I always imagined that i'd date a fine guy, tall and well built (physically). and i never imagined dating anyone younger than me. the deal is, there's this guy in my school, hez tall, cute and lanky, and hez younger than me, hez not really the kinda person u'll call "the happening guy" (if u knw wat i mean). Hez extremely shy and i find that to be sooo cute and attractive and endearing. He has these things he says, these slangs and words,.,, and they're just so funny, he likes me, i know he does, everyone does infact,

i think i like him, i dont know the extent, but i think i do,
i dont know the signs, or how u know u like someone, but i know: i think of him quite a lot these days,
i know anytime i remember the things he says, those slangs, i laugh,
he finds it hard to express himself and i know i enjoy watching him try and fumble (soooooo cute),
and i know these days when im around him i cant help thinking i want to kiss him,

i always try to find reasons y i shouldnt like every guy i tend to like. This guy isnt evrything i dreamed of in a guy, no doubt, hez kinda geeky, not physically built, shy, and im older than him but isnt the important thing supposed to be being with someone who makes you happy? isnt it supposed to be about liking someone who likes u 2 for real i keep having these debates within myself, i really need advice,

Awww

mbell:

he likes me, i know he does,  everyone does infact,

Everyone likes you?








Or, do you mean, [size=16pt]Everybody Knows[/size]?

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If you like him, go for it.

So what advice do you need?


You have no problem here, you are just creating problems for yourself.


You like him, he like you and he make you feel happy. To add to that, he's funny.

But he's not  physically built and he's shy, WTF


First of all, lets clear the "physically built" part. Not everyone was born with the perfect body.

Infact most guys have to built their bod. Including all those celebrities that we drool over. Nobody was born with the perfect six pack.


About the shyness part, Nobody was born shy.

people are just quiet on a certain thing, or either uncomfortable in a certain environment. Get to know this young man more, your discovery will shock you.
Take me for instance, some people think I am a shy girl. And other people think I am outgoing and bubble. But I am neither both. My action differ with different people.

Infact I like reserved guys, who are laid by. Listen to other people, and talk when needed. Not those overly cocky guys that always need to be the centre of attention, or the cool guy on the block.

Physics, you are a hilarious dude 

Rokiatu, you seemed fascinated with Indians. Why is this? I'm just curious. Are there a lot of them where you live? (Not saying there is anything wrong with this, just wondering how it happened.) Did you watch a lot of Bollywood movies as a kid or something? 

@op this sounds like one of the illusion novel I saw online for $3.99 I forgot the name.

Don't commit just yet go out on a few dates, hang out a few times and see if he is some one you really want to be with.

ekt_bear:

Physics, you are a hilarious dude  

Rokiatu, you seemed fascinated with Indians. Why is this? I'm just curious. Are there a lot of them where you live? (Not saying there is anything wrong with this, just wondering how it happened.) Did you watch a lot of Bollywood movies as a kid or something?  

Trust me, I would not even date an Indian guy unless he's Salman Khan, Hrithik, John Abraham, Arjun Rampal, or Shahid

I didn't watch bollywood movies as a kid. I watch them now lol

To be clear, I am not fascinated by Indians. I just find some Indian actors hot.

And you forgot to mention the amazing number of indians in your locality

I pay no attention to that.

I live in a multicultural society.

rokiatu:

people are just quiet on a certain thing, or either uncomfortable in a certain environment. Get to know this young man more, your discovery will shock you.
Take me for instance, some people think I am a shy girl. And other people think I am outgoing and bubble. But I am neither both. My action differ with different people.

Infact I like reserved guys, who are laid by. Listen to other people, and talk when needed. Not those overly cocky guys that always need to be the centre of attention, or the cool guy on the block.

I like all of this!

Since you say he falls short of certain physical qualities you want your dream man to possess, it means you will be compromising your standards just to be with him. Go ahead if you know you gonna be satisfied and happy inspite of him not being your `type` but if you know deep down in your heart that you won`t be pleased, don`t go there.

For a relationship the character of the person is the most important thing.

You have to trust him, he have to be there for him, he have to be your best friend and you must be able to talk about everything with him.

The rest does not really matter. I remember the first time I saw my boyfriend: I was like, WOW whats that

He was really not my type but I gave him a chance and I saw that he was a really good guy and until now he was always there for me and we become really best friends.

Give him a chance

He's there for the taking. . . .all yours, no contest. . . . if he makes you feel as happy as you proclaim and you're certain he genuinely likes you, then you should be with him!

Mbell, no one is perfect, heck, most people droll in their fantasies about who mr or miss right should look or act like, if u say u can't help but think of him in a fondly way most of the time, i'll say ur heart and mind is already set (u're in love with him), i think u're just finding a way to dive back into ur fantasy or rather illusions on what ur mr right perfect should be like

one question though, Have u ever asked him what it is about u that makes him want to be with u, and are u sure u're what his miss right should look like? i think u need to sit with him and talk about this, if u guys can live with ur faults, then fine and good, understanding the compromises both parties make in a relationship helps greatly,

best of luck.

mbell:

I always imagined that i'd date a fine guy, tall and well built (physically). and i never imagined dating anyone younger than me. the deal is, there's this guy in my school, hez tall, cute and lanky, and hez younger than me, hez not really the kinda person u'll call "the happening guy" (if u knw wat i mean). Hez extremely shy and i find that to be sooo cute and attractive and endearing. He has these things he says, these slangs and words,.,, and they're just so funny, he likes me, i know he does, everyone does infact,
i think i like him, i dont know the extent, but i think i do,
i dont know the signs, or how u know u like someone, but i know: i think of him quite a lot these days,
i know anytime i remember the things he says, those slangs, i laugh,
he finds it hard to express himself and i know i enjoy watching him try and fumble (soooooo cute),
and i know these days when im around him i cant help thinking i want to kiss him,

i always try to find reasons y i shouldnt like every guy i tend to like. This guy isnt evrything i dreamed of in a guy, no doubt, hez kinda geeky, not physically built, shy, and im older than him but isnt the important thing supposed to be being with someone who makes you happy? isnt it supposed to be about liking someone who likes u 2 for real i keep having these debates within myself, i really need advice,

u must be joking   i nor like one bit  

REALITY101:

@op this sounds like one of the illusion novel I saw online for $3.99 I forgot the name.

Reality 419  

Pweety4me:

I like all of this!

and why do u like all of dat   ********Picks up a bottle and breaks it on pweety4herself"s head***********  

kay-money:

[size=11pt[b]]@ OP dont expect a guy to be 100%[/b] of all what you desire
so far he has some of the attributes you desire in a guy just pull the rigger and let him inn [/size]

Am 100% trust me! infact that's why dem ladies love me  

rokiatu:

So what advice do you need?


You have no problem here, you are just creating problems for yourself.


You like him, he like you and he make you feel happy. To add to that, he's funny.

But he's not physically built and he's shy, WTF


First of all, lets clear the "physically built" part. Not everyone was born with the perfect body.

Infact most guys have to built their bod. Including all those celebrities that we drool over. Nobody was born with the perfect six pack.


About the shyness part, Nobody was born shy.

people are just quiet on a certain thing, or either uncomfortable in a certain environment. Get to know this young man more, your discovery will shock you.
Take me for instance, some people think I am a shy girl. And other people think I am outgoing and bubble. But I am neither both. My action differ with different people.

Infact I like reserved guys, who are laid by. Listen to other people, and talk when needed. Not those overly cocky guys that always need to be the centre of attention, or the cool guy on the block.

@OP, Rokiatu has said it all

Pweety4me:

Welll get to know the dude properly i say, but i guess u pondering on imperfections cause he younger than you.

yea, i think i should try 2get to know him and stop tryna find reasons not to,

kay-money:

@ OP dont expect a guy to be 100% of all what you desire
so far he has some of the attributes you desire in a guy just pull the rigger and let him inn

,
you really think i should??

SA Lady:

@OP, Rokiatu has said it all

nicely said, very nicely said,

PhysicsMHD:

If you like him, go for it.

, sound so easy, y does it feel so hard to do? doesnt seem so hard in the movies, lol, and BTW, i meant everyone knows he likes me, Lmao!

You can date a younger man but dont try to marry a younger man because you will soon grow older to become his mother while he keeps his ryes on younger women, except you are not the jealous type. ia m talking of the future not the now when everything seems beautiful because you think you are in love

time expires all even LOVE!!!!!!!!

LesbianBoy:


and why do u like all of dat  ********Picks up a bottle and breaks it on pweety4herself"s head*********** 

Psychoo ALERT!! & dat was your head not mine!

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yea, i think i should try 2get to know him and stop tryna find reasons not to,

Yep

yh

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