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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by 99thEnemy(m): 9:48am On Mar 12
NairalandEnemy:

Hahahahah...you vex bro smiley

Why I no go Vex?

Try Register grin
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Emperoradrian(m): 10:02am On Mar 12
Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho


So all d money he has been giving to d mom before he married d gal, did not cause him misfortune, and now all of a sudden d wife blivs DAT giving d mom money d cause misfortune..... Nigga tink twice, if I have been doing well, catering for my mom, before I got married, and all of a sudden after marriage, things begin to dwindle, na my wife I go question o, because na she b d new person for d family, she don carry her village ppl come.
And u d talk observe, observe, omo if ur mama na witch u go know, no be person go tell u, no be person go tell u say ur mama food no sweet, na u go tell ursef.
Go kneel down now, beg ur mama for forgiveness, for coming here to type DAT trash, and even thinking of her being a witch.
I go beat u o.....

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Ejikechinedum: 10:04am On Mar 12
Common Sense can not tell you that your wife wants to ruin the relationship between you and your family so that she can own and control you the way she likes. Use your head before your wife go behead you bro.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by ChelseaDr(m): 10:04am On Mar 12
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

God bless you a million times!!!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by ceeceeuwa: 10:09am On Mar 12
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Must your wife know when your mother request for money? Must you take permission from her? I don't understand these breed of men?
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Rrex99(m): 10:26am On Mar 12
Mr. Chuks, it's very unfortunate that you married the wrong wife.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by naijadrivablog: 10:38am On Mar 12
Nkem222:
honestly I understand your point but the guy didnt notice anything fetish about the mum until he married his wife.the wife must be fetish to know that her mother in law is fetish

Sometimes, it takes someone else to make us realise certain things.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by kalu61(m): 10:40am On Mar 12
Godarz:
Account opened on March 10, 2021

Thread created on same day

Moved to front page post haste...

Hmm

I dey nod my head like Agama lizard....
People open new account to post their personal problems in order not to be identified with their old account.

It's common

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nobody: 10:45am On Mar 12
kalu61:
People open new account to post their personal problems in order not to be identified with their old account.

It's common

I agree. Still...
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by tamunobello: 11:06am On Mar 12
She is just jealous
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by ogwumgbe: 11:08am On Mar 12
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.


You are a very wise man . The guy who opened this thread shouls ask himself if he's progressing or going down. If he's still prospering, then the mother should go on with her fetish things towards him. Some wives are just stupid. They try by all means to remove hubby's eyes from the one that carried him for nine months. Pathetic, selfish and extremely wicked indeed

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by eazyduzit: 11:09am On Mar 12
You're now upgraded to a fool, you're once an idiot.
how dare you allow one Yar Duri Uwa to tell you that your mother is fetish?
And you foolishly allow her to stay in your house.
You're indeed a WAWA.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Ruggedpen: 11:11am On Mar 12
pozehnani:
Correct?? Is she a mathematics answer?

On a more serious note, it's your wife whos fetish for having such thoughts.

Have you ever experienced any financial setbacks since you've been helping your mother? If no, then continue helping her and don't send it through your wife.
what is happening here is the battle of supremacy, your wife want your mother to be loyal to her, by been the one to give her money, to achieved this, is by tagging her a fetish person. But in going forward don't discuss your mother with your wife again, give without telling her.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by pozehnani(f): 11:13am On Mar 12
Ruggedpen:
what is happening here is the battle of supremacy, your wife want your mother to be loyal to her, by been the one to give her money, to achieved this, is by tagging her a fetish person. But in going forward don't discuss your mother with your wife again, give without telling her.


Exactly!

I wonder why op would even seek his wife's permission before giving his mother anything. When the money is not jointly owned by both of them.

Op dense.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by ogwumgbe: 11:16am On Mar 12
Omihanifa:


I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.

In this case, the lady is totally wrong. If the hubby suddenly started having financial problems, and she investigated and found out the mum is a witch, it will be a different ball game. But the hubby is still prospering to the extent of sending the usual money. What I sense here battle of supremacy between the wife and the mother in law. And in my conclusion, the wife is evil and wicked and has no regard for the mother in law
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Sirglasses(m): 11:17am On Mar 12
this boy is funny! your own mom..you even taking that from your wife shows that you are just a simpleton! Your mom who has been there from the onset giving you the best life should could..and a stranger came in a couple of years accusing your mom of being fetish with boldness! and you are here acting weak..is a pity !you are worst than I thought..do you know how many people who never had the golden opportunity you are enjoying today? Wake up this boy!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by pansophist(m): 11:29am On Mar 12
So if you send the money through her, will it deliver your mum from her fetishism and witchy activities? God in heavens knows that any lady that will open her dirty mouth and said such about my mum, the marriage is done. She knows you're a weak simp, and is convinced that her teeth will still be in order after uttering such rubbish about your mum.

Where do idiots like you find this kind of devil to marry sef? When women complain about lack of eligible suitors to marry, they are simply avoiding your kind. You're a disgrace to anyone that comes in contact with you. Reading your rubbish just made me unnecessarily angry. Nonsense. undecided

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by penplus: 11:31am On Mar 12
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

please take good care of your mother, your reward for doing that is uncountable. May GOD give you the wisdom to do the right thing
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by IgboWarlord(m): 11:33am On Mar 12
Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho



ɬąɧ,ɱɛƈɧıɛ ơŋų ɠı ɖıą!!!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by kurlz(f): 11:36am On Mar 12
You don't know that God is blessing you the more because you are taking care of your mother?
Even the Bible says we should honor our parents.

Those your siblings it's not a curse o, you will forever excel over them if they don't change.

This is my advice for you, try and build her a mini flat since paying rent is becoming a burden on you and try to set her up on a small business. So she can be independent. Then you send her money whenever you have.

Make sure your wife is not aware.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Daradared2: 11:43am On Mar 12
I wish make i see you give you dirty slap! Nonsense!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by kurlz(f): 11:51am On Mar 12
Note that God is blessing you the more because you are taking care of your mother.
You will forever excel over your siblings except they change. It's not a curse it's the truth the Bible commanded us to honor our parents, it's the first commandment with a promise they say.

My advice for you is to build your mother a mini flat since the rent is taking it's toll on you. Also set up a small business for her so she can be independent.
Then you can be sending her money when convenient. But mind you make sure your wife is not aware. She will stop it.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Origin(f): 12:02pm On Mar 12
It shows the level at which you have placed your family in the hands of your wife..

You talk too much and show off to your wife and she has seen you finish. and you treat your whole family with levity.

You that if they mention your mother, your wife should run from the room.

As a wife, she should have never been invited into your family matter, should not know their story and should not know how much money exchange hands between family members.


It protects everybody and everybody should mind their business
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by BlackPantherCri: 12:04pm On Mar 12
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Your wife is a witch!

Mother that birthed you has not been fetish until you grew, matured and got married!

O da bi o to ya werey
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by midehill(m): 12:07pm On Mar 12
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Dude you need to man up... Your side sees that you are a weakling and she is trying to capitalise on that
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by bedoab10k(m): 12:13pm On Mar 12
Is this the best way to pay your mom back? As to your wife, she should expect payback from her children.
Don't let jazebel come between you and your mother. Continue to take good care of your mom.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by owxy22(m): 12:15pm On Mar 12
How can you allow someone from another family to tell you about a mother you practically spent all your life with? This is a very high level of stupidity. Please be more enlightened, take care of your mother.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by benqo01(m): 12:18pm On Mar 12
Yes your wife maybe right,I have seen a mother who killed all her children,brought pain upon her own children and even .Things do happen and we all have to be prayerful.

Another issue I will like to point out is,whenever you give your mother money do you notice setbacks? If so then you have to channel the money to your wife to give her directly.If not continue giving her.

As for your wife she has to watch her mouth,why will she say such thing without an evidence.How did she even know if she isn't fetish as well.

Don't let her ruin the relationship you have with your mother,she might be doing it out of hatred towards your mum,you just have to use wisdom
To handle this issue.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by inyanging: 12:25pm On Mar 12
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

MY SON GOD WILL BLESS U ,THE HOLY BIBLE ADMONISHED US TO HONOR OUR PARENT FOR OUR DAYS TO BE LONG ON EARTH, THAT U HAVE DONE , FORGIVE UR WIFE FOR ILL ADVISING U, JUST THINK OF GOD& UR MOTHER, WE ARE WHO WE BC OF GOD & OUR MOTHER , SHE WIL not have GOTTEN MARRIAGE TO IF UR MUM DID not ENDURED TO NURTURE U WELL, SHE WILL REAP WHATEVER SHE SOW
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by benqo01(m): 12:28pm On Mar 12
Later they will say mother in-laws are bad,can you imagine this rubbish coming out from a wife.

The same mother that you knelt down to greet because you wanted to marry her son,has now become a witch because you have finally settled down in your marriage.

And she has a mother at home,can she stand and watch someone call her mother a witch?

Some wives are becoming something else these days if you don't take time they will make you hate your whole family.

BECAREFUL!!¡!!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by wallarwallar(m): 12:31pm On Mar 12
Useless baby men everywhere ... Can u imagine u need someone approval to take care of your mother .. U mumu pass mumu . Take care of your mother and stop telling your wife about everything you do or plan to do for your mother.. True Caring people dont make noise ...
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by icankel: 12:54pm On Mar 12
DaddyRochie1642:
Some Men are really WEAK.

I pray I never have a son like this because I'll Curse him and Disown him.... Nonsense.
I don't know u but I like u already. much respect

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