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When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by blazepascal(m): 4:38pm On Mar 30
When it comes to relationships or picking a partner for marriage, most Nigerians have a long list of preferences and what they want their spouses to possess in order to make a perfect partner.

Men have want their women to be respectful, beautiful, caring, bold and hard-working before they can consider them as "wife materials". This ideology often make some men to be too selective and usually end up being single even in their forties.

What about the women? Nigerian girls are very complicated people and their idea of an "ideal" husband might depend on age.

A teenage girl or one in her early twenties would want a fun guy, the party type that would take her places to have fun on weekends. Any guy that behaves like a husband to a girl of these age bracket will surely be disappointed as her lifestyle and mentality might be too over-whelming for him. These kinds of ladies prefer play boys and fun lovers at the moment.

Since we're talking about ladies who are choosing the kind of men they want to spend the rest of their lives with, let's get down to the point.

What do ladies mean when they say they want a "God-fearing" man?

First let's describe who a God-fearing man is. A person who is God-fearing is an overly religious person who sees nothing more important than his relationship with God. These people are try to live as holy as they can and often times, treats all people with love and respect equally. These kind of people don't lay much emphasis on romance or being a "great husband" and treat their spouses equally with the way they treat other people outside.

Now, with the above description is there any Nigerian woman that would want that kind of man? Many would cringe at the mere idea of marrying a pastor so as not to appear wearing gowns that they wouldn't normally wear.

No Nigerian woman would want to share her husband's love and affection with anyone and clearly, intimacy is a vital ingredient in marriage that must be shown as often as possible so as to keep the bond strong.

Some Nigerian women would likely cheat or even loath on her "God-fearing" husband because well, that isn't what she had hoped for.

So in summary, what people actually mean when they tell you that they want a "God-fearing man" is actually "I want a Good man''.

"I don't want someone who's too religious".

So the question is, why do we say one thing and mean another?.

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by LMS1(m): 4:39pm On Mar 30
Op Answer This Ones First:
Why Did Mark Zuckerbeg Named It Facebook When Its Actually Not A Book Nor A Face?
Why Do We Call It Nairaland When Its Actually Not A Plot Of Land Or A Naira Note? grin
Why Did They Call It 'Change' When They Ment To Say 'Crippling The Economy' ?
Op Go Back And Study Your History Book. grin

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by BonaMagnate(m): 5:15pm On Mar 30
LMS1:
Op Answer This Ones First:
Why Did Mark Zuckerbeg Named It Facebook When Its Actually Not A Book Nor A Face?
Why Do We Call It Nairaland When Its Actually Not A Plot Of Land Or A Naira Note? grin
Why Did They Call It 'Change' When They Ment To Say 'Crippling The Economy' ?
Op Go Back And Study Your History Book. grin

I expected this from a female.

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Zzor(f): 5:25pm On Mar 30
Don't even think I read,yeye dy smell all over this post

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by SmellySperm(m): 5:32pm On Mar 30
Zzor:
Don't even think I read,yeye dy smell all over this post
lazy youth

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Tonymegabush1(m): 6:19pm On Mar 30
Everyone is a good depending on how you see them...

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by blazepascal(m): 6:34pm On Mar 30
BonaMagnate:

I expected this from a female.
how do you expect me to answer this

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by blazepascal(m): 6:34pm On Mar 30
BonaMagnate:

I expected this from a female.
how do you expect me to answer this
Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by blazepascal(m): 6:35pm On Mar 30
LMS1:
Op Answer This Ones First:
Why Did Mark Zuckerbeg Named It Facebook When Its Actually Not A Book Nor A Face?
Why Do We Call It Nairaland When Its Actually Not A Plot Of Land Or A Naira Note? grin
Why Did They Call It 'Change' When They Ment To Say 'Crippling The Economy' ?
Op Go Back And Study Your History Book. grin
how do u expect me to answer this

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by baralatie(m): 7:18pm On Mar 30
LMS1:
Op Answer This Ones First:
Why Did Mark Zuckerbeg Named It Facebook When Its Actually Not A Book Nor A Face?
Why Do We Call It Nairaland When Its Actually Not A Plot Of Land Or A Naira Note? grin
Why Did They Call It 'Change' When They Ment To Say 'Crippling The Economy' ?
Op Go Back And Study Your History Book. grin
hmmmm
grin

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Glory596(f): 8:23pm On Mar 30
Most senseless post I’ve read today

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Anfield247(m): 8:34pm On Mar 30
Glory596:
Most senseless post I’ve read today
I dey tell you the truth!

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Jeon(m): 8:53pm On Mar 30
thank God say I no read the the write up based on the comments.

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by juman(m): 10:19pm On Mar 30
Most ladies would find God fearing man to be "boring".
He is too easy to be predicted and too straight forward.

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by doubleZ88(m): 10:27pm On Mar 30
when a Nigerian lady says she wants a god-fearing man its simply; she wants a man who will not cheat on her, not say a word if she cheats likewise.
a man who can accept her d way she is.
a man who can provide all her unending needs.

infact in summery, a woman needs a man she can easily punish.

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Ayo2004: 10:56pm On Mar 30
They want a man that wouldn't cheat with Dangote's bank account,Wizkid face and yahoo boy spending mentality,simple!
But its very difficult to find all these in one man so they are content with the Dangote's bank account as long as he spends like a fool

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Glory596(f): 12:39am On Mar 31
Anfield247:

I dey tell you the truth!

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by blazepascal(m): 2:06am On Mar 31
Glory596:
Most senseless post I’ve read today
only for you but not for others

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Emmycrown123(m): 2:44am On Mar 31
Omoh
Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 7:36am On Mar 31
blazepascal:


So the question is, why do we say one thing and mean another?.



Because they are women.

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by pointblank247(m): 8:06am On Mar 31
First is that I didn't read.
Second is that when a woman from Nigeria talks of God fearing man, she mean, a man that does all her biddens ,put differently, she want a SIMP

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by femi4: 8:24am On Mar 31
Zzor:
Don't even think I read,yeye dy smell all over this post
Even to read..na work for you

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Lemmy123(m): 12:16pm On Mar 31
When ladies say they want A God-fearing man, I think they really mean to say they just need a normal man, a good man. Like they don't want a man who cheats, steals, or have any questionable behavior, it's their way of making their preference... It's not like they would love you if you are churchy or have this Brother John look, as matter of fact, they'll run from you... They don't like it when you're religious, not to talk of overly

Please check my signature, thank you

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by lekki1444: 12:16pm On Mar 31
cheesy
Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Ciscogod(m): 12:16pm On Mar 31
They need God fearing Huspuppi

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by getangry(m): 12:16pm On Mar 31
Ok

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by Bobotic(m): 12:17pm On Mar 31
I pray may she be a God fearing type too

Okay...no rain without lightening sha

Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by dalhjana: 12:17pm On Mar 31
kiss kiss

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Re: When A Nigerian Lady Says She Wants A "God-fearing Man", This Is What She Means by chronian(f): 12:17pm On Mar 31
A new day, a new post about Nigerian girls. Seems you guys are too obsessed with your ladies.


I wonder how many of their photos y'all masturbate to on a daily basis. Easy, else you develop a heart attack.

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