Zzor:
It was all Dumo's fault as he wanted to play the role of both Son and wife

You seem to be the only one towing this line of thoughts. Several persons who are aborigine and inner members of this community like Richmond500 and benson are saying otherwise.

Yes dummo might have gone overboard in some instance but I will lean with the majority voice. If she knows your mum like you claim, then best believe she will definitely paint herself as an angel of light

Zzor:
It was all Dumo's fault as he wanted to play the role of both Son and wife

Anty calm down, Seinye don fill ur head with lies.
She wanted Lulu's will to be read before his burial but Dump opposed it and that was beginning of the court case.
Warn ur mother about Seinye

richmond500:
by the way, just to let u know I was in the burial and didn't get info from internet

lol,my mom also is with chief Mrs Seinye currently, I get first hand gist more than you do

Zzor:
lol,my mom also is with chief Mrs Seinye currently, I get first hand gist more than you do

Seinye isn't a Chief, She don paint herself full ona ear.
My Dad is a chief in Kalabari and u get info only from Seinye, who do u think get better info, me or u?

Zzor:
lol,my mom also is with chief Mrs Seinye currently, I get first hand gist more than you do

by the way, I don't have strength for further argument, do have a nice day

richmond500:
Anty calm down, Seinye don fill ur head with lies.
She wanted Lulu's will to be read before his burial but Dump opposed it and that was beginning of the court case.
Warn ur mother about Seinye

They've been friends from way back so nobody needs to be warned,obviously you didn't know how the whole saga started,it started long before chief Lulu's death,why do you think Chief himself held on to his wife till his death.Don't believe everything you read,Dumo is a very greedy man

richmond500:
Seinye isn't a Chief, She don paint herself full ona ear.
My Dad is a chief in Kalabari and u get info only from Seinye, who do u think get better info, me or u?

Ha!obviously you don't know her,let me not waste my time jor

iddonla:

I think senibo is his son?

Ya Senibo is his first son

nams77:

You seem to be the only one towing this line of thoughts. Several persons who are aborigine and inner members of this community like Richmond500 and benson are saying otherwise.

Yes dummo might have gone overboard in some instance but I will lean with the majority voice. If she knows your mum like you claim, then best believe she will definitely paint herself as an angel of light

I'm towing the line of truth that's all

Zzor:
Chief Mrs Seinye wasn't Dumo's ex girlfriend but they knew each other as acquaintance and did few businesses that's all,its true that Dumo introduces her to his dad but she never knew Dumo had some dirty motives and mummy Seinye refused to play the game with Dumo because she was loyal and loved her husband that was when wahala started.There are things I can't type here

If this is the case, how then can polygamy be the problem? @NEIGHBOUR

Zzor:
They've been friends from way back so nobody needs to be warned,obviously you didn't know how the whole saga started,it started long before chief Lulu's death,why do you think Chief himself held on to his wife till his death.Don't believe everything you read,Dumo is a very greedy man

Let's forget this, u always will support Seinye cos of her relationship with ur mom.

If I was in ur shoes, my judgement will also be clouded by my emotions, I do not blame u sha.

Me, I don tire to discuss, u are so hard and will never bend and look at things from a different view

nams77:

You seem to be the only one towing this line of thoughts. Several persons who are aborigine and inner members of this community like Richmond500 and benson are saying otherwise.

Yes dummo might have gone overboard in some instance but I will lean with the majority voice. If she knows your mum like you claim, then best believe she will definitely paint herself as an angel of light

I deh shame for that zzor.

Seinye don twist her brains to believe she(Mrs Seinye) is a saint and Dumo is the devil

richmond500:
Let's forget this, u always will support Seinye cos of her relationship with ur mom.

If I was in ur shoes, my judgement will also be clouded by my emotions, I do not blame u sha.

Me, I don tire to discuss, u are so hard and will never bend and look at things from a different view

lol that's not the case,you men should stop victimizing women in cases like this

Zzor:
lol that's not the case,you men should stop victimizing women in cases like this

That's a vicious stereotype.
I have never victimized a lady, both here and outside the internet.

But then I can now fully understand u, u aren't supporting that woman cos she is ur mom's friend, rather u are supporting her cos u felt women are victimized and supporting them is a must for u and that is even worse.

God have mercy on u

richmond500:
I deh shame for that zzor.

Seinye don twist her brains to believe she(Mrs Seinye) is a saint and Dumo is the devil

shame for yourself ooo, I'm for the truth

Zzor, do have a nice week ahead, I am tired. Let's talk some other time

richmond500:
That's a vicious stereotype.
I have never victimized a lady, both here and outside the internet.

But then I can now fully understand u, u aren't supporting that woman cos she is ur mom's friend, rather u are supporting her cos u felt women are victimized and supporting them is a must for u.

God have mercy on u

she is sexist, read her other comments.. She is supporting the woman based in gender.. Ignore her.... You and that other fellow have tried enough, don't let her drag you further

When we tell men not to accept polygamy, they do as they like, if the man had only one woman everything would have been settled. How can a man be buried two years , it doesn't even make sense!!

richmond500:
I deh shame for that zzor.

Seinye don twist her brains to believe she(Mrs Seinye) is a saint and Dumo is the devil

dont mind her...at a point senibo,dumo,sofiri all returned their shares in moni pulo to their father just for family unity...

I am not exonerating dumo tho , cos the guy srf get for body...but seinye really mess up too..

Godswings:


Mr richmond500 , the picture of his corpse being carried on a boat in a river seems confusing to me; I would like to know where he was buried; land or river?

lol, na for air dem bury am.
Its a culture as a Chief.

Kalabari is surrounded by water and most of our cultural practices are on water. As a chief, he was moved from Buguma to Abonnema through water.
Most masquerades in Abonnema also had to first display on water before coming to land, that is just how it is, it has been like this even before Lulu was born.

If a woman dies during child birth, her corpse won't enter the town directly, they had to move the corpse through water straight to the mortuary.
Almost everything is water in Kalabari

thelinguist:
When we tell men not to accept polygamy, they do as they like, if the man had only one woman everything would have been settled. How can a man be buried two years , it doesn't even make sense!!

It isn't about polygamy. Sometimes wealth create problems in a family

richmond500:
It isn't about polygamy. Sometimes wealth create problems in a family

but a rich man with one wife fairs better with a rich man with many wives. Polygamy is bad.. Handling a woman sef na work for me, how do people handle three /four woman? Yes wealth comes with its problems, but when you add many wife's, thw problems multiples!

SarkinYarki:


Was Sienye Dumos acquaintance?

Yes to say d least he brought her to his father.

bizzibodi:

Yes to say d least he brought her to his father.

Hmmmm I didn't know that part ...

thelinguist:
but a rich man with one wife fairs better with a rich man with many wives. Polygamy is bad.. Handling a woman sef na work for me, how do people handle three /four woman? Yes wealth comes with its problems, but when you add many wife's, thw problems multiples!

This is not about polygamy, it's about wealth and one person wanting all to themselves.
What about FRA Williams,sey it's one wive yet they had their issues after his death if not the Yoruba elders called them to order it was going almost this way
As for Zzor,I have said it before that some of us here are inner inner circle and understand what transpired even from the very on set when am sure Seinye wasn't a friend to your mum (in the 70's o) and
like what richmond said,do not take one side of the story,I know both side well, my dad was a good friend of Opuda since the early 70's and we all know what transpired as soon as Seinye appeared at the scene. I will leave it at this but thread carefully with Seinye will remain my best advice

SarkinYarki:


Na Ogboni member?

Nor be my mouth you go hear say mosquito kill elephant

Wow, this brought me a lot of memories, I did my nysc in that town.Abonemma

Zzor:
Chief Mrs Seinye wasn't Dumo's ex girlfriend but they knew each other as acquaintance and did few businesses that's all,its true that Dumo introduces her to his dad but she never knew Dumo had some dirty motives and mummy Seinye refused to play the game with Dumo because she was loyal and loved her husband that was when wahala started.There are things I can't type here

Who told U all this yur mum?why is she more interested in WILL than burial,why obtain court order to stop burial?both of them has a deal & it went wrong b/c of both are greedy,why will he introduced a woman with a shady paste to be his dad wife at d precipice of his life,if they don't hav a deal?

Zzor:
Their fight started long before Chiefs death, though she took some harsh decisions at some point but Dumo pushed her beyond limits, Dumo wanted to humiliate her and she fought back and please don't believe all you read on social media most ain't true

Fought over what?her inheritance?

Zzor:
Shut up,Mrs Seinye is my mom's bestie and I know everything that happened, Dump should be ashamed of himself

We now know who your mother is.

This is Calabar culture

Anneka101:
Why keep a body for 2 years


Well he has finally been buried and he can now rest in peace.


He has enjoyed life to the fullest and I think he has gone to meet his creature.

his death was enmeshed in crisis, counter claim and accusation in far away Ghana which was followed by litigation all these and more accounts for why his corpse was kept for that long