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Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(m): 9:44am On Mar 24
*_30+ men are the hardest to date_ - Ladies share relationship experiences with the opposite sex*

Nigerian Ladies on social media have revealed their relationship experiences with 30 years old men and above. Most of them believe 30+ men are the hardest to date sometimes.

A Lady on the popular microblogging platform, Twitter identified as @Julesbangz said that 30+ men are so straightforward and have no chill at all when it comes to relationship.

She tweeted; “30+ men & straightforwardness

"30+ men: Hey I like you. Me: I would think about it.
30+ men: Okay I would give you 5 mins to think about it.
(5mins later)
30+ men: Hey, are you done thinking about it? Me: I am sorry I really can’t
30+ men : Okay Bye nice meeting you.”

See comments below;

In reactions to the above post, fellow ladies took to the comment section to share their relationship experiences with 30+ men.

@glorivicky1 tweeted; “It’s their straight forwardness for me o This one I met Ehn….There wasn’t even a talking stage Oga just said he’s not interested in getting married He just wants a mutually beneficial adult relationship. The guy finish me with grammar Ehn”

@youaremore__ said; “30+ men are the hardest to date sometimes…it’s like they’ve exhausted every patience in their early/late 20’s..”

@PwettyTem
opined; “Most of them are very indecisive. I repeat, most of them.”

@QveenJosey reacted; “Most of them are unnecessarily rude, want things to be done their ways and always want to get away with whatever they do that my sister is not straightforwardness they are so indecisive”


@a_dunnii says; 30+ guys are hard to date. It’s either they have a full blown relationship somewhere and are lying to you or they’re just unnecessarily insecure which is irritating.

In my opinion, I don't think that men in 30's are the hardest to date. I can testify to the fact that most of them are strict hence, their reason for misunderstanding it for complexity.
The above comments by some fraction of women folk is a clear show of misunderstanding and does not in anyway depict the accurate nature or character of men in 30's.

WHAT'S YOUR VIEW OF THIS?

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by donbachi(m): 10:44am On Mar 24
Dont blame them.its due to lessons from life events and women..dem dey apply caution.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Belafonte(m): 11:40am On Mar 24
Is the inverse also true regarding 30+ women?

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by profilemessages: 1:46pm On Mar 24
they have learnt from NIGERIAN WOMEN



ask MOSDII he knows better

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Freestainworld(m): 3:23pm On Mar 24
30+ men are not that difficult as some ladies depicts them, it's just that they have tasted and seen what some guys in their 20s are still novice on, caution plus self discipline is what drives them around.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by mosdii(m): 3:43pm On Mar 24
profilemessages:
they have learnt from NIGERIAN WOMEN




ask MOSDII he knows better

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Mandela27: 4:57pm On Mar 24
Being patient for a woman is being stupid.be straight forward and bounce immediately if she doesn't dance to ur lines

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by anthonyuncle(m): 7:34am On Mar 25
it is due to the experience they've had
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by bluefilm: 8:57am On Mar 25
30+ men are the real deal.

At that age, most of the guys are now so experienced with women and their SIMPing mentality is already dying down or wearing off.

Which explains why it seems so difficult for women to date these guys because for most of these girls, dating a guy is all about using sexual manipulations to get the guy to do what she wants all the time!!!

That strategy normally works so well on younger guys.

But it is not usually the same thing when it comes to the experienced guys.

Unless the 30+ guys is a chronic SIMP.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Cholls(m): 9:44am On Mar 25
My brothers don't envy anybody

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(m): 10:31am On Apr 17
Belafonte:
Is the inverse also true regarding 30+ women?

From my experience the answer is YES. 30+ Women seem to be too precise, probably because of their past experiences. They are more mature to date but everything about them is either marriage or nothing less. I also notice that they hardly release their heart to men.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(m): 10:33am On Apr 17
Mandela27:
I've really got zero patience for babes and that's how it should be
Hmm!
But patience is a virtue.
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(m): 10:35am On Apr 17
mosdii:

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
I totally disagree. We still have good ones though really hard to find.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by DEMZEE(m): 10:43am On Apr 17
Yes they are the hardest to date because most girls seeking those types of men are not marriage minded.

Those men have built their value and don't want any bitch to just come and scatter the world they built.

They don't have time for games and they will tell u Wat they are interested in and Wat they are about.

The worse women to date are 30+ women. They are useless especially for a long term relationship cos they don't have fertility and beauty again and most of them have masculine traits.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by DEMZEE(m): 10:44am On Apr 17
Fluency:


I totally disagree. We still have good ones though really hard to find.

Nope

A man moulds his dream woman, he doesn't earn his dream woman. U have to have frame and she has to respect and enter your world.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Mandela27: 10:45am On Apr 17
Fluency:
Hmm! But patience is a virtue.
Yes but patience for girls is not Among
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by jieta: 11:20am On Apr 17
DEMZEE:
Yes they are the hardest to date because most girls seeking those types of men are not marriage minded.

Those men have built their value and don't want any bitch to just come and scatter the world they built.

They don't have time for games and they will tell u Wat they are interested in and Wat they are about.

The worse women to date are 30+ women. They are useless especially for a long term relationship cos they don't have fertility and beauty again and most of them have masculine traits.
Oh!!! I just pity you, your last paragraph will give you so much backlash, hope you've a strong skin to with stand our nairaland feminists.
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Regtkh: 11:32am On Apr 17
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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by DEMZEE(m): 11:36am On Apr 17
jieta:
Oh!!! I just pity you, your last paragraph will give you so much backlash, hope you've a strong skin to with stand our nairaland feminists.

Lolzzz

I just report the news so don't hate me for it
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by mespusinglez(m): 1:14pm On Apr 17
I don't have that patience when a lady is doing that Yanga

No time for Non-sense

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(m): 7:59pm On May 02
DEMZEE:
Yes they are the hardest to date because most girls seeking those types of men are not marriage minded.

Those men have built their value and don't want any bitch to just come and scatter the world they built.

They don't have time for games and they will tell u Wat they are interested in and Wat they are about.

The worse women to date are 30+ women. They are useless especially for a long term relationship cos they don't have fertility and beauty again and most of them have masculine traits.

Your words were rather too harsh, my brother!
I don't think 30+ women are totally useless. Most of them are still very beautiful and useful. One only needs high level of maturity and resilience to be with them. However, I totally agree to the fact that their complexity is out of this world.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(m): 8:01pm On May 02
Regtkh:
.....
Hmm.......!
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Fluency(m): 8:04pm On May 02
Mandela27:
Yes but patience for girls is not Among

Trust me, it is!
You need patience to attain any successful height in life including marrying the right woman.
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by phazotron(m): 12:19am On May 03
A 30+ man will be hard to date for a fraudulent naija girl who wants to eat her cake and have it

30+ guys are more experienced and have learnt lessons from their relationship misadventures in their 20s so it'll be difficult for a lady to bullshit them.

6/10 girls who complains about this is are fraudulent.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Smitharo(m): 4:32am On May 03
Cholls:
My brothers don't envy anybody

Na wa oo.. dis kind pant na acid stain am abi na wetin?

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by musicutility(m): 5:30am On May 03
Yes, because they do not think dating but the responsibility and accountability attached to settling down

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by dederocs(m): 6:27am On May 03
If you want a man, no do shakara, no time.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Aimerosa25(f): 8:11am On May 03
They r not hard to date, some r calm because they want to settle down.

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Sanctecosma(m): 11:56am On May 03
Lol. Mosdii my man. Akpo aza.
mosdii:

Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by DEMZEE(m): 1:58pm On May 03
Fluency:


Your words were rather too harsh, my brother!
I don't think 30+ women are totally useless. Most of them are still very beautiful and useful. One only needs highly level of maturity and resilience to be with them. However, I totally agree to the fact that their complexity is out of this world.

A man who knows his value won't settle for 30+ women for long term relationship and commitment
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by folabayo(f): 2:23pm On May 03
I never get experience with 30+ guys.
I no de pass my boundary.
Well am here to read and learn
Re: Are "30+ Men" Really The Hardest To Date? by Hintona(f): 2:55pm On May 03
mosdii:


Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Aren't you tired? it's getting boring already.

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