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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Bryan88(m): 12:13pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?
Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.
you ve said it all Bro!!! and that's what you shud do.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Ekakamba: 12:15pm On Apr 07
TeaWentTea missed calls? Your lungs dey with her?

All the best. undecided

Fedric:



Do you know if I needed her attention and help at that moment ?

Why will she see my 20 miss call and not call back.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by bjdon: 12:16pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

Guy there is nothing mysterious about women, they are an open book. If your girl is no longer taking your calls, it's because she is no longer interested in you. Sorry but you need to face the truth. Most of us have been there at one time or another. Trust me when they say 'There are many fish in the water' Don't ever pine over just 1 woman for too long. Best thing you can do now, is stop calling her for a while and start checking out some other ladies. if she really still wants you, she'll be the one to come and look for you, if not, at least you save on phone bill calling her for nothing.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by DeAlphaMale(m): 12:16pm On Apr 07
No 1; Mister no matter how bad things look never beg a girl for attention or to continue your relationship...
No 2; Mister if she tripping leave the bitch alone
No 3; Mister it's obvious she's replaced u
No 4; Mister return the energy she gives
No 5; Mister this is the most important yet DON'T BE A SIMP... Be on top, be the Man

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by chichimezie(f): 12:17pm On Apr 07
she needs space..give her some
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by lucky4west: 12:17pm On Apr 07
ur babe has gotten another guy, u irritate her now and u will make it worse if u beg her or cry she will see u as a weakling.....babes generally don't like weak cry cry kind of guys....u have to be a real man and move on...to get over her fast start seeing other babes so u will realize no babe is worth any heart ache....they are better babes out there than ur ex.....move on u don turn ex already incase u never realize

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by wpadmin: 12:17pm On Apr 07
You are a pus**sy bro.

Just like most internet marketers and programmers who have zero social life.

Your babe knows you well.

She knows she can misbehave and there’s nothing you would do.

This is what you should do;

During the weekend, go to her house and apologize. Tell her that you complain too much and you would stop complaining.

If she insults you beg her.

If she cheats on you, accept that it is your fault because you do not satisfy her.

Trust me, she will begin to respect you more.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by onomeabuja: 12:18pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.
i dont want to believe that THE FUTURE IS FEMALE undecided

Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by MrIcredible: 12:19pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.
You wanted to marry her?

What makes you think she wants to marry you?

What if she has found someone more deserving and better than you?

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by kkinternet: 12:20pm On Apr 07
Guyman, she is seeing someone else...The earlier you end the relationship and move on, the better for you. Peace of mind guaranteed
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by BluDesk: 12:21pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.


Run. Fast
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by positivevibez: 12:22pm On Apr 07
Inspiration007:
As I open the thread; even before reading. I don all ready know the solution to your problem.

I recommend 2 sachets of redpill. Take all at once!!

tested and trusted cool
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by LuQuLuQu: 12:22pm On Apr 07
Fedric:


I'm ready to get married .

I am rich but no one knows this and I didn't show her . Building my second house but I told her I am working as a factory guy for now and pretty tired .



I'm an internet marketer

My guy you aren't rich. If you were, you wouldn't be worried about a low life woman who doesn't want to marry you..

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by wpadmin: 12:23pm On Apr 07
Fedric:


I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

You cannot.

You do not have the liver to do such.

If you try it, she will mess you up.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by sugarfrank(m): 12:25pm On Apr 07
Minor detected!!
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by DrObum(m): 12:26pm On Apr 07
You want to use and dump somebody that is already using you?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by flexindino(m): 12:26pm On Apr 07
even you sef.....u aren't serious......so wen u have issues, u come to nairaland to get solutions....if d solutions backfires now, u'll blame nairalanders abi? alaye, wat makes you a man is when you take decisions and take responsibility for ur decisions.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by OBYNOWEST12(m): 12:27pm On Apr 07
Bro, am just laughing at this, once had that experience.. My I will advice you. The girl is seeing another man. You can't do anything about it. The relationship is gone and gone and gone south..

Please, take heart and move on.




Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute .

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Komu1048(m): 12:27pm On Apr 07
Omo u don caste, u get money con dey pretend like say u b oloshi, she don know, she con dey vex for you. Women hate make you get come dey lie like say you know get.
I see you buying her shawarma when u could afford lexus.

My advice:
Sell that second house n send d proceed to her aza. Gbam! Everywhere stew. She's happy n you too, cox u have your love life back.

What's the essence of life if you can't share your riches with your love once.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by lekonso: 12:28pm On Apr 07
Run fast she is not the right person for you to marry. Most times these signs are always there but we fail to see them. She is not a wife material, someone that is already giving you emotional problems before marriage. What happens after marriage. It will be worse

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by airminem(f): 12:29pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
Lot of things has happen where I start begging her after telling her what I don't like she is doing .


I'm a gentle guy and I like people to treat me cool and likewise will I do so but she has made me a complain master and she still make me feel bad after raising my complaint .


I'm not happy right now as I feel she is seeing someone else and also the fact that she don't respect me as I want .


At list playing maturity and saying sorry when ever you go wrong is what I ask for
She is completely bored in the relationship right now. Tips- Just give her sweet mouth about how you have planned marrying her(in few months)once more and tell her you are going to see her parents concerning your introduction coming up in April. Just see her bounce back, re-newed and commited back to the relationship. . .cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Komu1048(m): 12:31pm On Apr 07
wpadmin:
You are a pus**sy bro.

Just like most internet marketers and programmers who have zero social life.

Your babe knows you well.

She knows she can misbehave and there’s nothing you would do.

This is what you should do;

During the weekend, go to her house and apologize. Tell her that you complain too much and you would stop complaining.

If she insults you beg her.

If she cheats on you, accept that it is your fault because you do not satisfy her.

Trust me, she will begin to respect you more.


He can as well sell his two houses to beg her, I am pretty sure the girl will reconsider

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by BabaIbo: 12:32pm On Apr 07
OP, she has seen you finish. And again, she is feeling she needs a better man with deeper pocket, since you told her you're a factory worker.

Something like that happened to me during my previous relationship before I decided to be single.

This girl changed because I lost the job I was doing and the laptop I was using for my web development, designing and graphics designing side hustle also got crashed.
Unknown to her that I have other better plans, Thank God I dropped her and moved on to better things.

Note: I don't call her more than 2 or 3 times at a single time sha.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by etimocity(m): 12:32pm On Apr 07
if you know you'll not marry her kindly do the needful and end the relationship now. you're there pretend to use her and dumb oga women of now don't take it kindly. I'm advising you.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by MrHandsome2013: 12:33pm On Apr 07
Fedric:
I noticed that my girl friend doesn't like to come over anymore. Of late she Dosen't pick my calls often, she picked after 20 times .

I called her plenty times yesterday but she didn't pick my call giving me silly excuses that she left her phone at home while going out.

She repeated the same thing today and her excuse was that she went to an office and she can't pick the call. She later say she have to submit the phone to the security officers at the gate and that's the law of the institute.
Just be strong.
Everything will be fine.
Bros can you teach me how to make legitimate money online.
I am tired of begging

I never see this kind of excuses and when I talk to my sister, she was like she might have gone to a man house and don't wanna pick .

The main issue with her is she believes I complain too much and she also raises voice at me any time I told her an issue I don't like.

I'm seriously tired and I am having different thoughts .

I wanted to marry her but her attitude keeps preventing me from making such move.

I feel bad right now and I needed an advice .

I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

Should I just let her go and I should go on my who way?

Or should I just free her and start doing as if she don't exist in my life again .

I'm not happy right now and I feel so bad .


Advice please.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by samwash(m): 12:33pm On Apr 07
Waiting I wan add to this mata self ?
@Op, the Nairaland family don talk their own, follow the advice that suit you.
A word is enough for the wise.
Nor dey fall guys hand again.
Woman nor dey hard to get,they all have their price, except you have not meet up to their standard.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by gabby1990(m): 12:34pm On Apr 07
Bro, forget about her and move on, there are still good girls
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by seanwilliam(m): 12:35pm On Apr 07
Fedric, as a redpilled man my advice to u is
1. Always make sure your woman loves u more than you love her
2. Take yourself as your own priority , spend on yourself more. Take yourself out without her
3. Give her the impressions that plenty girls Dey your dm
4. Let her do the calling and ONLY RETURN Her calls later at night when you want to sleep
5. Be the first to always end the conversation ( even if you have thousands of thing to talk about . Remember talk no Dey finish )
6. Don’t spend tangible money on her. U can recharge card for her if that’s comfortable for u ( even that one self , u go see the recharge card money as money u use to play bet Wey go be 50:50)
7. Form busy. Pick her calls after she calls the second time . No Dey pick her calls immediately it rings
8. U don’t need to hide your wealth , live your normal life and careless whatever she thinks
9. Make sure you make her cry once in a while
10. Don’t ever complain about her seeing other men. Let her know u care less on whatever she does with her life . But let her know that you will not hesitate to dump her anytime anydday if you catch her messing up .
11. Make her feel jealous . Find a girl and rub her on your girl’s face ( don’t over do this .). This will give her the impression that you’re many women’s man
12. Don’t be too available for her . Say the attention u give her is 100, reduce is to 30
13. Fuckh her brutally with no mercy ( yes , most women need brutal sex)

14. Don’t ever appreciate her after sex. Make sure she says thank u after every session .


15. Nigeria girls don’t need love, don’t give it to them cheaply ..

16. Be ready to loose any girl at any point . Don’t invest in them
17. Have the believe that ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME including your own sister
18. If your girlfriend tells u 10 things , believe only 2. And believe that she’ still have additional 10 things she’s hiding from u.
19. Don’t ever fight for your girl friend and don’t believe that you’re the only one fhucking her even your own wife.
20. Don’t hesitate to drop a woman that’s not your taste or not giving u rest of mind .


If you do all these, you have 90% of controlling any woman.

Finally a man is not loved unconditionally.

And a girl will never love u if she’s not benefiting something ..

Women are hypergamy , she will always leave you for better offers. Always be the better offer and make sure you’re above her in all aspect that matters .


U should also know that the woman that stays with u in trouble probably doesn’t have better alternatives, but she’ll make u feel that she’s loyal .

All these things are games

Even if you’re rich, u still need minds and emotional games to control women

I’m in control of my relationship




Omo typing no easy o

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by BluDesk: 12:36pm On Apr 07
Cutehector:
You are boring, and why the fvck will you call someone so many times as if she is your slave?


Will she die if you ditch her? The way una dey think sef.


Sense demands if you call someone one two times and the person doesnt pick, you can leave a text message or a chat.


Yall too clingy and shittt.. Get a life. Thats why she stopped feeling you.




Stop it. This isn't true masculinity or being clingy. Abeg you. I personally never call anyone more than once, however, this isn't a case of clingyness abeg you. Correct yourself.
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by Peaceagain: 12:37pm On Apr 07
OP, i know what you are going through. You are a nice guy who wanted to achieve as much as you can before dating. Your ambition is to get that one girl who will complement you and you will live happily ever after. You have achieved your material goals but when it comes to relationships, understand that you are dealing with a human being and not an object so you cannot predict reactions. I have been there but in my case, i am not obsessed. You have to know how to play your cards right and most times, the joker is to walk away. I can bet you she will come crawling back. Most ladies prefer good guys but pretend they don't hence the saying 'nice guys finish last'. My advice, don't settle for less, go after other girls. Learn the ropes and learn to beat them in their own game. Never let a girl know your weakness, be in charge of your emotions. All the best to you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by kikilove(f): 12:38pm On Apr 07
Fedric:



Do you know if I needed her attention and help at that moment ?

Why will she see my 20 miss call and not call back.

If not that something is seriously wrong with u why on earth will u call a person 20 times if I was the one I wouldn't pick too cause that's embarrassing.can she not leave her phone for a few mins simply cause she's dating u?
Re: My Girlfriend Is Misbehaving by openmine(m): 12:41pm On Apr 07
Carchoice:
OP don’t do this. Ghost her and never look back.


She Dey use you play and it will continue that way. She’s got your remote control.

Ghost her and suffer the heartbreak for few days, you’ll be fine. I repeat, GHOST HER!! No explanation. Don’t explain anything to her.
I concur!
Even his sister already knows the games his gf is playing!

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