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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Itstrending: 6:15pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


Yes I am

Oponu
ok before 40 you will have sense if you will be alive then. Because people that reason like you don't livelong.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by healthbing(f): 6:16pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


Women should be after love and money

Women should not feel bad for having standards

You're right..but some are just after one..
That's why I said character and attitude differs..
And there is nothing wrong with spending on a woman you love if you can afford it.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Duplexxx: 6:18pm On Apr 06
Pool home na pool home no body want to be pool is only pool meet the pool if it happen the Rich meet the pool is not what you mean

OK o
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 6:18pm On Apr 06
Yusufisraelj:
NiceMen

Well guys let's be sincerely here pls, you cannot expect a girl from a poor background not to fend for her household if she's the first lady in the house, that is wrong parentally speaking, bkos a child should never fend for his or her parents survival, but shit happens, na Africa we day

That being said, if as a guy you can't foot her necessary bills and still be alright, brother you are broke, work on your finances, let's not broke shame anybody.

Again money should never be the foundation of any relationship rather commonality of purpose, love, understanding, seeking the best interest of the relationship, commitment and trust should be.

To you question Nice - yes truth be told there's need for a shift in thinking and improved productivity from any lady from a poor background, however the best commitment and love have also come from such quarters. Am very open anyways rich or poor we will work at it and make it the best relationship there ever will be.

You are missing the point. Aside money, there is something missing in many of them that will always frustrate you. Look, I am the last guy to discriminate anyone and it is even the reason why I stayed long hanging out with such ladies but I had to evaluate and realized that character wise, they do not know how to really handle the kind of relationship that I want.

Footing the bills of a lady you hardly get anything from is just a parasitic kind of relationship.

For instance, many of them do not call.

Many of them are poor communicators. I am a guy that likes openness and communication a lot. No need for guessing "What could be wrong" just because someone is being moody over something that is not even your fault. They are also very entitled and they hardly understand what a real relationship entails, which is both party contributing their quota but with them, it is often one party doing all the works...

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Itstrending: 6:20pm On Apr 06
healthbing:


You're right..but some are just after one..
That's why I said character and attitude differs..
And there is nothing wrong with spending on a woman you love if you can afford it.
spending money on a woman is not what the idiot is talking about.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:21pm On Apr 06
healthbing:


You're right..but some are just after one..
That's why I said character and attitude differs..
And there is nothing wrong with spending on a woman you love if you can afford it.

All are after at least one, and it's not a good or bad thing

Women love opportunistically, they don't care about ur struggles because they don't build but rather they move in

Women wait at the finish line to Bleep the winners

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Refinedbeing(m): 6:21pm On Apr 06
Kobicove:
It's better to date someone from the same social class as yourself smiley
Totally bro.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:22pm On Apr 06
Itstrending:
ok before 40 you will have sense if you will be alive then. Because people that reason like you don't livelong.

Nope

It's people like u that ur wife will b controlling and u will also b cheating on her because she's going to be giving u low quality sex in ur marriage.

Ode don't have sense and b a man and take responsibility and authority
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:23pm On Apr 06
Refinedbeing:
I actually said no one be pressed though.

It's just sad

Anyways u are a beta male
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:24pm On Apr 06
Poorboy:
spin plates, MARWAR ABI, you're just an idiot embarassed

Ode have non-exclusive relationships in ur 20s don't b naïve and bluepilled conditioned.

Women love opportunistically
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by tunjilana: 6:24pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


I'm very sure u are still in ur 20s

I'm very sure you are not a high value man

Women love opportunistically dude

Having Status and money for a lady is irrelevant in a relationship especially with a high value man

Women don't build, they just move in

Only weak ass, low valued men broke shame women


When u realise clearly that no matter how rich u are, there will always be someone rich enough to make you look poor, when such a man comes around a woman who believes "strongly" that she doesnt have to build and all she is in this life to get is comfort, then you and your change will be toast.

It is not always about having money but making sure that the woman who u tag along with long term, sees herself a stakeholder and feels very much involved rather than a woman who sees a man she can quickly use....How do u even make sure ur woman is with you for the right reasons.
When it comes to a woman u intend to keep, pls change your views...this mentality only works for those u wanna use and dump

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:25pm On Apr 06
Dalil8:


No man would reason the way you do. You're a woman periodt.

Nope

Only men with high value mindset reason like I do.

Only poor minded, weak ass, low valued men reason like the way u do
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:26pm On Apr 06
tunjilana:



When u realise clearly that no matter how rich u are, there will always be someone rich enough to make you look poor, when such a man comes around a woman who believes "strongly" that she doesnt have to build and all she is in this life to get is comfort, then you and your change will be toast

That's why as a high value man u always have options.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Itstrending: 6:27pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


Nope

It's people like u that ur wife will b controlling and u will also b cheating on her because she's going to be giving u low quality sex in ur marriage.

Ode don't have sense and b a man and take responsibility and authority
low quality sex I see you're a sex starved idiot, to you it's sex that controls the world.

From your words you're a low thinker, you talk of spinning plates I laugh at you. A low budget feminist.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 6:28pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


I'm very sure u are still in ur 20s

I'm very sure you are not a high value man

Women love opportunistically dude

Having Status and money for a lady is irrelevant in a relationship especially with a high value man

Women don't build, they just move in

Only weak ass, low valued men broke shame women
Go find your fellow RedPillers elsewhere...
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by ikllbrokehoes(m): 6:30pm On Apr 06
ikillbrokegirls:
Broke girls are useless.
I'm not in anyway related to this moniker, thank you.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 6:30pm On Apr 06
tunjilana:



When u realise clearly that no matter how rich u are, there will always be someone rich enough to make you look poor, when such a man comes around a woman who believes "strongly" that she doesnt have to build and all she is in this life to get is comfort, then you and your change will be toast.

It is not always about having money but making sure that the woman who u tag along with long term, sees herself a stakeholder and feels very much involved rather than a woman who sees a man she can quickly use....How do u even make sure ur woman is with you for the right reasons.
When it comes to a woman u intend to keep, pls change your views...this mentality only works for those u wanna use and dump
You have time even educating the idiot. I have a friend that burnt through several millions because of girl from same category we are discussing here and babe was caught cheating with a guy nowhere close to my guy's money...

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:32pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:
Go find your fellow RedPillers elsewhere...

Lolzzz

Truth is bitter
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by tunjilana: 6:33pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


That's why as a high value man u always have options.

Even options have scale...the least is the one who is only there to eat. the highest is the one who has added value to your wealth....Even extremely wealthy polygamous men measure these things...You marry a reigning president's daughter or a top-notch career woman and she doesnt just go somewhere in the harem like the leaches you picked from somewhere obscure.

learn to know that a woman's stake in your life is key and she has to earn it. except u wanna live through life having short short meaningless, mainly sexual relationships

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:34pm On Apr 06
Itstrending:
low quality sex I see you're a sex starved idiot, to you it's sex that controls the world.

From your words you're a low thinker, you talk of spinning plates I laugh at you. A low budget feminist.

Women are sexual objects

Yes spin plates in ur 20s and don't believe in the soulmate bullshit. There's nothing like "the one"!

PS: I ain't a feminist
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:36pm On Apr 06
tunjilana:


Even options have scale...the least is the one who is only there to eat. the highest is the one who has added value to your wealth....Even extremely wealthy polygamous men measure these things...You marry a reigning president's daughter or a top-notch career woman and she doesnt just go somewhere in the harem like the leaches you picked from somewhere obscure.

learn to know that a woman's stake in your life is key and she has to earn it. except u wanna live through life having short short meaningless, mainly sexual relationships

There's nothing like meaningless sexual relationships.

Life is transactional.

I don't need women, women need me. I build my fucking empire and she just beautifies it with her femininity.

Money, status is irrelevant in a relationship for women especially if she's married to a high value man. He has the leverage, she doesn't!

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 6:42pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


Lolzzz

Truth is bitter
Bitter Leaf! undecided
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:42pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:


You are missing the point. Aside money, there is something missing in many of them that will always frustrate you. Look, I am the last guy to discriminate anyone and it is even the reason why I stayed long hanging out with such ladies but I had to evaluate and realized that character wise, they do not know how to really handle the kind of relationship that I want.

Footing the bills of a lady you hardly get anything from is just a parasitic kind of relationship.

For instance, many of them do not call.

Many of them are poor communicators. I am a guy that likes openness and communication a lot. No need for guessing "What could be wrong" just because someone is being moody over something that is not even your fault. They are also very entitled and they hardly understand what a real relationship entails, which is both party contributing their quota but with them, it is often one party doing all the works...


Okay I see where you are coming from, you are very correct, however along the lines of character a lot plays right, upbringing and co.

The lady with financial challenge will most likely be insecure, self centered, not really productive, may not reciprocate enough (like in your case).

The lady with financial stability may not be submissive entirely, opinionated, talks a bit carelessly, little tolerance and may not be entirely committed.

What I'm driving at is this across both boards there are good and bad ladies

Look I've seen ladies who are financially challenged that are absolutely phenomenal and so also the ladies better off.

The challenge mostly lies with us guys who approach ladies to ask them out, you see you can discern a lady from few weeks of interaction to know her mindset and tendencies that's if you are quite discerning, the goal is to leave bad ladies and focus on good ones.

life gives everyoneone according to their level of preparation

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by demmymoney(m): 6:43pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:
Bitter Leaf! undecided

Okay simp!
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Mypeople2(m): 6:43pm On Apr 06
healthbing:
Well character and attitude differs.
Some girls are after money while some are after Love..
So it depends..It's not just the poor girls that bill guys..

Babe forget about love.How many girls are looking for love ? Where will you see a girl that is after love ? Every young lady from 19-26 years is looking for money

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 6:48pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


There's nothing like meaningless sexual relationships.

Life is transactional.

I don't need women, women need me. I build my fucking empire and she just beautifies it with her femininity.

Money, status is irrelevant in a relationship for women especially if she's married to a high value man. He has the leverage, she doesn't!
which empire you build bro? Like I said above... a friend used to think like you... that once you have money, women will fall until he burnt through nothing less than 50Million in today's value and babe still cheated severally.

It is better not to impress any girl with money so that the genuine ones can stay while the golddiggers leave, than trying to use money to impress...

Anyway, na who never see money dey talk like you.

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Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 6:49pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


Okay simp!
oh, simpozium...
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by flexxyworld(m): 6:52pm On Apr 06
Your observation is wrong and watery. Even in rich ladies or rich kids, you might likely still have the same experience. Increase your value, you are so ordinary and regular to those girls too. Until you are the first person she can trust for advise, companionship, real talks and maturity. She will not go out of her way for you. Those same girls you complain about, an some guys maga
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Dalil8: 6:54pm On Apr 06
demmymoney:


Nope

Only men with high value mindset reason like I do.

Only poor minded, weak ass, low valued men reason like the way u do

Still doesn't change the fact that you're a Woman!
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Dalil8: 6:58pm On Apr 06
NiceMen:
which empire you build bro? Like I said above... a friend used to think like you... that once you have money, women will fall until he burnt through nothing less than 50Million in today's value and babe still cheated severally.

It is better not to impress any girl with money so that the genuine ones can stay while the golddiggers leave, than trying to use money to impress...

Anyway, na who never see money dey talk like you.


Exactly!
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by NiceMen: 6:58pm On Apr 06
Yusufisraelj:



Okay I see where you are coming from, you are very correct, however along the lines of character a lot plays right, upbringing and co.

The lady with financial challenge will most likely be insecure, self centered, not really productive, may not reciprocate enough (like in your case).

The lady with financial stability may not be submissive entirely, opinionated, talks a bit carelessly, little tolerance and may not be entirely committed.

What I'm driving at is this across both boards there are good and bad ladies

Look I've seen ladies who are financially challenged that are absolutely phenomenal and so also the ladies better off.

The challenge mostly lies with us guys who approach ladies to ask them out, you see you can discern a lady from few weeks of interaction to know her mindset and tendencies that's if you are quite discerning, the goal is to leave bad ladies and focus on good ones.

life gives everyoneone according to their level of preparation


The challenge mostly lies with us guys who approach ladies to ask them out, you see you can discern a lady from few weeks of interaction to know her mindset and tendencies that are if you are quite discerning, the goal is to leave bad ladies and focus on good ones.

Yes, agree with this point above absolutely. It was my major mistake. It didn't change until I decided I will no longer tolerate their excesses and As you stated, the girl I am dating is exactly as you explained it, which is, from the first interactions, I found her absolutely interesting, lively, expressive and communicative. It was the most interesting convo I have ever had... I asked for her number the same day and she gave it. There was no need for playing hard to get and all those baggage of shakara...

And my friends have never asked me "what is wrong " grin grin grin cos omo, if it were the kind of girls we are discussing here... friends would have been asking me series or even wanting to speak with the said girl... but no need for such because I have been living happier.
Re: What Has Been Your Experience Dating Nigerian Girls From Poor Homes? by Shokoloko(f): 6:58pm On Apr 06
Itstrending:
ok before 40 you will have sense if you will be alive then. Because people that reason like you don't livelong.

They actually live long. Its nature that decides how long a person lives

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