Cheating is one thing and whom you cheated with is another thing. Cheating in a relationship is bad and terrible, but cheating with these set of people is another thing. Ladies don't chest with these people, it may be so hard to restore the relationship.

(1) Your husband's bestfriend or Your fiance/boyfriend's bestfriend. This is so horrible that even if reconciliation is done, the scars of the bethrayal may still be there. The thought of a best friend on someone's wife is sickening.

(2) Your Houseboy or Gate man: A lady should never try this. This will lead to gross humiliation and degradation of your husband/boyfriend's prestige. Of all people, gateman or houseboy.

(3) Your EX: This kills confidence so much. Even if there is reconciliation, there could still be great fear of repetition, since EX can be strong people in a person's life.

(4) Your Neighbor: This will bring total shame and stigma to your boyfriend/husband, except he packs out of that area. If he built a house there, then he has to face the shame there...

(5) Agbero: Cheating with a tout or igboo smoker is humiliating. Imagine group of agberos saying "you see that fine woman inside that jeep with her husband, I chop an"... Your husband/fiance may find it hard to bear.

Never cheat. Period.

A cheat is a cheat. A cheat cheats with anyone or even thing without considering those things listed.
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