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Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by oracle009(m): 1:49pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
sleekman: Get well soon Sir |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Sheila147: 1:52pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Oga you are a wicked man and a ritualist that is what I understood |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Pendragon001: 1:58pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
either present or not, his mother-in-law has no right to do anything concerning his child without his express permission. to the guy, you are the one that knows where the shoe pinches in your relationship, but you have to consider several factors before making your final decision, in the meantime, you can ignore everyone and be alone to clear your head and know what you want to do next. childs naming can be done anytime you feel you're ready, just let them know that they can't give name your child as anything they do in that regards is a waste of their time. I, like many people here may not understand exactly how you feel because scenarios will always be different, but having been in and survived a suffocating relationship, I will only say do what is best for your sanity and be truthful to yourself when answering the questions as to why you don't want her anymore. But above all know that time and patience resolves a lot of things, don't loose a diamond while picking up stones. chatinent: |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by osazsky(m): 2:01pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
AbujaCitiBlog:what do u want to do with a placenta..y are u stressing issues..i see nothing wrong here..the guy and d wife are seprated..the mom is taking care of her daughter..the guy must have driven d wife away..if the hus was sane..ur wife is in labour in a hospital and he is talking of work or busy at the office..while my wife gave birth i abandoned everything and stood by her.since the guy is stupid and foolishly dieing in pride the mum buried the placenta..if its impt to him he should go and exume it and burie it in his fsthers house wat lvl of irresponsibility. 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by josite: 2:02pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
from your own mouth ,you are already separated as she is not under your roof.do u expect them to keep the placenta inside fridge.? 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by nan1: 2:02pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
What is wrong in them buring the placenta? are they supposed to keep it in fridge till you come back or what? Pls sort out your problems with her cos i know placenta is not the cause 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Raymeg7(m): 2:03pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
TainyLite:the truth is that , there is no way we can advise, because, 1, we don't know what is wrong between u and ur wife, 2, placenta can't cause problem if ur family or her family buried it, I don't think it matters if any buried it, I can only comes in when u tell us the real problem between both of u, her mother trying to control ur family is not enough for ur wife to stay with her mom for about 5 months now. My opinion please 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by OJPraise(f): 2:08pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
seborrhic: You are so right everything else seem wrong. Na wetin go happen be this 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by osazsky(m): 2:09pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Raymeg7:who drives a heavily pregnant woman out of his house and he is talking of work while his wife was fighting for her life .now he is fighting for a placenta not even a baby.we know his type.we all work but there is time for everything.look at him shouthing that he paid d hospital bill.how much is d bill .d guy just described himself if the wife was here you will het shock on the type of person he is pround arrogant man who feels cuz he works he is d lord og his house and sends a pregnant woman away when she needed him to be by her side spits kids everywhere 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by osazsky(m): 2:14pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
AbujaCitiBlog:i have been to 5 diff countries over there placrnta is poo..ask your elders y a man should drive a heavily ptegnant woman out of his house at the middle of the night..your wife dey labour u dey talk of job 3 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Moferere: 2:17pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
AbujaCitiBlog: Uncultured element. I will gladly report you |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by britiko: 2:17pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
TainyLite: U should av made urself available at delivery time if you so need d placenta. Is she expected to keep a decomposing body part? In Africa, Culture makes hospitals hand it over to parents but abroad its discarded. Thank ur MIL for standing in d gap. Secondly if u can't stand ur wife, waka o. Let her live a productive life for d sake of d children. Continue ur bitterness elsewhere. 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by LikeAking: 2:20pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
sunshineV: U don pikin b4? |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by pennywys(m): 2:20pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
TainyLite: The placenta, you want chop ham? |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by adisabarber(m): 2:21pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Should she have flushed it down the toilet or given it to a dog to eat? TainyLite: |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by jelel6: 2:21pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
I was so curious when I saw the headline. This is the first time I'm hearing that a baby's placenta carries any significance to anybody, up to the extent that the father or someone in particular needs to bury it or plant trees on it! Well, like they say about tradition, we are who we are and we believe what we believe. Op, but what I do know is that your priorities at this time should read -> new baby -> new mother (wife) -> marriage -> then placenta. And also, when people are angry or not in best terms with you, don't expect them to do things that make YOU happy. In essence, your wife or MIL won't refrigerate placenta and transport it to you like they do Corona vaccines. If only the midwifes do you all the favour and disposed off the thing you'll all have nothing else to worry about. |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Moferere: 2:22pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
etrouble: Get your facts correctly, from what he has written, he has not shown any sense of responsibility. Even if you are a military man and you are on the war front, you will be given a pass to go witness the arrival of your baby. I put it to you, why was he too busy to be around when his wife gave birth? If you need placenta, common sense demands that you stay around 5 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Crocif: 2:22pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
TainyLite: I am trying hard to understand what the deal is. My MIL buried my son's placenta some two years ago and the heavens did not fall. PS: If your wife slapped you while you were asleep, you may want to ask yourself what you did wrong. My guess is you know already. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Moferere: 2:24pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Obason22: I have read it again and again, he's not responsible. He gave his wife money for baby materials on the day of delivery. He was too busy to stay around his wife on the day of her delivery. Who does that? 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Moferere: 2:29pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Obason22: Massage kor, smooching ni |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by NegeduGrace(f): 2:31pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
chatinent:God bless you,, he thinks he's some sort of a god that should be worshipped |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by hismond(m): 2:32pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
TainyLite: Go to their house, sit her down with her mum & tell them to their faces clearly that the child is yours & the location for the naming ceremony is your decision to make & as such they are both leaving with you that day or latest the following morning. Appreciate the mum's effort & make it known to her that you are not pleased about the way she went with the placenta & whatever she may have done in the past. State your facts clearly, but remain polite. In all honesty, you have a big blame in all of this. Your story is 1 sided & clearly shows you've done many things wrongly |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Vicyace: 2:34pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Moferere: There is a lot you don’t know. |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by criuze(m): 2:39pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
the truth is that you're bless with job , a wife and now a child well if you allow minor issue of mother in law spoil your marriage you may not like it just patience everything will settle it self |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Exodora: 2:40pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Married people won't let us enjoy this app in peace . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Camberlo(m): 2:40pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
TainyLite: Now, the truth of the matter is you have had it to your mouth and tired of your wife attitudes. But my advice to your is to be patience, because patience solves millions problems. Come to think of it, when you met your wife, both of you loves each other. She gave birth to your children now and you are happy man. Divorce is the solution but is never way out. If you divorce her, another woman would use same divorce to mock you anytime you have little disagreement. She would refer to it, that if you are a man enough, why did your first wife ran away. Think about your children, no matter how bad your wife is, raising her children under their father roof give them million joys and confidence in the society. Finally, as to the issue of ceremony, I believe your parent want better for you. Husband parent mostly tolerate wife family, don't let little ego spoil your future. Please, for the sake of yourself, children, future, singles out there who are looking up to you, kindly accept her offer and do the necessary. I swear she would regret in the nearest future and beg for forgiveness. Think of the time, day, night your make love to her and she was pregnant. I believed you smile when you did it, so accept her flaws for now. Make your parents understand and beg them. I will also include you in my prayers, I also need prayers. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Moferere: 2:42pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Vicyace:I don't want to know. He's not proven to be responsible. 1. He's an absentee father, even if you're a military man, they will give you a pass to go witness the birth of your baby. 2. He said he gave his wife money for baby items on the day of delivery. C'mon, a responsible father buys this before the day of delivery. 3. 6 days after delivery, he has not checked his new child, because of a rift with the mother in law. How do you tell me that he's responsible? 5 Likes |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by Yankee101: 2:51pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
So no be placenta be issue? You can't stand your wife is the issue. Have you tried counselling? |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by MummyD2020(f): 2:57pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
Kriss216: U are hilarious. But u know say life na turn by turn. You will soon join the moving train |
Re: My Mother-In-Law Buried My Son's Placenta by MummyD2020(f): 3:05pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
oracle009:You are wise. May God bless your home |
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