I have searched all through nairaland health topics and I found trying to conceive group, ivf group, pregnancy group and new birth group but none for miscarriage support!!!

Miscarriage is very common and one of the most painful experiences of life

Speaking personally from my experience
Miscarriage is more common than you can imagine but I feel we can come together to reduce this occurrences
I have suffered reoccurrent miscarriage and even our gynecologists and fertility specialist are not answering some of my questions
I for 1 dnt want to go through it again I dnt have the heart to.
Let come together to support ourselves
Talk about our plans on achieving healthy pregnancy
Please if you have gone through this and was able to carry to full term please do not ignore us
One or two pieces of advice can go along way in fighting this demon

Please what were the signs during miscarriage?

Great

You mean the ones I had

Victoriouswoman:
Please what were the signs during miscarriage?

Victoriouswoman:
Please what were the signs during miscarriage?

You stop feeling pregnancy symptoms
Brown discharge which later turn to red blood
Mild to severe cramps

Some losses like blighted ovum you may not get any regular miscarriage symptoms inshort u will still be feeling pregnant till you go for ultrasound scan is usually chromosomal defect

I just underwent one recently

BlessedMyra:

Hello mama, how are you? Just checking on you. I pray for you everyday that God gives you the strength and that your testimony comes sooner than you expect. Amen

Good day ma'am,
I left the pregnancy thread for a while now, going back to the thread, I saw your post about the miscarriage. It was really disheartening, I felt really bad. But I know all hope is not lost, we will testify soon with our rainbow babies.

This group is exactly what I need right now. I just can't shake off my miscarriage experience. I have been advised by friends and family to console my self with my other children, but it's not working.

I guess one can't substitute a child for another. They are all different, unique and come with a special type of feeling.

Amen

ThatPetiteChic:


Hello mama, how are you? Just checking on you. I pray for you everyday that God gives you the strength and that your testimony comes sooner than you expect. Amen

Hello mama e hugs to you every loss is a loss no child can be replaced by other
Grief as much as you can do not rush or pressure yourself just know that time heals definitely your babies will come,you are not alone dear we are all in it together! May God heal us

jennyswtie:
This group is exactly what I need right now. I just can't shake off my miscarriage experience. I have been advised by friends and family to console my self with my other children, but it's not working.

I guess one can't substitute a child for another. They are all different, unique and come with a special type of feeling.

It’s well mama

Krystalluv:
Good day ma'am,
I left the pregnancy thread for a while now, going back to the thread, I saw your post about the miscarriage. It was really disheartening, I felt really bad. But I know all hope is not lost, we will testify soon with our rainbow babies.

To all those who just miscarried did your doc suggest any test for you?mine suggested some couple of test just waiting for menses to come bk�

BlessedMyra:
You mean the ones I had

yes ma

BlessedMyra:
Hello mama e hugs to you every loss is a loss no child can be replaced by other
Grief as much as you can do not rush or pressure yourself just know that time heals definitely your babies will come,you are not alone dear we are all in it together! May God heal us

Thanks. To your question, no test was recommended

I didn’t hv any sign I went to scan Nd blighted ovum was discovered it took extra 2 weeks for my pregnancy symptom to go away after evacuation

Victoriouswoman:
yes ma

Well depends on the nature of the miscarriage test shld b considered here in Nigeria doctors dnt really pay attention to all these is very sad

jennyswtie:


Thanks. To your question, no test was recommended

BlessedMyra:
Well depends on the nature of the miscarriage test shld b considered here in Nigeria doctors dnt really pay attention to all these is very sad

I totally agree. What are the tests your doctor suggested for you?

Due to my reoccurrent miscarriage I was asked to do hormonal profile test but that’s when my menses returns
It’s very advisable to know the cos of your miscarriage so it can be avoided next time if possible

jennyswtie:


I totally agree. What are the tests your doctor suggested for you?

How long do you want to wait b4 you start trying

BlessedMyra:
Due to my reoccurrent miscarriage I was asked to do hormonal profile test but that’s when my menses returns
It’s very advisable to know the cos of your miscarriage so it can be avoided next time if possible

Okay I really need to know. I don't want to go through this horrible experience ever again. Thanks, you've been helpful

BlessedMyra:
How long do you want to wait b4 you start trying

Right away jor lol. Immediately AF returns. I ovulated couple of days back (confirmed with the kit) but I didn't try because I want to give my body the healing it deserves. But once I see AF, I'm so trying again.

It's not easy, the emotional turmoil. I feel your pain. Miscarriage hits hard especially emotionally.
I experienced a miscarriage as well in 2018, the pain of the evacuation, the pain of loosing the baby and of course the emotional pain was so draining, then you have the half answered questions. What I would say is to take one day at a time.

Oh wow you are lucky to have your system right bk I am with waiting for my menses tho my evacuation was barely 3 weeks ago so hopefully will get my menses anytime soon

jennyswtie:


Right away jor lol. Immediately AF returns. I ovulated couple of days back (confirmed with the kit) but I didn't try because I want to give my body the healing it deserves. But once I see AF, I'm so trying again.

BlessedMyra:
Oh wow you are lucky to have your system right bk I am with waiting for my menses tho my evacuation was barely 3 weeks ago so hopefully will get my kmenses anytime soon

Yeah. I think Af might just be around the corner. I read somewhere that it returns between 4-6 weeks after evacuation. Sticky baby dust to us. Remember to mention me when writting your BS

To all angel mama