So much for person wey like birthdays o





Infact I Dey forget mine sometimes, things too full my head

SeekerofTruth1:
I want to Make something perfectly clear for you,Women are incapable of Love or Gratitude.The closet They can do is respect you,and it's quite obvious that she lacks Respect for you,she doesn't even Reply your texts Until she wants something From you.That should tell you that she's Just Dating you(you are dating yourself really) For your Money,and once she's done Using you,she will Dump you and kick you out Into the Streets where Simps Belong.

Now that you've known the problem,What Is The solution? well,There really is nothing you can do to change how she sees you, because How you start with a woman is how you are going to end with her.So just Cut your losses and move on,break up with her and stay out of Relationships for now.

Mention me if you have any Questions,and also, do Not Ever Take Relationship Advice from A woman!

I wonder where you people get all these crap from

Melonny:
@londonbanks Seems like I may know this girl. Her birthday is in May, right?

Yea May 27

Please don't see yourself as a simp. Things happen. In fact bring a victim equips you for future occurrence. Now u know. In Fela's words, 'if water kill your child na water you go use'. Don't let this turn you off. My view is, enter street, talk to GIRLS, bang as much as you can, give them food, use protection because no be only US dem dey pay child support, illegal child support foe Nigeria na the burden from the woman and her family wey the stigma fell kill person. E better make person never born when you are not ready. Na person wey near woman without protection dey get DNA scam. If you and woman know say unable dey use protection �, tell me how she go tell you sat she get bee? You are out of the equation. Person no fit turn gay because one lowlife girl f**k up. Bro, life is sweet die, but too short.

My dear friend I respect your love for her, she is in another relationship or she doesn't love you, focus your energy in building your business make money, move on, she will come for you, love her but don't over do it, she take your love for grunted.

Nice one. But your last sentence ruined your initial good counsel.

SeekerofTruth1:
I want to Make something perfectly clear for you,Women are incapable of Love or Gratitude.The closet They can do is respect you,and it's quite obvious that she lacks Respect for you,she doesn't even Reply your texts Until she wants something From you.That should tell you that she's Just Dating you(you are dating yourself really) For your Money,and once she's done Using you,she will Dump you and kick you out Into the Streets where Simps Belong.

Now that you've known the problem,What Is The solution? well,There really is nothing you can do to change how she sees you, because How you start with a woman is how you are going to end with her.So just Cut your losses and move on,break up with her and stay out of Relationships for now.

Mention me if you have any Questions,and also, do Not Ever Take Relationship Advice from A woman!

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga so you don't know you were dating yourself all along

him no dey aware. him need to arrest that babe for dating with tricks
can u imagine d nonsense he is asking

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

You are in a situationship.

londonbanks:



I've already made up my mind. Its over between us. Thanks for the advice my dude! Appreciate it

Where do you guys see all these type of ladies from? Why have I not had/have the luck of meeting one? Lol. She go suffer sha.

Hello Mister, simply excuse yourself from the relationship by turning the tables around on her. Don't call or text her again! If she calls or texts, ignore or respond in the same monosyllables she
is used to. If she requests for money, tell her you don't have any.Its better to dump her selfish and cunning arse and retain your dignity, than to let her sap you dry and then dump you.

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

I don't think you are waiting for the Holy Spirit to come down and slap sense into your head, or are you?
I hate it when guys are been played.

Mr. man will you send the fucking ass of a bitch outta your fucking side

londonbanks:
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Honestly, so true. I really wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt but nah im way past all the red flags that i shouldn't have ignored in the first place. It was a waste of my time and chances are she's probably gonna have a good laugh with her friends about how she swindled money out of me. Thanks for the advice, i really appreciate you taking the time.

She's already having the laughs brah

londonbanks:


Yea May 27

Not the person the I know.

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

My brother, she is after what you will offer and have. She is still swimming in her escapades life. If you want to settle down anytime soon my guy move and look for a lady who is ready. Don’t be a mini man.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


I hope you've already banged her, if not then go back and complete the task before you sign out!

You want him to waste more money? He better count his losses and move on.

Japa sogbo
...jaaapaaaa for the relationship

Shoraaa fun obinrin

Simply forget her and move on bro .quote author=londonbanks post=100279006]It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated. [/quote]

Just can't understand why some guys can't just see the red line, all this while u can't figure it out that u were actually dating urself, waisting ur hard earn cash on empty vessel. Lol. Olodoo/mumu is a curse nd the annoying part is u re asking if to call it shot.

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

M A R R Y her

What truly do you want us to Tell you Oga? No leave Her,inf’t keep sending her more money.. People can ask Stupid Question eh

Fashy that babe already!

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

Most of the guys said it right...dump her and move on.


If you haven't had sex with her, dont try to wicked her.

Just let go, even a blind foetus in the womb knows you are just her pawn.


Beware she may try to change a little, if she observes you trying to break from her.

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

You're loving for two my brother. She's just keeping you around for what she can get from you. The earlier you let this go, the better for your sanity, your account balance and general well being.

Call her honey only when U are horrny....

She sees you as a mere meal ticket. Take your time b4 going into another relationship ok.

londonbanks:
It's not just the fact that she forgot, it's that she's not invested in what we have. I've taken her out on a couple of dates where the majority of the time she was on her phone and not being receptive to my feelings even though I asked her politely to put it away.

Whenever she wants something from me she uses words like "baby" but soons as I send her money it's crickets from then on. Anytime I text her during the day to see how her day is she doesnt reply back and even when she does its "good" or "okay", quick short answers and doesnt reciprocate by asking about mines.

The birthday was the last straw because I had texted her few days ago and she completely ignored me until the day after apologising but only because hers is coming up in a few weeks and probably doesnt want to burn that bridge. She'll forget my birthday but will post on her stories constantly about other people wishing them theirs. It's clear at this point that she's been using me for money and doesn't care about me. Its always the ones you least expect.

Anyways I appreciate anyone who took the time to read this, your input will be greatly appreciated.

Please stop making that girl play you for a fool, you seem like an intelligent fella, use your brain.

Pretend she doesn’t exist, you’ll survive. Leave her in the lurch

ersonleads:
I had an experience, was about dating a girl, she did not post my picture for my birthday on WhatsApp that day. she posted a guys picture wishing him happy birthday & when we talked later, she said she forgot....lol she nor know say I done delete am from my mind since. The thing wen make me vex na say she con talk say e done late that she will post my pics & wish me a birthday d next day...I just told her never she call my line again.she called & pleaded. uptil now she still dey beg. I nor get time for rubbish oo

. When does Posting of someone's Picture on WhatsApp becomes an Evidence of Love and Affection ,Babies Everywhere Must everything Becomes a Social Media thing ...I have never Posted my Personal Picture on WhatsApp status ,My Children or my wife ,Never .I don't do such things ...Even if she is deceiving U once she Post your Picture on WhatsApp ,U are Okay right .I repeat Babies Everywhere...

ersonleads:
I had an experience, was about dating a girl, she did not post my picture for my birthday on WhatsApp that day. she posted a guys picture wishing him happy birthday & when we talked later, she said she forgot....lol she nor know say I done delete am from my mind since. The thing wen make me vex na say she con talk say e done late that she will post my pics & wish me a birthday d next day...I just told her never she call my line again.she called & pleaded. uptil now she still dey beg. I nor get time for rubbish oo

No ever mercy for am

bro this is 21st century please try to apply wisdom when dealing with a Nigerian girl, in as much as there are still few good girls, a typical Nigerian girl just wants to date for her financial gain, and you should also date for sexually gain too, if she doesn't give you sex don't give her money vice-versa. 2. if you want to date a nigerian girl, stop been truthful, tell her everything she wants to hear and watch her become loyal then play if love finally sets in then you guys can seriously date in peace. thank you

What are u waiting for fool

EBEk101:



him no dey aware. him need to arrest that babe for dating with tricks
can u imagine d nonsense he is asking

I had already made up my mind when i wrote this, i just wanted to get other people's opinion and perspective on the issue and if they've experienced something similar. Some of my friends had told me that i was being childish by moving on and that missing someone's birthday shouldnt be an indication that someone doesnt care about you. You think i enjoy going through this emotional rollercoaster Call me mumu and simp all you want, i deserve it. I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt. I had cut her off financially for a while and wanted to test her on my birthday to see if she truly cared about me and she failed