRRITE: Medaase (thank you) |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Elsueno: 7:55am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Well, I can take care of virtually everything my parents need and will do so gladly. Though they actually don't need anything form me financially..I just do it as courtesy. But u see my brothers & sisters ehn.......there is nothing like recharge card money. if am in good mood I give something for the month. besides, they use my stuff without asking most of d time anyways 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 7:56am On Feb 27, 2021 |
authority2006: Anytime I talk about moving out, the emotional blackmail starts. You will be surprised by the number of people who call to talk me out of it. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Slimfeez(m): 7:56am On Feb 27, 2021 |
HappyNigerian:.... It's ain't easy at all when you are the head of the house, and no one is there to be of help. I will suggest if we want to leave this circle, have multiple stream of income. I am a living testimony and sometime it pissed me off whenever I received a call especially when it involved sorting out some bills, I have multiple investment running in some legit investment company, so whatever I get from there monthly, I use it to settle some of the bills... If you care to learn more about what you can do, don't hesitate to comment below. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Nobody: 7:58am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Advert for palm pay and you lifted everything#aishafromcarbon sent out yesterday . I hope carbon sues you guys. Bills ko billing ni |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Heterodox(m): 7:58am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Culture is in every way different. Family is our heritage in Africa. If Africa lose that there'll be nothing left. Take care of the bills if you can, someone paid yours before you're grown. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by wman(m): 8:02am On Feb 27, 2021 |
Black Tax. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Zanxx(f): 8:04am On Feb 27, 2021 |
IMASTEX: It's very frustrating, my dear. Sometimes I just don't feel like going back home after I close from work. 2 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by DissTroy(m): 8:04am On Feb 27, 2021 |
If you are the grown first son of the first son of a large extended family, then you'd have extended family members reaching out to you, not just for money but advice, and resolving issues and more. Subconsciously, these things get imprinted on our minds growing up that you are the family heir so it even affects our dating lives. Unlike others, we can't just screw, date or, worse, marry just about any girl because the girl has to have certain qualities, including being accommodating and motherly, and knowing she'd have to be a queen mother in a kingdom of some sorts. She has to be very cultured and while the nuclear family comes first, she doesn't alienate the rest of the family from getting access to you, and it's not necessarily money. She'd be highly respected though and everyone is interested in who becomes your wife. One of the many reasons I've never been wild, or done drugs, gotten drunk or ever dated wild girls or have been with fewer girls than most males my age and exposure - I've always thought of the long term. Interestingly, it all feels normal to me. 1 Like |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Blackdisciple(m): 8:04am On Feb 27, 2021 |
How man go do na , those are your people The ones am able to reach out to I reach. The ones I couldn't reach out to at that time has to excersice patient cos man no go kill himself ooo. |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by descarado: 8:05am On Feb 27, 2021 |
The problem is our parents don't plan for old age. We have that sense of entitlement that our children must take care of us. We that are complaining are making the same mistakes. 11 Likes |
Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by johnnychuks(m): 8:08am On Feb 27, 2021 |
donbachi:una dey hear mumu talk? |
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