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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by madgoat(m): 8:03am On Apr 07, 2021
LagBae:
His number became unreachable since 2013.

He died grin
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by abikason(m): 8:15am On Apr 07, 2021
I actually did the breaking up..
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by FashionCookie(f): 8:17am On Apr 07, 2021
Liposure:
lol..you are mean

Lolzzz...(ghosting) just didn't know another way to put it. Was expecting her to add/say she still see him around.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 8:25am On Apr 07, 2021
Timidangote:
Biggest lie. Edo girls are never loyal.

Iol, be like say edo girls don do una strong thing. Trust me they are loyal when you are under strong.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Liposure: 8:28am On Apr 07, 2021
FashionCookie:


Lolzzz...(ghosting) just didn't know another way to put it. Was expecting her to add/say she still see him around.
have you ever been ghosted before
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by ridwanlawal: 8:30am On Apr 07, 2021
The5DME:
Though I'm still a teenager, I believe I can chip in something. Mine ended when we left secondary school as I refused to do yahoo, she left me and called me a broke nigga.
When her father was your age, how much him Don make?

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by FashionCookie(f): 8:32am On Apr 07, 2021
Liposure:
have you ever been ghosted before

I don't know if to call it ghosting...person go say he ghost you, small time he go run come back. Unserious ghost...some people dont know how o die and rest in peace. Lolzzz...Now, I'm so detached. I'm building my life in a way that even if one finally leaves, I no go feel am. I know say e no easy sha
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by jaxxy(m): 8:41am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

the truth of the whole thing is that the guy is a niece to Solomon Dalung. The sport minister with the red cap.

Oh I see bt when did she meet him to start calling him my king or is dat fast relationships move? grin
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Sheyisky84: 8:45am On Apr 07, 2021
milann:
'I'm sorry'. That's what she texted after abandoning me to be chief chike's second wife. It was a sad experience after all we shared. I just thank God i already browsed her.
if you no browse her website you for die abi�
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SaintAlbert53: 8:45am On Apr 07, 2021
[quote author=Fiscus105 post=100564553][/quote]
pretty right sir. Thank God it happened earlier.
She was in the church, a devoted protocol and also a prayer warrior. She never had the chance to explore actually, she was the best girl in the world, she became wild when she left for camp. She actually got what she must have been praying for, to be free and live her life to the fullest. My brother one of the lessons i actually learnt from it is that MONEY rules.
If you ain't bouyant financially to settle the enormous wants of your woman, another man will penetrate into her with the so called money.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SaintAlbert53: 8:50am On Apr 07, 2021
jaxxy:


Oh I see bt when did she meet him to start calling him my king or is dat fast relationships move? grin
Lol five minutes is enough to get a girl to love you deeply, win her heart by providing all she require, tell her something sweet and show her the MONEY hahaha.. Mind you, not everyone this works for.
She was already in love with the guy,, it was more than two weeks they met though..

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by GorillaApp(m): 8:53am On Apr 07, 2021
FalseProphet1:
I see this thread making the front page. This I have seen.
Once again, you have seen well

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by The5DME(m): 8:54am On Apr 07, 2021
ridwanlawal:

When her father was your age, how much him Don make?
i tire o bros.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Hassanmaye(m): 8:57am On Apr 07, 2021
alphaNomega:
you will never experience true love if you go in with this mindset. I think heartbreaks are worth the experience, you don't want to grow old and regret all you missed because of one smelling armour
Does it smell
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Otunbalai(m): 9:00am On Apr 07, 2021
SweetCunt97:
Wo me I'm available o
..
I like the sound of that....
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by uthlaw: 9:02am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

No dear.. A woman was created from a man's rib. women are the best creature created after men, you will definitely meet the one meant for and you'd be happy you never ended up the ones that hurt.
na story you de talk....meant fire!

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Petriaa(f): 9:03am On Apr 07, 2021
extol1:

I noticed something about you, you are always saying I came to read comments. madam, say your own and let people learn from you
Do you know me before I'm sure you mistake me for someone else.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 9:06am On Apr 07, 2021
Jaqenhghar:


You really need to grow up. People dissapoint people all the time ( men and women) but you still have to interact with them if you want to succeed in life . Choosing to become a nuisance or allowing your experiences make you a bitter person doesnt make you exactly smart.


*Sighs*

Wasted my time yakking you.

Do have a nice day.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by jaxxy(m): 9:07am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

Lol five minutes is enough to get a girl to love you deeply, win her heart by providing all she require, tell her something sweet and show her the MONEY hahaha.. Mind you, not everyone this works for.
She was already in love with the guy,, it was more than two weeks they met though..


Ok I get it. Those quick kind of relationships where everything moves fast, the money is the motive and motivation. Lol
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 9:08am On Apr 07, 2021
irijuola:


Good morning. Please I saw you on a nairaland thread about domiciliary account. I'm about opening one with GTB and I need a reference. Please kindly help. I'm really in dire need of it. I'm ready to supply any information to prove myself. Thanks.
Morning.

I later didn't open miss/Mr. I simply used a friend overseas for the transaction. Sorry that I won't be able to help.

I wish you luck in your endeavours.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Jaqenhghar: 9:10am On Apr 07, 2021
luminouz:


*Sighs*

Wasted my time yakking you.

Do have a nice day.

Like I asked you to yakk me ( whatever that means)
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 9:11am On Apr 07, 2021
Jaqenhghar:


Like I asked you to yakk me ( whatever that means)
K

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Liposure: 9:30am On Apr 07, 2021
FashionCookie:


I don't know if to call it ghosting...person go say he ghost you, small time he go run come back. Unserious ghost...some people dont know how o die and rest in peace. Lolzzz...Now, I'm so detached. I'm building my life in a way that even if one finally leaves, I no go feel am. I know say e no easy sha
all the best
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by poweredcom(m): 9:39am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

it's a great lesson learnt, she was the best girl in the world, she never loved anyone else but me, she was damn faithful to me before she left for service, but i could see the anxiety in her when she was preparing to leave for camp.
She actually got there and the kind of friends she rolled with there immediately were slayers who didn't come to play but to cash out..
Do you know i can't love anymore..? I see ladies as my fellow guys now honestly, no matter the beauty or the mesmerizing charming attributes in them, I end up breaking the heart of all the ladies that comes my way now. The fall so much in love with me after a week of meeting me, then i become scared and zoom I don start to dey ignore all of the girl's calls or messages. I don't have any soft spot for women anymore and I honestly hate this, it's destroying my life.

Hahaha this man why are you doing dis to ur self ..no go use such attitude miss ur lucky woman

Well my own is if you find a lady that does not match your own kind of life

Let her go away ....and make sure u nak d ones wey u suspect are runs gals codedly oooo

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by NACE13: 9:40am On Apr 07, 2021
We started dating immediately I got admission in a Tertiary institution. My school was miles away from home. She was constantly hitting me with calls and messages on 2go that she misses me and can't wait to see me again. Na so mumu me just dey hurry up make semester end. If i had a way of slap the semester and tell it to hurry up eh. Funny thing was that I had a course mate seriously crushing on me but I was busy forming Mr. faithful man.

Finally, I came home, called babe that I'm back, she was so excited. We took a walk round the neighbourhood holding hands, with me showing her off. After that day, babe changed totally. Stopped replying my 2go chat, picked my call when she feels like and making the conversation short. Till date I don't know what I said or did that made her switch off just like that.

Few days before I was to go back to school, I told her I wanted us to see again before leaving, so we agreed to meet in church. After service, babe said she was very tired and wants to go home. I was like, I hope you know this is the last time you may see me in months to come. Her response was like "yeah, whatever". I was mad but kept my cool, next thing her phone rang and a female voice at the other end told her something, she screamed with happiness and told me she has to leave. I was like, I thought you said you are tired and wanna go home. She just dismissed what i said and told her if she leaves me here she won't like what comes next, she called my bluff and left me alone.

Ladies and gentlemen, na me still go beg am make she no vex sey I threaten am. Babe told me not to ever call her phone again. It was like a movie to me. Imagine someone telling you how bad she's missed you, then you show up, then of a sudden, she can't stand you.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SaintAlbert53: 9:41am On Apr 07, 2021
jaxxy:


Ok I get it. Those quick kind of relationships where everything moves fast, the money is the motive and motivation. Lol
Lol yea exactly. Bro, let me tell you something, when this all happened i was in my finals in school, she was already a graduate two years ahead of me. She just couldn't wait for me to finish, serve and then get a better job to start a better family. She wanted the best for herself, you know all those plans when preparing to go to camp thingy.
She played her role the best way to her, she isn't regretting letting me go bro. No one wants to associate with a destitute, but soon i am very much sure she'd regret it in no time.
I can never in my life hurt her or pay her back in return lolz.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by spiceadole: 9:41am On Apr 07, 2021
I was 22.
3rd year in medical school.
I had my first boyfriend.
He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.

I thought I had found love... Finally.

He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating.
I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.

3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.

I grew to love and adore him.
Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.

I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.

Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me.
He barely responded to my messages.

He gave excuses as being too busy at work.
I returned from home and he wouldn't see me ..
Continued same way for about 2 weeks.

Then,I visited him unannounced .

He told me he was no longer interested.

He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.

That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.

He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.

He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).


That broke me!

That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.

It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure
Sex was never involved.

Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.


I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.

Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE

I am thankful your act shaped me.
You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons.
I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body.

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Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by SaintAlbert53: 9:41am On Apr 07, 2021
poweredcom:


Hahaha this man why are you doing dis to ur self ..no go use such attitude miss ur lucky woman

Well my own is if you find a lady that does not match your own kind of life

Let her go away ....and make sure u nak d ones wey u suspect are runs gals codedly oooo
hahahaha okay.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:42am On Apr 07, 2021
SaintAlbert53:

she doesn't go back to her ex.. She is just 28 living her life to the fullest now, she would definitely change her settings and way of life if she continues like this and never get anyone to settle down with. I am pretty much sure she ain't with the nigga anymore.

Hmm. Okay.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by idahme(m): 9:49am On Apr 07, 2021
iamyemiakins:
When I realised she saved my number with Honourable, I no know the constituency wey I represent



my rib... I hope u did not deliver projects to your constituency, if you did expect your recall in 24 hours.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by Nobody: 9:51am On Apr 07, 2021
wahala for who dey love.
Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by FashionCookie(f): 9:54am On Apr 07, 2021
Liposure:
all the best
Thanks...do have a nice day Sir.

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