James4358:
i was present at university of calabar teaching hospital where test where carried out on his son, he was nt compatible. The other son is diabetic and was nt fit medically for a transplant. People donate kidneys even for free, u need to be exposed to knw this facts.

Kewellbanks:
Are you not here to judge? His Boss probably killed his wife and the secret cult needed another head right? Why are human so judgemental when there's no concrete proof? I fear people like you pass snake

PhilipReigns:

I didn't want to comment before, but for this last statement of yours, let me be honest with you Mr para military agent (aka police man) hiding his identity. Nobody donates a kidney for free, except of course it's out of ignorance. My aunty who was a police woman died from kidney problem in 2014, I know what we saw. Both the carrier of the ailment, and the donor will lose their lives at the end of the day, at most between 2 to 3 years after a successful transplant, d ailment is that terrible! The same way u re hiding your career as a police officer is the same way u are hiding true facts from the public, we shall gladly give u a lasting solution to this in the form of an advice when u have fully decided to tell us the whole truth about the innocent girl's death. Good day!

Awoo88:
The story no complete. 2hy are you the one taking responsibility even after being separated from your former commander?? You are posted to another part yet your boss doesn't have subordinates taking care of his house in his absence that you have to be the one in hospital with his maid. You are more involved in the kidney transplant than you are letting on. You probably secure the service of the girl for your boss. Na you the family know and it is you that acted as a middle man that is why you are been held responsible.

Cutie09:


Sorry @James4358 you cant see what your boss is into. Explain to me why a stranger offer her kidney to your boss. How much did he pay her how much were you paid. Can we hear her parents side of the story because there is always 2 or more sides to a story.
Beside it is against medical ethics to buy or sell kidney

James4358:
i was present at university of calabar teaching hospital where test where carried out on his son, he was nt compatible. The other son is diabetic and was nt fit medically for a transplant. People donate kidneys even for free, u need to be exposed to knw this facts.

James4358:
My nairaland famIly, i jst want to bare my mind here.

Matured responses will be sincerely appreciated. I'll try to be brief & straight to the points.

Precisely in 2019, I helped my then boss who was transfered to Abuja to get a maid from the south south part of the country, calabar to be precise. She was 18yrs at that time. Later that year, my boss who was nursing a kidney ailment needed transplant urgently. Out of love, this girl opted to help donate one of her kidneys. Personaly I kicked against the idea when she told me, but she was strong-willed. I took the matter to her parents and they threatened to hold me responsible if anything happened to their daughter. After much persuasion from her, her parents gave in reluctantly. We carried out series of tests & she was certified fit to donate. My boss contacted a German hospital that later did the transplant. I work for a para-millitary agency as a cadet A.S.P & i call him My boss because he was heading the command i was first posted to. More details below...

JudgeKronos:
18 years old strong-willed for someone she barely knew ?
You brought her in 2019 and she gave her kidney in 2020 in an offshore hospital ..?
Your so called Boss even hired another maid then left all of them and traveled out..?
Wait.... you brought an 18yrs old girl to a male Boss whose wife died years ago...?
.... and in your statement you said the girl donated her kidney out of love ...?

Bros, go and sleep , you will be fine tomorrow morning.
Alcohol has 2 after effects .. the hangover and the withdrawal syndrome...
Like I said you will be fine tomorrow morning

James4358:
My nairaland family, i jst want to bare my mind here.

Matured responses will be sincerely appreciated. I'll try to be brief & straight to the points.

Precisely in 2019, I helped my then boss who was transfered to Abuja to get a maid from the south south part of the country, calabar to be precise. She was 18yrs at that time. Later that year, my boss who was nursing a kidney ailment needed transplant urgently. Out of love, this girl opted to help donate one of her kidneys. Personaly I kicked against the idea when she told me, but she was strong-willed. I took the matter to her parents and they threatened to hold me responsible if anything happened to their daughter. After much persuasion from her, her parents gave in reluctantly. We carried out series of tests & she was certified fit to donate. My boss contacted a German hospital that later did the transplant. I work for a para-millitary agency as a cadet A.S.P & i call him My boss because he was heading the command i was first posted to. More details below...

James4358:
Noted sir! I appreciate.

frozen70:


It's just unfortunate

You recommend a house keeper who is a minor and out of pity, she took a decision to donate her kidney out of love and human kindness to her boss

Well you weren't the one that killed her

She didn't die of kidney failure as no prove of that

All you need is to plead with her family nit claiming any rights that she chose to do so by herself

Dobt go there to argue with another

Go with few elders who can talk for you

If they insist you marry her

During the marriage right, tell them that you meant well for their child but she died for reasons known to God

When it's time for burial, when they open her coffin, speak to her that you meant well for her and death came and too her away

You don't need to say am not responsible for her death because you can't even say what killed her

It has no effect on you if you do marriage rights

After every thing, yo to God in prayers to separate wgat you did and have faith in God

James4358:
[s]She didnt die of kidney failure. The transplant was carried out in 2019, its almost 2yrs now. She has been sound & healthy until last week she complained of nt being well.[/s]

alizma:

Have you thought of the possibility of the 18years old having affairs with the man promoting her willingness, though ignorant of the consequences to donate her kidney? While I believe she may have been convinced to donate her kidney, I won't rule out emotional relationship between a made and a military officer who's wife is late.

Cutie09:
I don't want to judge here, but officer your story is too good to be true. You've painted a picture as if you are saints here but you are not. Because of poverty you guys use this girl for exchange.

1) your boss have family extended family why can they not offer their own kidney why this young girl.

2) how much were you paid be honest.... why didn't you give your boss your own kidney since You've known him longer.

3) your boss probably killed his wife, now his secret cult need another head he used this ibiobio girl for exchange.

4) you come across like someone from ibiobio or efik, am going to be honest with you next time is going to be your head if God never destroy you.

God is going to judge you. Go confess to her parents how much you were paid.

PresidentAtiku:
marry her corpse kwa?

Incomplete story.

DID YOU GUYS AGREE TO MARRY OR DATE WHILE SHE WAS ALIVE?

What is bringing marriage now she is late?

OP, say the complete truth so that you can be helped

Cutie09:


@Kewellbanks if you believe that story then you'll believe anything. For the fact that there is no prove doesn't mean one cant connect the dot in this story.

Average Nigerians will never give their kidney willingly to another person (my opinion) and those that are less privileged no matter the poverty won't willingly give out their kidney to a stranger. So you are telling me the boss doesn't have siblings, extended family, inlaws etc.

The part i would like to know is how a medical Dr in Germany carried out the operation without checking if the donor is related to his boss. so you sincerely believe the operation was done in Germany?

James4358:
My nairaland family, i jst want to bare my mind here.

Matured responses will be sincerely appreciated. I'll try to be brief & straight to the points.

Precisely in 2019, I helped my then boss who was transfered to Abuja to get a maid from the south south part of the country, calabar to be precise. She was 18yrs at that time. Later that year, my boss who was nursing a kidney ailment needed transplant urgently. Out of love, this girl opted to help donate one of her kidneys. Personaly I kicked against the idea when she told me, but she was strong-willed. I took the matter to her parents and they threatened to hold me responsible if anything happened to their daughter. After much persuasion from her, her parents gave in reluctantly. We carried out series of tests & she was certified fit to donate. My boss contacted a German hospital that later did the transplant. I work for a para-millitary agency as a cadet A.S.P & i call him My boss because he was heading the command i was first posted to. More details below...

Mobog:


Nice thought....

James4358:
No one seems to understand my story. I was practicaly far away from them. I was working in calabar at the time when she was at abuja. But nt for respect for the dead, i would have uploaded her pics. This girl was jst too big for her age. She was 21yrs old this january. I was the one who approached her parents for her services, that's why the blame is upon me. As am typing, my boss is stil abroad & planning to return to nigeria this week. She was never used or forced.