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This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 12:01pm On Mar 28
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Kriss216: 12:03pm On Mar 28
The time, money and energy you invested in a Nigerian girl would be best if you channel them in a poultry business!


There's nothing significant in dating a Nigerian girl. Allow sanity to reign in your life, stay away from Nigerian girls!

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by AsapTeddy(m): 12:07pm On Mar 28
Which kind simp be this....

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by DaddyRochie1642(f): 12:07pm On Mar 28
Oga so you don't know you were dating yourself all along grin grin grin

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by SeekerofTruth1: 12:07pm On Mar 28
I want to Make something perfectly clear for you,Women are incapable of Love or Gratitude.The closet They can do is respect you,and it's quite obvious that she lacks Respect for you,she doesn't even Reply your texts Until she wants something From you.That should tell you that she's Just Dating you(you are dating yourself really) For your Money,and once she's done Using you,she will Dump you and kick you out Into the Streets where Simps Belong.

Now that you've known the problem,What Is The solution? well,There really is nothing you can do to change how she sees you, because How you start with a woman is how you are going to end with her.So just Cut your losses and move on,break up with her and stay out of Relationships for now.

Mention me if you have any Questions,and also, do Not Ever Take Relationship Advice from A woman!

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Godada(m): 12:10pm On Mar 28
angry

Seriously, you should channel this energy into a business to avoid stories that touch. How can you be invested in a girl that's not invested in you? That's a surefire way to heartbreak.

Better ditch that girl and find something to do with your spare time.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by AsapTeddy(m): 12:10pm On Mar 28
You forgot the two major rules of dating: He who invests less is the one in control...and Never reward a girl who is not invested in the relationship.

You have become predictable to her.


Ditch the girl..and move on. Dont do anything for her on her birthday.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by SmellySperm(m): 12:11pm On Mar 28
them no dey force cow make e drink water...

I once dated her kind, only difference between me and you is that you are a Simp and I'm not wink coz i never spent on her,she was so pained to see me spend on my OGs.
Obviously, Nigerian girls don't appreciate good guys. Ditch the tot and move on bro

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Skullano(m): 12:11pm On Mar 28
Nawa oooh, sense nah 150 per bag for my side so try buy am bros.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Narnah(f): 12:11pm On Mar 28
I think you know the answer already.

And just incase you don't, yes you should. Don't be with someone who doesn't value you.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by 2shaw: 12:12pm On Mar 28
Hoe,how. The energ damage s done, I guess I'd be leaving,oh hoe,...cry me a river oh,cry me a river ,cry me cry me.....
Na now your eye dey open,just bang them nd move on,niggi getting emotional. Hahahahahaha.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DksSPZTZES0

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by DewaleGraphic(m): 12:15pm On Mar 28
Read

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Mar 28
stop expecting love from a woman who is not your mother. stop seeing girls as something so special.
A beautiful woman is another man play thing..
just call her and ask her why she forget your birthday, expect nonsense excuse from her, smile. if you need s3x invite her, if she ask for money if you no get tell her you no get. if she stop giving you s3x leave her and move!

we move!

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by ersonleads(m): 12:21pm On Mar 28
I had an experience, was about dating a girl, she did not post my picture for my birthday on WhatsApp that day. she posted a guys picture wishing him happy birthday & when we talked later, she said she forgot....lol she nor know say I done delete am from my mind since. The thing wen make me vex na say she con talk say e done late that she will post my pics & wish me a birthday d next day...I just told her never she call my line again.she called & pleaded. uptil now she still dey beg. I nor get time for rubbish oo

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Duplexxx: 12:22pm On Mar 28
Many girls do that carry on the relationship with her but try to look for more serious one
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Mar 28
SeekerofTruth1:
do Not Ever Take Relationship Advice from A woman!

I love this bro

women wants their man to be spending money unnecessarily for them but they get angry when their own brother spend money unnecessarily to another girl.

if person need advice ask a guy who have been in a heartbreak experience with a girl, she will tell you the truth.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by LeeSantos(m): 12:29pm On Mar 28
lol. that moment she always post others guys birthday on her status.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 12:29pm On Mar 28
Kriss216:
The time, money and energy you invest in a Nigerian girl would be best if you channel them in a poultry business!

There's nothing significant in dating a Nigerian girl. Allow sanity to reign in your life, stay away from Nigerian girls!
\


Honestly, so true. I really wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt but nah im way past all the red flags that i shouldn't have ignored in the first place. It was a waste of my time and chances are she's probably gonna have a good laugh with her friends about how she swindled money out of me. Thanks for the advice, i really appreciate you taking the time. cool

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Kobicove(m): 12:30pm On Mar 28
@ Londonbanks
Stop wasting your time with the lady, move on!

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 12:31pm On Mar 28
AsapTeddy:
Which kind simp be this....

I deserve it.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 12:36pm On Mar 28
AsapTeddy:
You forgot the two major rules of dating: He who invests less is the one in control...and Never reward a girl who is not invested in the relationship.

You have become predictable to her.


Ditch the girl..and move on. Dont do anything for her on her birthday.


I've already made up my mind. Its over between us. Thanks for the advice my dude! Appreciate it

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 12:44pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:



I've already made up my mind. Its over between us. Thanks for the advice my dude! Appreciate it

I hope you've already banged her, if not then go back and complete the task before you sign out! grin

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 12:44pm On Mar 28
SeekerofTruth1:
I want to Make something perfectly clear for you,Women are incapable of Love or Gratitude.The closet They can do is respect you,and it's quite obvious that she lacks Respect for you,she doesn't even Reply your texts Until she wants something From you.That should tell you that she's Just Dating you(you are dating yourself really) For your Money,and once she's done Using you,she will Dump you and kick you out Into the Streets where Simps Belong.

Now that you've known the problem,What Is The solution? well,There really is nothing you can do to change how she sees you, because How you start with a woman is how you are going to end with her.So just Cut your losses and move on,break up with her and stay out of Relationships for now.

Mention me if you have any Questions,and also, do Not Ever Take Relationship Advice from A woman!


They really are are incapable of love. Women are hypergamous, they are always looking for the most high value man thst they can get even if they're in a committed relationship. I had my doubts going in and should followed my intuition. She put up this good girl image but slowly her true self unshrouded. I've gained nothing these past couple of months other than insight into women. I appreciate your thoughts.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by AsapTeddy(m): 12:47pm On Mar 28
londonbanks:



I've already made up my mind. Its over between us. Thanks for the advice my dude! Appreciate it

You are welcome bro.

Dont just say its over. You have to mean it. Remember you did most of the investing, you are the one more likely to feel the pain of a breakup. Trust me, she won't feel anything...because she invested less.

Moreover, because of the pains of a severed relationship, you might b tempted in the future to go back to her,esp if she makes a move on you.

Dating is a gane of numbers. Assuming you have other babes you are packaging ....you wont need to worry about going back to her in the future.


Cheers.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 12:50pm On Mar 28
Narnah:
I think you know the answer already.

And just incase you don't, yes you should. Don't be with someone who doesn't value you.


Amen to that. She wouldn't put up with it if i did it to her. Thank you for your advice.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 12:55pm On Mar 28
AsapTeddy:
You forgot the two major rules of dating: He who invests less is the one in control...and Never reward a girl who is not invested in the relationship.

You have become predictable to her.


Ditch the girl..and move on. Dont do anything for her on her birthday.


I've ghosted her already, she can text me, call me, block me whatever its finished between us. I was a target since day one when she approached me asking me some stupid question just so we can exchange numbers. Thanks for your input, at least you'll be smarter than me in the future.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Mar 28
Smh
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by londonbanks(m): 12:59pm On Mar 28
Godada:
angry

Seriously, you should channel this energy into a business to avoid stories that touch. How can you be invested in a girl that's not invested in you? That's a surefire way to heartbreak.

Better ditch that girl and find something to do with your spare time.


You are absolutely right. I should have been focusing on other important things. The money i wasted on those dates on food she didnt even eat could have been better spent elsewhere on someone who really needed it. Thanks for the heart to heart.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by omaclarry(m): 1:02pm On Mar 28
Bros let me help you: Call her, tell her how bad u felt, accept her apology, continue showing her love, plan her upcoming birthday, be the major sponsor, tell her you hav everytin sorted out for the d-day, help her invite friends even make enquiries for lounge to use.. make her happy.

on that day call ur guys, fyn better noisy bar hangout with them put ur phone for silence and allow the universe fight for you.

Most times you dont need to show ur pain and retaliate immidiately cos she will already be prepared for ur worse, but follow my advice nd watch her pain

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Oturatetuala(m): 1:03pm On Mar 28
Na until I tell you to move on abi? Okay o
Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by habsydiamond(m): 1:06pm On Mar 28
Op.. My bad for the first post... The girl u call ur girl is literary not urs physical.... Shes glued to her phone always while out on date with u means she's not into you... In every relationship communication is vital, without it the relationship will head for the rock. In short she's not urs oo... It's better u start searching for a better babe... Thou it will take u more than the eyes oo.. U will need to pray and fast to have a good babe. Some are good in appearance and not good in the mind while some are not good in appearance but good in mind... It takes the grace of God to end up with a babe with both qualities.

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Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Mar 28
If you had read his post and not only the title, you would know it's not just about her forgetting his birthday. Learn to read before commenting.

habsydiamond:
Why are u like this mehn!! What's in forgetting a day of birth.. A ady meant for reasoning but being celebrated... If u move on that means u are not a man... What if it's ur parents that forgets ur birthday?? Will u disown them Op pele... Change don dey affect u too

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