luminouz:


Your last paragraph is so wrong. So you use money to settle a woman's enormous needs?

That's a wrong mindset. Because it shows she is all for the money. What kinda prayer warrior is that?

You can never use money to buy a woman's love,just her attention. A woman who can't work for her own money but depends on a man is a leech. She doesn't deserve me 100%. That's why I never use money to start off relationships. I never do it.

Shows she was pretending to be good all the while na. Look bro, people don't change that drastically,they just manifest their innermost desires,that's all.

spiceadole:
I was 22.
3rd year in medical school.
I had my first boyfriend.
He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.

I thought I had found love... Finally.

He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating.
I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.

3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.

I grew to love and adore him.
Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.

I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.

Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me.
He barely responded to my messages.

He gave excuses as being too busy at work.
I returned from home and he wouldn't see me ..
Continued same way for about 2 weeks.

Then,I visited him unannounced .

He told me he was no longer interested.

He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.

That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.

He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.

He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).


That broke me!

That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.

It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure
Sex was never involved.

Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.


I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.

Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE

I am thankful your act shaped me.
You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons.
I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body.

SaintAlbert53:

believe me or not, when you constantly give excuses to the wants of your woman everytime and can't afford to meet up in anyway, my brother another man will help you out. Trust me, no one hates money and women who are most idle tend to fall for this. They want someone to take care of them so they won't be feeling the other way round when they see their mates outside too.

Karleb:


O boy! This is saddening!

I don't get why you ladies form abstinence only to masturbate.

I mean, why not just have the sex with your boyfriend and enjoy it rather than seeing your body as the price for the highest bidder?

Not as if you give the sex as often as possible in marriages.

luminouz:

Just two questions for you.

Are you in this world solely to cater to the needs and wants of a woman you never even married?

Are you not deserving of love and attention and money and gifts from these women as well?


N.B: you are afraid of losing her because you don't value yourself as the king. No one is saying you should be very stingy to a generous gf. But to a woman who never contributes anything to your life apart from pussy, what's her monetary worth then?

Gentlebuka:

If you wanna quit masturbation, I can help you out

BernieLee:
The clown took off my pictures on her facebook(and they were many).
Well, i went the extra mile. Yanked off her pics too, blocked her family members and friends and upgraded my side chic to full status. All in 24hrs, babe choke con dey beg but i wasn't swayed. Was actually good riddance.
Lessons learnt:
1. Keep your relationship off social media.
2. Avoid girls with a temper/short fuse.
3. If you no be strong man, avoid Edo girls like a plague.
4. Resist every attempt to turn you into a Simp.
5. For your sanity, run far from a toxic relationship.

carlcar2012:
I was homeless, long story. He paid my accommodation well he isn't cute but got small money can't be seen dating him, so I changed d locks and refused to give him the spare.

Petriaa:
Well what if I don't have any to share and I've been the one breaking a few hearts but gently sha.
yeah I'm good

TheRealestGuy:
NYSC don deal with men sha!



I personally know a lot of guys that lost their babes to the service.

If you're in a serious relationship with marriage in sight, do not allow your babe to serve in another state or location that isn't same with yours.

It will likely end in tears.

To the OP, I guess when she's letting you down gently, it kills one softly.

Heartbreak is part of life. Whether in romance, family or finance.

Take some Jack to forget and cry if you must. But afterwards, pick your sorry self up and move the Bleep on.

Cheers mate.

SaintAlbert53:

she was used to save my life when i almost lost it by God almighty. If only you can imagine how that is, I was partially dead but she didn't give up, she ran helter skelter to get some solutions. After some days, I woke up to see myself in the hospital with her alone crying. She borrowed money to fend for the bills and all, but something just went wrong after sometime.

emmaodet:


I will rather allow my gf to go for NYSC than to be scared of losing her.
Rule number 1 - Never be scared of losing a woman.
If a woman will misbehave because she is far away from you, it is simply because she is a loose woman. Don't try to cage her or slow her progress down just for a selfish reason that doesn't worth it.

evil1:


No 1 is true. but right now I can't continue hiding her under the shadows. I want to show her off to the world wether shes the most beautiful girl or even if shes the most ugliest. have not really been in a relationship my woman shows me off on social media except for one.

No3 and 4 I feel ur pain bro.
No 4, I think has to do with more of simplicity and massive love that one partner gets to take a huge advantage on.

But don't worry you will move on. We all do somehow within a short time.

emmaodet:


I will rather allow my gf to go for NYSC than to be scared of losing her.
Rule number 1 - Never be scared of losing a woman.
If a woman will misbehave because she is far away from you, it is simply because she is a loose woman. Don't try to cage her or slow her progress down just for a selfish reason that doesn't worth it.

TheRealestGuy:


Haha.

I find it amusing when y'all keep expecting women to be saints.

They, just like we men, are humans and can slip at any time.

It's so funny how men expect commitment but sleep around without any care in the world.

There is a reason why couples should actually stay together.

Humans are fickle and body no be firewood.

Leave redpill and face reality man.

lalasticlala:
What's the coldest way you found out your relationship was over?

luminouz:


What he actually said is reality. No need to fear losing anyone. And if you can't trust a gf for one year in service,how will you trust her in the eternity of marriage?

This is the reality.

TheRealestGuy:


If you see taking precaution as fear, then knock yourself out bro.

Precaution is not same as fear.

And it's the same way a woman who wants to keep her man never agrees to long-distance relationships or marriage.

To each his own.

danski:

if u don't have anything to say please shut up
not all Edo gals are like dat u hear use ur head

BernieLee:

Yeah you understand my plight on 3&4. i moved on since, just memories now.
As for your intention to show her off to the world on social media, remember theres a thin line between love and hate. Then you would understand better. THANKS.

ben1daEbiri:


I dey imagine how many times you don watch fight club

Karleb:


O boy! This is saddening!

I don't get why you ladies form abstinence only to masturbate.

I mean, why not just have the sex with your boyfriend and enjoy it rather than seeing your body as the price for the highest bidder?

Not as if you give the sex as often as possible in marriages.

luminouz:


Precaution? That's outright fear.
Your so called precaution is based on the premise that the closer,the better but you are wrong. Because husbands and wives living together still cheat. So what you on about?

luminouz:


Good point.


Make she even go sef let's see how she go behave na. Whether she cheats or not, I'm on my own game,doing my own thing. Na person wey no get time reason his own matter dey reason women own. If she misbehaves there, why, I get better girls to replace her na. So why worry my head on her camp trysts.

TheRealestGuy:


Haha.

I find it amusing when y'all keep expecting women to be saints.

They, just like we men, are humans and can slip at any time.

It's so funny how men expect commitment but sleep around without any care in the world.

There is a reason why couples should actually stay together.

Humans are fickle and body no be firewood.

Leave redpill and face reality man.

sholikay:
I dey come...


modified..

well mine was like this... I had this lady I wanted to. marry... I love her though then at a point she started finding fault in me, she started reporting my misdemeanor to her parent.. the parent called and tried to settle things, I also tried begging her to at least let us regain our beautiful time, she was still kind of reluctant ,all of a sudden I just stopped calling her and chatting with her, she also didn't call me, but she do view my whatsapp update.. I know say the thing go pain her sha,because my siblings (female) whom are closer to her do feed me how she use to tell them through chat that she does not even know how we got to the extent of not talking to each other again... me I no kuku send... though some friends and family tried sorting things out between me and she, but I told them not to worry... me don move on... she finally blocked me on whatsapp.. though we reconnected back on facebook , we use to chat sometimes when I'm very happy...

NACE13:
We started dating immediately I got admission in a Tertiary institution. My school was miles away from home. She was constantly hitting me with calls and messages on 2go that she misses me and can't wait to see me again. Na so mumu me just dey hurry up make semester end. If i had a way of slap the semester and tell it to hurry up eh. Funny thing was that I had a course mate seriously crushing on me but I was busy forming Mr. faithful man.

Finally, I came home, called babe that I'm back, she was so excited. We took a walk round the neighbourhood holding hands, with me showing her off. After that day, babe changed totally. Stopped replying my 2go chat, picked my call when she feels like and making the conversation short. Till date I don't know what I said or did that made her switch off just like that.

Few days before I was to go back to school, I told her I wanted us to see again before leaving, so we agreed to meet in church. After service, babe said she was very tired and wants to go home. I was like, I hope you know this is the last time you may see me in months to come. Her response was like "yeah, whatever". I was mad but kept my cool, next thing her phone rang and a female voice at the other end told her something, she screamed with happiness and told me she has to leave. I was like, I thought you said you are tired and wanna go home. She just dismissed what i said and told her if she leaves me here she won't like what comes next, she called my bluff and left me alone.

Ladies and gentlemen, na me still go beg am make she no vex sey I threaten am. Babe told me not to ever call her phone again. It was like a movie to me. Imagine someone telling you how bad she's missed you, then you show up, then of a sudden, she can't stand you.

SaintAlbert53:

I swear to God my creator, I really want to stop it. Trust me, it's killing me already. I don't get to have feelings for sex with a woman.

SaintAlbert53:

believe me or not, when you constantly give excuses to the wants of your woman everytime and can't afford to meet up in anyway, my brother another man will help you out. Trust me, no one hates money and women who are most idle tend to fall for this. They want someone to take care of them so they won't be feeling the other way round when they see their mates outside too.

spiceadole:


I would rather masturbate 100 times than have sex outside the confines of matrimony.
This was my vow after that incident.

After enjoying with your boyfriend, he dumps you, you move to another guy and the cycle continues.What sort of life is that??

. Masturbation is bae . I will not disrespect, slutshame or dump myself after the act.. I won't go about bragging to my friends how I used and dumped me.. no risk of unwanted pregnancy, abortions, heartbreak, STDs