Ema gba mi,na one small little cool heded chick wey a gbadun ooooo.could u believe that this girl don give me red card three times now.ano know wetin dey do that girl ooo.ALTHOUGH i really love her and i get level pass her in everything.abeg i need ur advice.Because i don,t want her to leave.And na the third red card we still dey resolve now.and i think she may want to go away finally this time.can some one tell me wetin they do this girl?

Olaposi, explain wetin make am give you red card in the first instance, She is bound to give you red card if you try to play games with her, So your explanation??

i think she dey feel insecure to show me how much she loves me coz i never did any wrong thing to her since we,ve met.

She felt insecure to show how much she loves you?? I guess it's not by that tin, or something else, maybe she is a kind*a shy girl

I,m thinkin about that as well.but what can i do?Coz i know she have some good feelings for me.And i don,t want to present my self as her doormat.u know what i mean?

doormat?? You mean you no wan make he sabi say you dey trip

Have you made love to her?

Still keeping her virginity.but we romance often.before that red card(SANMI)

wealthpos:

ALTHOUGH i really love her and i get level pass her in everything.

c dat's ur problem!

phessayor, wetin a mean be say abi smart guy also a humaniser.but i met her when i made up my mind to stop all those act.so it,s so embarassing for that kind of girl to be playing me.

Dr b, i understand u and why i said that is that i think that is what is affecting that realationship.so all i ned from you is a piece of advice.

Posi no de dull yourself, though i am not asking you to go bang her but you can never tell if she is a virgin or not, but virgin or not, keep the love, work on the cause of the red card she gives you often.

the problem is not with her but with you, she's probably getting the vibes of "levels" from you. do you take her out in public as your girl, when your friends are around do you treat her like your girl? stuff like that. her red card may be a reaction to what she's perceiving, and since you say she's shy she may not be able to tell you this.so take it cool, even if you get level pass am, you have to let it go and accept her the way she is.

fisayo, i confirmed the virginity.but i don,t want to hurt her feelings that day.so ano dull myself on that.

ol boy u don kolo 4 this babe o! how u fit confirm say babe be virgin wen u no shag am? na microscope u take look her kini b4 u know abi wetin?

use to date a girl like urs, insecure babes, they;ll gve u red card today call u to apologise to mmorrow, guess she has been in a lot of bad relationships and is realy finding it hard to believe that someone really loves her,

I second that

mp 007, so what do u now do to that girl eventually?

let her go, she stil comes around begging but aint got time for break up and made ups, there should be a fine line drawn , its just a pure product of past bad rlationships, sit her down and talk to her, real talk , but walk away!

So after the talk,does she change?MP007

its NOT abt her mind anymore, its abt urs , you can continue to be a love slave all in the name of "i care", love works when its mutual and not one sided, u feel? u cant continue to love someone that is not sure of there feeling towards u,

i feel u my guy.thatis what i,m gonna do.and if she still needs me i believe she will come back and stay.but if it goes other way i,ll believe that is how nature wants it.thanks mp007

@ I use to have a babe like that, the babe give me the yarn say she be virgin, so any time I wan shag her she allways bring this virgin crap topic. so one day I promised myself that I will shag her if she like it or not. so on the fateful day she came to my pad as usual, then I start to make my moves again. to my suprice when I insisted that we must shag, she accept and to make matter worse she no virgin anything.

@ Topic

obviously u dont treat her right.

and i get level pass her in everything

this coment alone tells us how u see her and what you feel about her. and u seeing urself as the supperior force in the relationship.

treat a bit better with a bit more respect, and im sure she will revert ur red card to yellow.

Stop disturbing her. Obviously, you are not a serious prospect for her. Stop being so selfish and wicked.

2 d best of my knowledge she is doing the normal shakara and that boils down 2 ur not givin her the necessary assurance .spoiul her with love then if she continues avoid her for some time and u will see she will come back.




alternatively someone else with beta prospect serious is disturbing her already.



best of luck

Hey guys could u believe that girl called me,trying to beg me.but i ignore the calls because it,s so embarrassing to me but i later sms her to let me know how i can see her face to face.so we can talk over it.but till this time she refuses to call me.can someone tell me what is on her mind?

How did u know she wanted to beg you cos u said u ignored her calls? Its so embarassing to you, what is embarassing abt dis whole issue? To me i think the problem here is ur ego! Cos i dont see any reason why u shouldn't pick her calls when u probably must av been expecting her calls in order to settle d problem since u still are interested in d relationship.

why not tell us what you did before getting upto 3 cards, see ur head as be like fowl yash, wen u go dey jump up and down you no go rest. i bet u she go sack u

If you really love her, then let her go. If she's really yours, she'll come for you

hype, i knew she wanted to beg me becoz she has been doin it before.but why i ignore the call is that i don,t want to be her doormat anymore.If she luvs me she will still try to come back.i know that for sure.or what do u think?

wealthpos:

Hey guys could u believe that girl called me,trying to beg me.but i ignore the calls because it,s so embarrassing to me but i later sms her to let me know how i can see her face to face.so we can talk over it.but till this time she refuses to call me.can someone tell me what is on her mind?

shakara oloide, after u rejected the call, why are u still worried now since u didn,t want her to pester u with her calls. no worry u go soon loose her and ur eyes go clear, since u think say e dey easy to tell person i,m sorry.