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|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by alllivesmatter: 11:28am On Apr 08, 2021|
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 11:30am On Apr 08, 2021|
Sir/Madam, you can be a believer without being a total fool. There are two different stories of creation in the bible. One is plausible, the other is not. Both cannot be true. That is a FACT. And no amount of discernment can change that FACT!
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by AlphaBeta130: 11:35am On Apr 08, 2021|
But never happened simultaneously. One came first which is adam. Eve came from Adam. It never happened simultaneously!!!
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by TSBO: 11:37am On Apr 08, 2021|
Straw man. I asked a question and you left that to attend to something else.
The point is, if you don't believe Christ, you CANNOT understand the bible.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 11:42am On Apr 08, 2021|
Do you even know what strawman means. Just repeating what you heard.
How can we have discussion when you can't even be HONEST about what is there in clear black and white. How can you have discussion with such a person??
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 11:44am On Apr 08, 2021|
Here's something I posted earlier:
My friend Adam couldn't have been created a second before Eve. He was given a penis; where was that supposed to go?? Look throughout nature - a positive can't exist without concurrent existence of a negative. Also, see your non sequitur - God who knows everything suddenly REALISED he made a mistake - and the type of mistake that even a child won't make!
And this - God who created the whole universe with just His words suddenly became a sculptor when it came to Eve. He could not create her with just His words! Please discern the difference between myth and Gid's logic.
Read your bible.
26 Then God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.”
27 So God created mankind in his own image,
in the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them.
When God created mankind, he made them in the likeness of God.(C) 2 He created them(D) male and female(E) and blessed them. And he named them “Mankind”[a] when they were created.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by AlphaBeta130: 11:45am On Apr 08, 2021|
NiRfreak:Leave that guy, i have been observing his weak analogy
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by benji93: 11:55am On Apr 08, 2021|
I find it hard to understand how you claim women don't mature earlier than men but claim you studied a program under the category of the biological sciences. Perhaps you only just have a degree, and you have no idea the significance of doing thorough research. In today's world you learn far more out of a classroom than in it. By out of it i mean purposeful research work. The guy was reasonably correct in saying women mature(ripen) earlier. Below is a reference to a study.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by TSBO: 12:02pm On Apr 08, 2021|
I have not in any way spoken about your comment on two "seemingly" contradictory creation stories. My focus has been on demonstrating that the creation of the woman was not an afterthought as God does not make mistakes.
However, you seem to think that I am just here to defend the Bible blindly.
God did intend to make male and female. There is no afterthought with God. For example, Jesus is said to be the Lamb of God slain from the foundation of the world.
Lastly, and I guess this is what you are keen about, One passage in Genesis speaks to "how" and the rest speak to "what" He did. The new testament reiterates the fact that the woman is of the man. Evidently, there is no contradiction as to "how".
The fact that the woman is of the man does not contradict the creation of male and female, and vice versa. In fact, it provides more background.
I hope it is clear now.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 12:03pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Yes now that makes men men, there's nothing like equality in marriage
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 12:03pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Exceptions don't make the rule dude
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 12:04pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Women are not built for leadership and cannot lead men especially in marriage
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by OBku4(m): 12:30pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Pls cancel all the nonsense you wrote up there.
Just a simple question, between ur dad and mom, who pressures/pressured you to get married?
You feel men have time for all this nonsense relationship matter?
All those things you wrote up there are exactly what mothers/aunties/elder sisters/female peers (that married before you) do.
men don't care less... and I'll add, even Fathers
...thought she was making sense till I decided to read it.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 12:40pm On Apr 08, 2021|
What do you mean "I hope it us clear now" when u have totally confused yourself. We are saying that man couldn't have been created at a different time from woman as one biblical story says. Instead of being clear about that, you are there confusing yourself with all sorts of ancillary talk. Simple: man and woman were created same time, That's what makes sense - and luckily a version of biblical creation story also says so!
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by McSquishi(f): 12:51pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Surely women participate in pressuring one another.
But pretending a big portion of ridicule and pressure doesn’t come from men is funny. If you’re on nairaland or even read comments in this thread you would’ve seen it.
Male pastors, motivational speakers, random men are all over the place convincing women to read this one or sign up for that one to learn how to find a husband. You haven’t seen it? Really?
You haven’t seen guys ridicule a woman saying how she’ll never get married or find a husband with this attitude or this character trait? Hmm
Neither of my parents pressured me to get married. So your point of that question is lost on me.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Triangles1(m): 12:55pm On Apr 08, 2021|
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by McSquishi(f): 1:00pm On Apr 08, 2021|
This study and others is about the brain and research suggest that girls (during childhood and adolescence) have better brain optimization in certain cognitive and emotional areas. By the time they are teenagers in Highschool, boys and girls will have caught up to one another in those areas.
This has nothing to do with people of marriageable age.
He said ripen and spoke on showing signs of aging faster which was speaking to physical maturity. He later mentioned the words “old” “ugly” to further prove he was speaking about physical appearance.
So thanks for trying to win his points for him but you’re both wrong.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by McSquishi(f): 1:33pm On Apr 08, 2021|
You can’t deny my statements when there are men confirming my observation in this very thread.
There are no biological nor psychological differences that make women want to get married and men not cherish marriage. This isn’t about nature but nurture. It depends on how you are raised. And how you are raised very much depends on your culture.
What civilization have you built? You men in Nigeria can’t even build paved roads for your community, let’s be realistic lol.
The building of a civilization requires both men and women. Millions of years of human existence have relied on both men and women for progress.
Again, it’s culture that tells men they are better at math or science but since the myth has been exposed for what it is, more and more women enter STEM fields with great success...
“...The researchers conclude that early experience, educational policies and culture also strongly affect success in math and science.
Other studies suggest that when it comes to math, girls and boys are similarly capable. A 2008 analysis by Hyde and colleagues reported that in children from grades two to 11, [there was no gender difference for math skills. And in 2009, Hyde and Janet Mertz, PhD, reported that while more boys than girls score at the highest levels in mathematics, that gender gap has been closing over time. In fact, they reported that the gap is smaller in countries with greater gender equality, suggesting that gender differences in math achievement are ***largely due to cultural and environmental factors***.
Some men have to believe they are biologically superior to women because they are very insecure. Without their male appendage they would feel utterly useless because they have nothing going for themselves outside of that... and that’s sad.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Wolfeye: 2:13pm On Apr 08, 2021|
All I can say is every Nigerian man should have atleast 3 wives.
Women don’t love you. They just want the idea of having a man, a succesful man.
She doesn’t want to get married because she loves you, she just wants to get married....because her time is passing and her mates and friends are all married.
She doesn’t have a choice...she’s stuck with you because she doesn’t have the nerve and confidence to go after the guys she really wants.
So when she starts making posts thanking the stars and the moon because she found you, bros no reason am...she’s just happy to finally have all her friends at her own wedding make e no be like say na she carry last.
She has been groomed for 20+ years for this special day and it really doesn’t matter who is in suit as long as he’s presentable and has the funds.
Don't trust anybody that doesn’t have a choice.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by benji93: 2:19pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Point of correction my argument was on maturation and nothing more. The evidence out there clearly shows women live longer than men on average. On another note, the maturation period we are talking about continues until 20 on average, and for the most part, they overlap, only that one starts earlier and slows down while the other speeds up. So if the 20 is a reasonable upper age limit in the early maturity race, then on average by the end of high school, males still would have some catching up to do, cos in general Nigerians leave high school by 17 these days. And by that a girl is matured enough for marriage. I never referred to the 'ugly' part, which i believe was out of place, so it's unnecessary to bring that up. Stay on point. . And you made another point on the issue of pressure. Yes the society pressures women into marriage, and this has been the case for a long time because until recently having kids was a source of joy, and some would consider it a divine command, given that the major religions emphasize on the importance of kids to a marriage, and the fact that the age for menopause has recessed, the pressure is a social necessity, but there have been several medical advancements which allow women to have their own kids even after hitting menopause. Given this, that social pressure is bound to wane. Besides do not make it seem as if the pressure comes from only men. A significant part of it comes from your camp: Your peers, our sisters, and mothers.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Nobody: 2:22pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Give me statistics of mordern women who are bricklayers, engineers, miner's, firefighters,mechanics,plumbers, truck drivers ,welders,Carpenters,and other high physical risk jobs essential for the maintenance of civilization ,rather you women troop to office jobs with safety , how dear you say you built or are even currently maintaining civilization, Nigerian men ancestors were not intelligent like white men ancestors to build early civilization but we are damn well maintaining the civilization white men built
Women throughout history and every civilization are just essential for three basic things sex ( that's why they clamor for reproductive rights unlike men because they understand the agency of their pussy, but don't care about our sperm and joysticks), reproduction and child rearing,
Women are fundamentally not built for leadership and are inherently default followers that's why most ,instinctively opt for secretary and receptionist positions due to your agreeable nature,more than the average man who mostly tends to be the head or CEO of a corporation as we are less agreeable, average performance on both genders but mostly men who make it to the top of a career ladder as we are not biologically limited with pregnancy or motherly duties that can alter a woman's career path, biology limits women in the workplace
STEM data from Egalitarianistic-Equalism Societies like scandanavian countries such as Denmark, Iceland and Norway shows that the more a nation tries to eliminate so-called Patriachal cultural barriers for women via affirmative Actions, diversity and inclusivity policies, quota policies, have widened the gender differences in these Societies and they have the poorest STEM data for women than traditionally conservative Societies , these is know as the gender equality paradox, don't ever blame culture again for the lack of interest of women in STEM fields look at bloody Finland
Men and Women are fundamentally not equal blame Nature, God, or evolutionary biology, it doesn't change facts, women are drawn to people and have great social skills than men, men are drawn to things and make use of abstractions like science and logic, these fundamental hardwired psychological facts that social constructivism and Egalitarianism humanist ideologies can't Change by systematic re-engineering of cultures via anti-patriachal legislatures
Stop blaming us and our joysticks
Deal with your innate naturally ordered inferior position and work with it as Biology fundamentally made women second class citizens essentially with nothing to offer asides sex( which homosexual men can get from each other), reproduction (as men don't have wombs) and child rearing ( you are better nurturers)
We don't need you for survival only reproduction, but you need us to continue to maintain civilization as without us and our Technology you would not survive even when you're all living as a collective
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by MummyD2020(f): 2:53pm On Apr 08, 2021|
His frustration has surpassed normal reasoning
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Nobody: 3:07pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Why are we going to rest?
Who the hell would want to give up control of women bodies and pussies and emancipate them to become pseudo-masculine hybrid beasts like mordern Progressive women
We will continue to monitor them and keep them under our patriachal check using tools such as culture, religion and societal shaming mechanism
We must control pussy to satisfy our masculine mating strategy and Biological imperative
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by McSquishi(f): 3:07pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Point of correction: your argument was that this other guy was correct to say women ripen earlier than men and you shared an article about a study that briefly spoke of *girl’s* brain’s maturing earlier than boys to help prove his point even accusing me of not doing research or being properly knowledgeable.
You’re incorrect about the differences lasting through the 20’s. I’ve told you that the maturation process where girl’s brains mature earlier than that of boys is something that happens in adolescence. By the time those kids are 17 that maturity gap will have closed.
Even physically where girls enter puberty 1-2 years earlier than boys on average, they have caught up to each other by their late teens. The terms “boy” and “girl” are used for a reason, these studies have to do with kids. Not people in their 20’s.
Both men and women’s brains are considered fully developed at 25. The gender differences in maturation are not present in our 20’s, though.
I was on topic referring to the “ugly” part because it highlights that you sharing a article that briefly mentions brain maturation was irrelevant since that’s not the point the guy was making who you were hoping to defend.
Certainly, it’s not just men who pressure women. But it’s disingenuous for any man to ask why women see marriage as a major accomplishment when they themselves tell women it is a major accomplishment for us.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 3:41pm On Apr 08, 2021|
Peace081:Is a human not an animal ?
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 3:43pm On Apr 08, 2021|
cococandy:Womdn matter the give us joy
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 3:46pm On Apr 08, 2021|
sapphiere:He needs not to hide it before sleeping with every NIGERIAN GAL
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by McSquishi(f): 3:46pm On Apr 08, 2021|
So not only do you believe in the supremacy of males you also believe in the supremacy of white people.
You are all kinds of messed up.
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 3:48pm On Apr 08, 2021|
sapphiere:WOMEN ONLINE IS OPPOSITE OF THEIRSELVES IN REALITY. WE KNOW THEM . THEY DNT WANA SOUND CHEAP
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 3:51pm On Apr 08, 2021|
PoliteActivist:A woman is called MAN BECUS SHE WAS CREATED OUT OF A MAN. THEY ARE NEVER CREATED THE SAME DAY. JUST SHUT UP IF U DNT KNW WHAT TO SAY
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 4:07pm On Apr 08, 2021|
PoliteActivist:And genesis 1 vs 2 and 3 makes no sense abi ?
|Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Akuruoulo(m): 4:09pm On Apr 08, 2021|
PoliteActivist:the first creation story makes more sense
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