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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by HIPROFILE(m): 2:03am On Mar 25, 2021
To Slap this OP just deh hungry me and ion know why

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Pain(m): 2:18am On Mar 25, 2021
AishaYesufu:
Another fake story
Exactly. This is Joro test running his next fake Q and A tongue

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Dyonne: 2:47am On Mar 25, 2021
Draslo:
I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Judge yourself

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by IVORY2009(m): 3:16am On Mar 25, 2021
Bola146:
If you have the money, please give her with no motive. Let her know she is your past please, don't play with fire if she comes near you


Omo'bola didn't read the story before replying grin

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Xkale1234(m): 3:18am On Mar 25, 2021
Offpoint1:
Too many nonsense in the write up.
If una wan make up fake stories, make una at least make am believe able.
Pay your flight tickets weekly, how much come be your salary? For a start up business not even up to a year, no same business incline human being would be wasting resources like that.


Try another make up story, I ain't buying this one.
fake story

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Xkale1234(m): 3:25am On Mar 25, 2021
U see the reason why I ask my girlfriend to block her ex num despite she is still a virgin na me open her, but I hate anything ex... Nawa o just one year of dating she still carry matter for her head wat if u guyz dated for more than 2 years how e go be.... bro move on oooooo
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Acrobatics01: 3:34am On Mar 25, 2021
If you are as principled as you claim to be, then take it up. Relationship is relationship; business is strictly business.
u gerrit?

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by oloshun(m): 3:40am On Mar 25, 2021
OP, to be sincere, you can work for her and not give the chance to sleep with her. She can't rape you. If she make advances and you resist, the worst thing she can do is to withdraw her supervisory job. Case closed and life continues. All around the globe, blessings dresses in disguise, and it takes risks, determination, brilliancy to recognize source of success. With or without her job, if she wants mess with you, she will, it lies in you to say NO.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by gentleg87(m): 3:48am On Mar 25, 2021
Bro,

if this seems to be written imagination is true,

All that glitters ain't gold...

And perhaps OP you talk too much, trying to justify yourself by replying every replies that comes point blank against you...

Bro you needed advice not supporters, so keep calm and weigh peoples opinion and strictness not this your counter game....

Does that ur ex knows u ve got this problem (behavior)? that you always don't always take correction and argues a lot .. U must always try to defend everything to prove u are sound or what?

It only makes u look aggressive ...

Ur guts seems bully...

No real EX could associate with someone who argues , word twister, and not calm enough to be scolded...

You brought your matter, you are modifying side of views....

If this is a true life story, Bro follow your mind ooo, I can't advice Mr know all that can defend and twist words...

" soft spot and weak flesh " becomes to fall cheaply for the offer...


Note: many more observers are here, you can't confuse most of us...

We move joor
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by tiredoflife(m): 3:53am On Mar 25, 2021
Bloodin1979$
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by karmaleon: 3:56am On Mar 25, 2021
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

Na you talk say your flesh is very very weak and still came back here to modify post. Make up your mind amigo!

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Ynix(m): 4:02am On Mar 25, 2021
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.
This is my stance and opinion, you can get in on board as a technical consultant to grow the business. Follow the money and forget the lady, create a technical embargo. Get typed a written document more or less like an MOU, I had a lady I had plans to marry but suddenly she got married. And just last three weeks she called me to help her out with a technical support in her business and of course I gave it to her.
You can even use the opportunity to kill two to three birds, become a business consultant to other businesses, I believe she recognizes some of your potentials just that when got married to another fellow. Get a team on board so that you can plan your visits, so you won't have to always be around every week. Moreover, pray about it.
For me I have some people who are in need of jobs, if you need any helps or further advice, you can reach out to me via WhatsApp on 08089456258

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Historicalee: 4:31am On Mar 25, 2021
You can contract the management to me. I will do a great job.
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by goshen26: 4:36am On Mar 25, 2021
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.


It will be difficult, but the best advise I can give you on this matter is to turn down the offer Sir.


Have a great day

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by samwillyco1(m): 4:39am On Mar 25, 2021
Just be ready to be banging her
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by TheMan3: 4:40am On Mar 25, 2021
Uprightness100:
My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding.

Flee from a Strange woman!
For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil,
But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

Hear me now therefore My Son,
Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house,
Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel,
Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger,
And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed.

I Have Spoken my son! The Choice is yours to take.
The Holy Spirit used you to speak to me today. Weldone keep up the good work

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Tannhauser(m): 4:55am On Mar 25, 2021
Wait o OP!
What if her husband asked her to entrap one of her exes so he can use the idiot for rituals?

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by naijadrivablog: 5:11am On Mar 25, 2021
Draslo, Run o.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by OyinO: 5:48am On Mar 25, 2021
She want to renew the other business.
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by olisaEze(m): 5:57am On Mar 25, 2021
Sounds like there’s a wee bit unfinished business between the two of you. However, it all depends on how well u know her.

If the terms of engagement are that rewarding, then you better keep things strictly professional out of respect for a fellow man that is doling out the cash.

She probably is fond of you, which doesn’t necessarily mean she wants cheat on her husband.

But nna eh, most women that have cheated on their partners did not set out to cheat initially (keyword here is women not little girls that were raised on IG/TikTok).

Some will put demselves in a vulnerable position intentionally, expecting the man to save dem from demselves while trusting that he’ll be as vulnerable as they are and do the deed. Very confusing mindset they all have! undecided

If u feel u can keep things strictly professional then go ahead. Everyone needs all the extra income they can get in this economy.

But if ur flesh is as weak as u believe then u either follow d bible and flee temptation, or go straight in with your eyes wide shut. Abuja is a city were women have made and also broken many men.

Draslo, all die na d same die! grin

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by lichocho(m): 5:58am On Mar 25, 2021
D husband is not aware of dat business..she just want to keep it low key...
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by favour32(m): 6:08am On Mar 25, 2021
Anything your mind tell you do....but if you decide to work for your ex. know say the end point na £¥¢k another man wife.
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Nobody: 6:20am On Mar 25, 2021
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

If you've adviced yourself, you don't need any advice from others. But your mindset and self counsel will lead you into trouble. Fowl plan to piss for this world o but at the end of the day, bross fowl no fit piss.
Her motives will eventually rule over you.
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by AwesomeStormy00(m): 6:29am On Mar 25, 2021
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

@Draslo, Please forget those people slating you on here majority reason one sided, and bsrely know you. Now back to your question before you accept the offer please discuss it with your wife or currenr girlfriend if she will willingly g8ve you her blessings.

Secondly in my opinion i think this is a bad idea so don't do it. Your guts is telling you she has got ulterior motive please follow your guts. It could be she is missing the sex and she want uou back and that's what you are thinking as well but the other side of the coin is that she wants to disgrace you or finished you so bros i suggest you tell her to open one in lagos and you can manage it for her rather than shuttling to Abuja it is not cost effective and too many risk invove.

Lastly, please discuss with your wife girlfriend or trusted female friend let them reason with u from a woman perspective. Goodluck

Have a good day sir

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by AwesomeStormy00(m): 6:31am On Mar 25, 2021
favour32:
Anything your mind tell you do....but if you decide to work for your ex. know say the end point na £¥¢k another man wife.

True talk and usually end in premium tears
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Basiljoe: 6:34am On Mar 25, 2021
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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by alyarmouk(m): 6:56am On Mar 25, 2021
SmellingAnus:
I think you already know that you will definitely fvck her itchy hornnny pussy like a pornstaaar... so why exactly do you need our advice...

The matter tire me
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by DIAMO1: 7:16am On Mar 25, 2021
This guy killed me twice same time ���


Uprightness100:
My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding.

Flee from a Strange woman!
For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil,
But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

Hear me now therefore My Son,
Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house,
Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel,
Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger,
And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed.

I Have Spoken my son! The Choice is yours to take.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by olalat(m): 7:22am On Mar 25, 2021
baralatie:

what is the cost implicationn of this first.

in simple terms what is the weekly amount that she is going to cough out for this your service

hotel lodging (Friday to Sunday)=#60000
flight cost=#100000
miscellaneous=#10000
total= #170000 per weekend (excluding fees)

she owns an oil and gas wetin again...saloon

haaa!
I think she is not really concerned about the money or business really. She just wants to re ignite the old moments they share together. Some people have the money to splash. a budget of 500k or 1m will give her the intended result. That money means nothing nothing to some big shots in Abuja....... She wants him to manage her again not the business..
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by jantman(m): 7:30am On Mar 25, 2021
SmellingAnus:
I think you already know that you will definitely fvck her itchy hornnny pussy like a pornstaaar... so why exactly do you need our advice...

Your username funny die. lol
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Rosarie10: 7:37am On Mar 25, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
including your mother,sisters and future daughter's, right?

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Juliearth(f): 7:42am On Mar 25, 2021
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.




You are wise and I must applaud you for your restrain. Kindly let her in on why you cannot take the job, state every reasons (every reason, but this one above).

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