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How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by OMOJOHN001(m): 9:44pm On Mar 31
He has been disturbing my babe in school for some weeks now, that he wants them to be dating.

She told me about him, Now he message her on WhatsApp tonight and I am really upset with such act.

Please how do deal or treat his Bleep up,

I was planning of setting him up, or use his words and chats against him.

The problem is that I am not a student of that institution.

what should I do guys,
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by donbachi(m): 9:50pm On Mar 31
Cry of a troubled loverboy.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by OMOJOHN001(m): 9:55pm On Mar 31
embarassed please Guy's help me out ooooo, I don't want any distraction for my babe oooo.
and now she just rely on me to save her.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by OMOJOHN001(m): 9:59pm On Mar 31
donbachi:
Cry of a troubled loverboy.

Bro I am not a loverboy,
if she happen to be your sister, won't you do something to save her?
Assuming she is my sister I will sha do something.

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by blackboy(m): 10:14pm On Mar 31
Ask her to politely let him know no . Let her handle it first if she cannot the text messages are proof against him if he tries to intimidate her
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:16pm On Mar 31
Knight in Shining Armour! cheesy

These things just require tact. What course is he taking her? If it's an optional course, she should simply drop it.

If it's a core course, she should tell him unambiguously that she can't play ball with him... that she's not the kind of girl. And mean it.

Let her block him and pretend like she lost her line or something so he can't call or text her.

And generally, students, especially girls should be able to read and pass their exams without favours. It would make your life easier. Most lecturers won't bother you because they know they have no leverage to corner you.

Even when they attempt, you'll be confident enough to shun such advances. No lecturer will fail a smart student, worse they'll do is give you a lower grade... C instead of B

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Truth be told, the armour these lecturers have is that most students react with fear when a lecturer is making advances towards them. That was me in 100 level! When you realise that they're just regular old men trying to get free sex, you'll be able to confidently refuse.

By the time I was in 300 level, I had become badass. Call me to your office, you won't see me. I'll tell you I was in church or the library. If I ever show up, I'll make sure it's a time when the office is crowded, and find another "church" excuse to disappear. The lecturer ended up calling me "holy holy that use to wear ripped jeans." LOL. But he left me alone. Nonsense man!

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Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by drmikeadams(m): 10:16pm On Mar 31
OMOJOHN001:
He has been disturbing my babe in school for some weeks now, that he wants them to be dating.

She told me about him, Now he message her on WhatsApp tonight and I am really upset with such act.

Please how do deal or treat his Bleep up,

I was planning of setting him up, or use his words and chats against him.

The problem is that I am not a student of that institution.

what should I do guys,


Ur still doing lover boy wit a Nigerian female student
...ttoto wey boys and lecturers go vandalize sooner or later.betta focus on ur studies
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by Panacea278: 10:22pm On Mar 31
Let him have a share of the national cake..at least she is not a virgin �
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by OMOJOHN001(m): 10:23pm On Mar 31
drmikeadams:



Ur still doing lover boy wit a Nigerian female student
...ttoto wey boys and lecturers go vandalize sooner or later.betta focus on ur studies


Bro I'm a graduate, not in that school.

Abi I won't marry again ni bayii.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by OMOJOHN001(m): 10:24pm On Mar 31
blackboy:
Ask her to politely let him know no . Let her handle it first if she cannot the text messages are proof against him if he tries to intimidate her

Sensible response. thanks so much.

I really appreciate you.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by drmikeadams(m): 10:26pm On Mar 31
OMOJOHN001:



Bro I'm a graduate, not in that school.

Abi I won't marry again ni bayii.

Good luck bro...just carry for mind say another guy man dey chook prick their and know peace
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Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by HarunaWest(m): 10:34pm On Mar 31
OMOJOHN001:
He has been disturbing my babe in school for some weeks now, that he wants them to be dating.

She told me about him, Now he message her on WhatsApp tonight and I am really upset with such act.

Please how do deal or treat his Bleep up,

I was planning of setting him up, or use his words and chats against him.

The problem is that I am not a student of that institution.

what should I do guys,
Tell her to deal with it..She is your babe and not your mum or wife..Even if she later goes behind your back to date him, would you know..Let her just keep resisting him that's all...Last last he would leave her alone.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by extol1(m): 10:38pm On Mar 31
OMOJOHN001:
He has been disturbing my babe in school for some weeks now, that he wants them to be dating.

She told me about him, Now he message her on WhatsApp tonight and I am really upset with such act.

Please how do deal or treat his Bleep up,

I was planning of setting him up, or use his words and chats against him.

The problem is that I am not a student of that institution.

what should I do guys,
u must be naive to think they have not been nacking themselves. u better don't kill yourself over a girl imagine Nigerian lady for that matter, those species that can lie more than the devil itself. please channel that energy to your sisters if you want peace of mind
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by Truvel(m): 9:04am On Apr 01
I See.... U Are Scared Of Losing Her!!! Lol. Op, Don't Do Anything Stupid. See Dis As A Test To Know Weda Ur Girl Truly Loves U. If She Truly Loves U, She Will Ignore Him Or Not Take Him Serious.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by SmellySperm(m): 9:22am On Apr 01
stinji boy...u think say na only u dey nack her kpekus..
dey dia dey form lover boy
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by Mcslize: 9:48am On Apr 01
The only girl I will fight for is my sister and mother and my future children.

Even my future wife will fight for herself.

Don't carry girls matter for head. A girl will tell you that a particular man is disturbing her. I see that as an eye service.

You will be surprised that she will be going on a date with that same guy she reported to you.

If you want to marry her, let her handle it herself. Fighting for a girl about a particular guy, or trying to protect her away from a particular guy will make her start liking the guy due to her inner most curiosity which she will want to satisfy at some point along the line.

How did the lecturer get her number? She gave it to him herself to the extent that he messaged her on WhatsApp. In essence, they have been chatting on WhatsApp.

The only reason he reported the lecturer to you is maybe because you've promised her marriage and she wants to make herself worthy of you as your future wife.

Promising a girl marriage will make her live with you with lots of pretenses just to make you see her as a good girl.

She knows how to handle things with the lecturer to stop communication without involving you.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by The5DME(m): 10:11am On Apr 01
Fake story.
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by Kobicove(m): 10:13am On Apr 01
OMOJOHN001:



Bro I'm a graduate, not in that school.

Abi I won't marry again ni bayii.

Use reverse psychology on him

Go with your babe to visit the lecturer in his office then tell him you came to thank him for looking after your babe like his daughter... guilty conscience will not let him ask her for sex anymore
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by Reex12(m): 11:06am On Apr 01
OMOJOHN001:



Bro I'm a graduate, not in that school.

Abi I won't marry again ni bayii.
kpekus wey boys dey chop anyhow wey she no tell you, naim you wan kill yourself over

radarada
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by BareFacedLies(m): 12:26pm On Apr 01
OMOJOHN001:
He has been disturbing my babe in school for some weeks now, that he wants them to be dating.

She told me about him, Now he message her on WhatsApp tonight and I am really upset with such act.

Please how do deal or treat his Bleep up,

I was planning of setting him up, or use his words and chats against him.

The problem is that I am not a student of that institution.

what should I do guys,

The lecturer wants to fùck your girl now that she's still new in the school and her pùssy is still tight.

Just allow him to do once so your girl can have a smooth sail in the school.

Her pûssy does not read meter so I don't even understand what the fuss is all about grin
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by pretydiva(f): 4:08pm On Apr 01
Use his chats and texts messages against him
Re: How Do I Deal With This Lecturer. by SeunDobo(m): 5:23pm On Apr 08
OMOJOHN001:
He has been disturbing my babe in school for some weeks now, that he wants them to be dating.

She told me about him, Now he message her on WhatsApp tonight and I am really upset with such act.

Please how do deal or treat his Bleep up,

I was planning of setting him up, or use his words and chats against him.

The problem is that I am not a student of that institution.

what should I do guys,


most of foolish lecturer don't know that karma dey and karma real ... if you dey fvck your students keep doing it and enjoying it na your time .. but I want you to know once you too get daughter no say na hit and run dem go dey used your daughter do too and would later be a single mom in your house Isha Allah

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