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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Leetika: 11:30pm On Apr 06
SimplyFacts:


I wan ask if una don take your own share of the national cake, but if all that is true about her, she might've become national pandemic angry. And you deserve something better.

Meanwhile, don't rush into conclusion over hearsays or emotional krikukriku

Naa I have picture evidence of her and the man. Sex chats and nudes she sent him, plus how they frolick hotels in abuja here. Sad thing be say the fool they beg me make I no break up because she no cheat on me. All in the bid to keep wrecking me financially.Like see lies cos I no wan show her the evidence. Devil lives in human form with some girls

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by NoBones: 11:30pm On Apr 06
Hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha hahahaha.........we were still teenagers then, babe visited me and I couldn't take her to my room because my dad was a no nonsense man.
We stood under the mango tree at the back of our house and gisted for long, I saw her off and later in the evening when I got to her place to see her, I sent her friend who usually run errands for me when am around, but my baby refused to come out unlike her.
That was how the relationship ended like play like play, I later found out she started dating one bus conductor like that, I moved on with my life

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by LyfeJennings(m): 11:31pm On Apr 06
Warrgidanairala:
He stopped calling having realized that he can never have me on his bed after spending so much money on me and other frivolities, kai I chop him money sha.Bamanga Dan Allah wherever you are please forgive me,may God touch your heart to forgive me

God will not let him forgive U

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SweetCunt97(f): 11:31pm On Apr 06
lalasticlala:
What's the coldest way you found out your relationship was over?
Well, simply ghosting.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by openmine(m): 11:31pm On Apr 06
iamyemiakins:
When I realised she saved my number with Honourable, I no know the constituency wey I represent
grin grin

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by antobrige: 11:32pm On Apr 06
lalasticlala:
What's the coldest way you found out your relationship was over?

She just blocked and later unblock me.. Her response on phone was what and later I got a message that said I hv moved on and u should too

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SweetCunt97(f): 11:32pm On Apr 06
LagBae:
His number became unreachable since 2013.
He's alive ni?
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Spectaclesawe25: 11:33pm On Apr 06
She said her parent prayed about our relationship and theirs no clear road....This na gal wey dey track me Dat year for uni ooo, wey me sf come later like, for final year I cm make am know sey I want smthn serious but not marriage for now, not knowing anoda broda dn dey toast am for I'm papa church, na so I receive one call like Dat with above message, like a week after na I'm I realize say na Dat broda wey she dey talk sey dey disturb am for Im papa church she dey follow, bfr I Sabi anything like ds, na wedding bells ooo... Two pikin dn drop wdin 3years,...Las Las na she chat me up lately on whatsapp and I flowed well with her, she was trying to know my update kindof but me just dey play her mind games... she no no say me sef dn marry and moved on.
But e pain me sha, it took me to shun many gals to like am back den, but when I wn cm balance na so she use vision drop me.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nigeriadondie1: 11:34pm On Apr 06
1stHooligan:
She went for NYSC and never looked back. I don't much blame her but I hope she never finds what she's looking for.

She left with a part of me I am trying to get back
I share your pain

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by uniqueboi1(m): 11:38pm On Apr 06
E dn tey NYSC dae chop people GFs o cheesy cheesy grin cheesy

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Volkswagen90: 11:41pm On Apr 06
All of you should give your heart a brake, haba don't let it bleed to dead. Love and hate are brother and sister, they will surely come playing.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by 1stHooligan(m): 11:44pm On Apr 06
PrimadonnaO:


Release and let go. I know you're hurt, but saying she never finds what she's looking for means you've not forgiven her... that may block your own blessings, too.

fuckoff abeg

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by fineboynl(m): 11:45pm On Apr 06
Dalil8:


I like the way you reason!

It's the same with me.

When you love and adore yourself so much, trust me you would never be bothered about someone else loving you.

My love is more than enough for myself.


Nigerian men lack self love, it's the reason why they are easily swindled by nigerian women in the name of love.
why would someone loving me validate my likeness for myself. I don’t even like girls showing the love me and stacking me.

Just be real and be yourself. And I will see if the friendship can continue. There was a Virgin girl who want to kill herself for me. Stack and small thing she start crying. I told her severally I cannot date or marry someone because she is a Virgin. I select people because of compatibility and when we are not compact there will always be problem which will never ends.

I slowly left her and many think something was wrong with me. A decent girl that loves me and a virgin. My reason was that she was too serious with me and never wanted to have sex until marriage. I was not forcing her to have sex with me either but i was not ready for all of them. And I shouldn’t be blackmailed into it because she loves me.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:46pm On Apr 06
Leetika:
Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .

Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .

This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.

Mr Arinze... I got nothing against u .. but u got a habit of chasing corpers posted in your office. How your wife doesn’t know u re cheating on her baffles me. I don let the girl go . Chop her. Na small thing make me change my mind do wetin my guys wan do u and that girl together. The. U know the debt is paid

You already told the world his name na abi no be Arinze? undecided

No wonder the geh duped you. Why on earth would you blame Arinze and not your own gf? You scared or just that plain simping? You are very slow. If Arinze no fuq am,even me luminouz go fuq am, cuz you are just too slow.
You attacked the man and left your own gf as if the man forced or raped her! You forget that the agreement lies on the woman to say yes or no. She already started cheating on you when she saw you are slow. How can you not know the 'i'm a virgin format' is as old as hell. No real nigha will give any woman so much without vetting her first. Even people told you but still you no listen,come dey blame Arinze. That old fuq cheated on his wife, yes but never forced your babe or raped her.


Come to the redpill. That's the only thing that would save you. Check the romance thread and you will see the redpill thread. If you don't take this pill, your next gf will have luminouz name on her lips and give you heart attack

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SimplyFacts: 11:47pm On Apr 06
RexTramadol1:
Omolewa, it may not be well with her again
After my tfare, she just ghosted me online
I kept wondering where I was wrong

grin grin grin
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Oyerinde16(m): 11:48pm On Apr 06
Everyone in the area knew me with this babe, we were the toast of town, many guys that approached d babe before me, but were turned down de beef me, until i began to notice guys were talking behind, not letting me know whats up, one day i visit club meet my babe de drink beer with anoda guy... she sha introduced me as friends, omo i wan sink, i sha browse steady for like 2 months Dec 25th 2015 was the parting browsing, she married the other guy 6 months later....

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Leetika: 11:50pm On Apr 06
luminouz:


You already told the world his name na abi no be Arinze? undecided

No wonder the geh duped you. Why on earth would you blame Arinze and not your own gf? You scared or just that plain simping? You are very slow. If Arinze no fuq am,even me luminouz go fuq am, cuz you are just too slow.
You attacked the man and left your own gf as if the man forced or raped her! You forget that the agreement lies on the woman to say yes or no. She already started cheating on you when she saw you are slow.


Come to the redpill. That's the only thing that would save you. Check the romance thread and you will the redpill thread. If you don't take this pill, your next gf will have luminouz name on her lips and give you heart attack
Why on earth would you

K
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by wisdomkid: 11:51pm On Apr 06
BernieLee:


*Bound

English Nazi's lol.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Slynation(m): 11:52pm On Apr 06
We were walking home one day about to board a bike, when suddenly one nigga pulled over in his father's car, babe left me and followed her perceived friend....That was the last we ever spoke facially!!

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 12:05am On Apr 07
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Homguy(m): 12:05am On Apr 07
Hacked her facebook years ago while in Uni and found she had been having this very intense chat with some guy she told me was bothering her but she wasnt interested. I decided to check up on her facebook when my calls were always waiting anytime I called. For hours she'ld be on call. Once i found out, call her up and told her twas not possible to look at the sky and the ground at the same time. She should choose one. She went with that dude. They got engaged or something.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Jerewise332(m): 12:09am On Apr 07
BernieLee:
The clown took off my pictures on her facebook(and they were many).
Well, i went the extra mile. Yanked off her pics too, blocked her family members and friends and upgraded my side chic to full status. All in 24hrs, babe choke con dey beg but i wasn't swayed. Was actually good riddance.
Lessons learnt:
1. Keep your relationship off social media.
2. Avoid girls with a temper/short fuse.
3. If you no be strong man, avoid Edo girls like a plague.
4. Resist every attempt to turn you into a Simp.
5. For your sanity, run far from a toxic relationship.

I'm always longing to know how toxic a relationship would be?
Pls I really need to know
Thanks!
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by AlphamaleTech1(m): 12:19am On Apr 07
I caught her receiving Doggy from another I never thought it was over...but when she started screaming the guys name instead of mine, I knew I had to give up.

cry cry cry cry cry cry

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by AlphamaleTech1(m): 12:20am On Apr 07
My side chick

Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by AlphamaleTech1(m): 12:20am On Apr 07
AlphamaleTech1:
I caught her receiving Doggy from another guy, I never thought it was over...but when she started screaming the guys name instead of mine, I knew I had to give up.

cry cry cry cry cry cry
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by MejiLoyon(m): 12:24am On Apr 07
I'm a lesbian.... embarassed embarassed embarassed
I won't sleep tonight
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Goodoption(m): 12:32am On Apr 07
Descortes:
He just didn't know how to play the game

aswear.
the guy is very weak. cos if I'm the one, I will bust your wund and even collect change.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by alshalz(m): 12:32am On Apr 07
pyyxxaro:
LALA

This one when u de ask this kin question

Abi there don break ur heart again

Just drink chilled kerosene and elephant grass , you would be fine undecided
Or fry two eggs of sneak com eatam with Agege bread com drink soja root joinam
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SmellingAnus(m): 12:35am On Apr 07
Warrgidanairala:
He stopped calling having realized that he can never have me on his bed after spending so much money on me and other frivolities, kai I chop him money sha.Bamanga Dan Allah wherever you are please forgive me,may God touch your heart to forgive me
irony about life be say na one boy wey no spend much go chop you like fresh fish for bed...

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Sacrosanct12(m): 12:36am On Apr 07
richmond500:
Lalasticlala, the heartbreak don reach ur side too?
No worry, e deh enough, all of us go collect am.

Welcome to the heartbroken association of Nigeria. Idumota branch.... pls do feel at home
funny guy.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Oiza131(f): 12:37am On Apr 07
BernieLee:
The clown took off my pictures on her facebook(and they were many).
Well, i went the extra mile. Yanked off her pics too, blocked her family members and friends and upgraded my side chic to full status. All in 24hrs, babe choke con dey beg but i wasn't swayed. Was actually good riddance.
Lessons learnt:
1. Keep your relationship off social media.
2. Avoid girls with a temper/short fuse.
3. If you no be strong man, avoid Edo girls like a plague.
4. Resist every attempt to turn you into a Simp.
5. For your sanity, run far from a toxic relationship.
No 3 got me. Heheehehehehehe....
Edo people haff suffer

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