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Pls I Need Advise.. by peter8535: 3:39pm On Apr 06
I don't how to woo a woman..have been finding it difficult to woo any woman..and d stuff is just depressing me...i am 24 and getting worried abt it
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by OB7Foreva(m): 3:41pm On Apr 06
If this is actually your problem ATM then you've got no problem brudda.

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Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by thesicilian: 3:46pm On Apr 06
It's because you're thinking of 'perfect' words to say to impress her. If you learn to just be real and speak from your heart, you'll find that it's much easier than you think. A genuine "I'll like us to be friends" can sometimes work wonders.
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by Jeon(m): 3:47pm On Apr 06
peter8535:
I don't how to woo a woman..have been finding it difficult to woo any woman..and d stuff is just depressing me...i am 24 and getting worried abt it

go make money.
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by heendrix(m): 4:02pm On Apr 06
Jeon:


go make money.

He use money to woo them they turn him to an ATM you'd still be the very same person to preach against simping

Tell him what to do if ya know or shut tf up
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by Cholls(m): 4:04pm On Apr 06
My brothers should we tell him?
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by Jeon(m): 4:10pm On Apr 06
heendrix:


He use money to woo them they turn him to an ATM you'd still be the very same person to preach against simping

Tell him what to do if ya know or shut tf up

he ain't handsome then


better back the fuvk off.
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by Jeon(m): 4:12pm On Apr 06
peter8535:
I don't how to woo a woman..have been finding it difficult to woo any woman..and d stuff is just depressing me...i am 24 and getting worried abt it

or just take the pill.
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by peter8535: 7:45pm On Apr 06
Jeon:

go make money.
u tink money is everytin
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by peter8535: 7:47pm On Apr 06
Jeon:

he ain't handsome then

better back the fuvk off.
den tink so..just shut d crap
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by peter8535: 7:49pm On Apr 06
OB7Foreva:
If this is actually your problem ATM then you've got no problem brudda.
bt is actually killin me inside
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by Jeon(m): 7:57pm On Apr 06
peter8535:
den tink so..just shut d crap
cry big baby.
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by Jeon(m): 7:59pm On Apr 06
peter8535:
u tink money is everytin
yes that's what an average Nigerian man think.
and it can get you anything including women, cry big baby.
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by peter8535: 8:52pm On Apr 06
thesicilian:
It's because you're thinking of 'perfect' words to say to impress her. If you learn to just be real and speak from your heart, you'll find that it's much easier than you think. A genuine "I'll like us to be friends" can sometimes work wonders.
d funny part is dat i can easily woo dem and gt dere number bt becoz i am gud lukin bt continuous communication become a problem
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by Nazgul: 9:25pm On Apr 06
This should help...

* Act mature around them.

* Dress good.

* Be very confident whenever you're around them, let them feel that manly nature in you.

* Start from regular gisting, i.e initiate a conversation or just ask her a question and pick it up from there. You must make sure she loves and values your company before taking any further step. Don't ever ask a woman out if you're not certain about her feelings towards you, you'll hate yourself for doing so.

* Have a very good packaging, girls naturally love guys with good packaging, truth is she might even be secretly admiring you due to your charisma, so when you eventually approach her, it will be like a dream come through for her.

* Don't ever suggest to sort out anything for her that involves money on your first date. Sometimes some girls might just want to test if you're a potential mugu by bringing up some silly request indirectly...eg. (she might just say oh! I really wanted to go to the market today and buy some provisions but I forgot my purse or I want to watch a YouTube video and my sub is almost finished) she won't make any request from you directly, she will just throw it open and see if you'll catch the bait. The best thing to do here is to act deaf and continue your conversation with her. Reason being that if you begin any relationship with money, you must sustain it with money...and considering the kind of girls we have these days, they're like baskets you can never satisfy them.

Finally, about the conversation issue you mentioned having problem with...when a girl likes you, she'll laugh at anything you say no matter how silly or meaningless it is. The secret here is to get her to like you first.

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Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by SmellySperm(m): 9:32pm On Apr 06
wahala be like ijebu garri, e dey always rise wink
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by Sammy07: 9:37pm On Apr 06
peter8535:
I don't how to woo a woman..have been finding it difficult to woo any woman..and d stuff is just depressing me...i am 24 and getting worried abt it

You: hello, pls excuse me

Her: yes,

You: sorry to disturb you, I'm peter I resides around this area. How about you?

Her: ........

You: oh, that's good, well I don't wanna delay you, but would like to communicate with you more.
Can I have your WhatsApp number?

Her: yes you can / no I don't give my number out



Short and simple.
No long talk.
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by LoriIro1: 11:58pm On Apr 06
Sammy07:


You: hello, pls excuse me

Her: yes,

You: sorry to disturb you, I'm peter I resides around this area. How about you?

Her: ........

You: oh, that's good, well I don't wanna delay you, but would like to communicate with you more.
Can I have your WhatsApp number?

Her: yes you can / no I don't give my number out



Short and simple.
No long talk.


this is nigeria,sh!t like what you typed won't work because we have greedy people in place of woman .. your comments will only work in a sane country.
Re: Pls I Need Advise.. by peter8535: 3:14pm On Apr 08
And dose dat i really see d sign of likin me..i found it hard approachin dem

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