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I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Administration1: 7:31pm On Apr 07
I created this thread in response to some vile comments on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6495432/allow-man-woman-go-date

You see, this thing called bestie has become one of the vice/immorality/misconduct/wickedness/ that has come to stay in our present generation. Yes I called immorality

I finally decided to get married, before then, I had this great friend(Amanda) who over time had become like a little sister(we are not even from the same country, she's Cameroonian). She is into some photography or sorts. My fiancee was rounding off her Masters's Programme and wasn't around to assist in all arrangements. She knows the girl in question and had developed this thick skin that I can never mess up, even if I want to mess up not with Amanda.

Amanda played a vital role in regards to the planning of my wedding, from getting the rings to making adjustments to the wedding programme, my suit, the venue for the reception, my traditional wear, etc. even my haircut she decided she will have to do it herself on Friday preceding the wedding day.
She eventually finished the planning on Friday night and asked that I should put on some hair treatment before going for what so ever bachelor's party my friends were organizing, bottom line, my best man invited her to come chill with us without informing me(he was eyeing the girl).
I was busy getting myself drunk that night that I completely forgot that she existed. By the time I returned to my hotel room by 1 am, she was on my bed, pretending to be sleeping, guys I don't think I have ever made love to a woman that way before. Till today 7th of March 2021, I have not unblocked her, both calls and on social media. I made a mistake and will never repeat same mistake, my wife asked me to invite her to our house to thank her, I instead gave her some cash to give her. So this bestie thing issa scam, imagine the things she was saying to me that night...things like wanting to be my second wife...
Truth is, when you spend quality time or go on frequent dates with an opposite-sex in the name of bestie, you will ALWAYS develop feelings.

cc:Rocktation, farano

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by GorillaApp: 7:41pm On Apr 07
Brb


Sexual infidelity begins with emotional infidelity.

When you begin to get close to a particular person and do several things in common, feelings grow and sparks begin to fly.

If you lock two sworn enemies in a room, before long, they will become friends and may even start bonking.. cool

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Prodigee: 7:42pm On Apr 07
How cat go see mouse, dey begin play with am? E no possible!

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Bluezy13(m): 7:43pm On Apr 07
Hmmm...
Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Jeux: 7:44pm On Apr 07
Wahala

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by DModsMustBCrazy: 7:45pm On Apr 07
Congrats on your greatest achievement

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Aaaaarghmed(m): 7:46pm On Apr 07
if my babe first get Male bestie,na the end of the relationship be that

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by sylve11: 7:52pm On Apr 07
Administration1:


Truth is, when you spend quality time or go on frequent dates with an opposite-sex in the name of bestie, you will ALWAYS develop feelings.


That's just it. Nothing more, nothing less. cool

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by JaneYave(f): 8:00pm On Apr 07
Bestie is a NO for me!

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Nickisindigo(m): 8:12pm On Apr 07
Lol

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by CaveAdullam: 8:45pm On Apr 07
A man and a woman can't be friends. There's no platonic friendship between both of them.

Women use it as a leverage to get what a man can provide. And men, like patient lions waiting behind the woods, will predate on her at the right time. This's simple biology.

To this rule, no exceptions between matured and normal adults. Respite is but for a while, because at the right time, place, ovulation, libido, all dresses will fly out!

However, men are naive, the reason why the friendzone lingers and they are interred inside it. Men think being friends will make women change their mind and offer them sex freely. And if he at the right time, he fails to launch his missile, he will continually sink deeper into the friend zone until the woman finally discard him. The friend zone is beneficial to the women because in most cases they received without opening their legs wide, while the male loses because women keep on with the harangue: bestie, we're just friends, platonic relationship, blah blah blah.

Whichever way, "bestie" is a scam, and both party will leverage upon the ignorance or attitude of the other: Men wants a taste of the cookie; women wants the materials.

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by BigYash: 8:58pm On Apr 07
You can not keep goat and yam inside the same room. The goat must chopy chopy the yam anyhow grin If you are a boyfriend and your girlfriend got a male bestie. You never get babe.

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by BabbanBura(m): 9:32pm On Apr 07
[quote author=Administration1 post=100584776][/quote]

Very true.

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Twelfthman: 9:54pm On Apr 07
My bestie my bestie small time pant don shift.

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Drsnives(m): 10:08pm On Apr 07
I foresee you unblocking her once the thirst for her puna comes..
I foresee you banging her roughly
I foresee you giving her the wheel Barrow style
O foresee her getting pregnant

This I have seen

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by ibkonekt(m): 11:12pm On Apr 07
This was no mistake as you claim. You have wanted to bang her for a long time. Situations may have put you 2 in denial but you wanted her for sex and she wanted a relationship somewhere along the line maybe you didnt realise when. Like you said if people spend time together feelings will manifest. You cant water a plant and not expect it to grow. This is what you subconciously wanted both of you.
Wise men know that the bestie stuff is just a woman exercising open hypergamy and testing her monkey branching ability or men seeking pussy in code. You better become sharp or your life will get messed up very fast

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by valentineuwakwe(m): 11:25pm On Apr 07
bro free tour self and be a man...nothing to fear of and nothing new,this bestie thing you did have been happening since 1800!

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by NobleDeSage001: 1:04am On Apr 08
If you spend time regularly with the opposite sex, it's just natural for feelings to develop.

Just give it time and both will copulate. It's no mistake. It's human nature playing out.

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by BareFacedLies(m): 1:38am On Apr 08
Administration1:


cc:Rocktation, farano

Did you die after f├╣cking her?

Abeg move on with your life o jare

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by rex444(m): 4:31am On Apr 08
I still maintain, besties are best experienced as kids...the innocence of children will not let your minds wander ....

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Spy360(m): 5:31am On Apr 08
rex444:
I still maintain, besties are best experienced as kids...the innocence of children will not let your minds wander ....
Correction...

as infants. Even kids these days above 7 no get joy.

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Pious101: 6:03am On Apr 08
And u re blaming her for the sex or ?

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Administration1: 7:27am On Apr 08
sylve11:


That's just it. Nothing more, nothing less. cool

Exactly
Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Administration1: 7:27am On Apr 08
Pious101:
And u re blaming her for the sex or ?

I take full responsibility for the sex, it takes two to tango, remember!

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Administration1: 7:28am On Apr 08
Drsnives:
I foresee you unblocking her once the thirst for her puna comes..
I foresee you banging her roughly
I foresee you giving her the wheel Barrow style
O foresee her getting pregnant

This I have seen

Isn't it too early to be high on wine?

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Khd95(m): 7:28am On Apr 08
Na women dey carry this bestie thing for head, and most men play along hoping they hit the cookie jar soon

I remembered back in school, there was this tall black beautiful hausa/Yoruba babe then, we were really close, she had a boyfriend and she was staying with him, and me wanting no commitment at that time was free with her, at some point she wanted to get a room close to school because of high cost of transportation from her boyfriend's place to school, so I helped her secured an apartment in my student area compound, she was very happy, she started moving around with me, telling everyone I am her bestie, sitting on my legs, making sexual eye contacts with me, giving me that knowing look, if she doesn't see me, she is not comfortable,if she sees me with other girls, I will receive some sullen attitude from her till,until I whine her head and inform her those girls are just friends and nothing else, she practically told me she wants to Bleep me or atleast since I don't wanna date, I actually wanted to Bleep her and be fucking her, cos I felt if I don't know her boyfriend,she's single to me cheesy

Meanwhile she told her boyfriend about her school bestie who helped her secured an apartment, explained some topics to her, made it fun at school for her etc etc, at few times we made out, kissing sucking and all that, but there was no penetration

As luck will have it, the boyfriend visited her one day and met me, the guy had so much respect and love for me, for helping her babe in school, while the three of us were seated and gisting, guilty conscience wan finish me, but this babe acted like nothing was wrong, omo I fear women that day, the boyfriend insisted he must 'flex' me that day, that he heard lots of beautiful things about me, and he wants to appreciate me for that, he promised me that if I ever wanted to visit his place(his own house) anytime I should feel free

Brethren, that day the boyfriend visited, this girl went out to get drunk with the intention of carrying out what she had always wanted, at this point, I sleep in her room sometimes, and we haven't bleeped, she made the moves my sitting on my legs while I was laying on her bed pressing my phone, she wore a bump short, prick na bastard, small time the idiot prick don gather muscle, she moved her hands to my chest and started dry humping me in a cow girl style, I could take it anymore, I lifted her up a bit and worked her inner core real good with my fingers, she was soaked, she hurriedly undid my flap and brought my dicc out, she was about sitting fully on my dicc when my mind flashed back to his boyfriend,I would have bleeped her head out that night, but I felt I was breaking the bro code, I just met the boyfriend today, and he's a nice guy, it wouldnt be nice to sleep with his girl even tho my body wants to

I took excuse from her to get condom from my room, enter the bathroom washed up and and slept in my room without returning to hers, the following morning, the kind of evil look this girl gave me, for weeks she avoided me like l had a contagious disease, she doesn't even want to hear my voice or see my face, I knew I had lost the friendship i had with her, I don't know if I did right by not fucking her cos till today this girl never still forgive me and I have lost contact with the boyfriend

Bestie na scam

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by sylve11: 7:38am On Apr 08
CaveAdullam:
A man and a woman can't be friends. There's no platonic friendship between both of them.

Women use it as a leverage to get what a man can provide. And men, like patient lions waiting behind the woods, will predate on her at the right time. This's simple biology.

To this rule, no exceptions between matured and normal adults. Respite is but for a while, because at the right time, place, ovulation, libido, all dresses will fly out!

However, men are naive, the reason why the friendzone lingers and they are interred inside it. Men think being friends will make women change their mind and offer them sex freely. And if he at the right time, he fails to launch his missile, he will continually sink deeper into the friend zone until the woman finally discard him. The friend zone is beneficial to the women because in most cases they received without opening their legs wide, while the male loses because women keep on with the harangue: bestie, we're just friends, platonic relationship, blah blah blah.

Whichever way, "bestie" is a scam, and both party will leverage upon the ignorance or attitude of the other: Men wants a taste of the cookie; women wants the materials.


cool
Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:20am On Apr 08
Khd95:
Na women dey carry this bestie thing for head, and most men play along hoping they hit the cookie jar soon

I remembered back in school, there was this tall black beautiful hausa/Yoruba babe then, we were really close, she had a boyfriend and she was staying with him, and me wanting no commitment at that time was free with her, at some point she wanted to get a room close to school because of high cost of transportation from her boyfriend's place to school, so I helped her secured an apartment in my student area compound, she was very happy, she started moving around with me, telling everyone I am her bestie, sitting on my legs, making sexual eye contacts with me, giving me that knowing look, if she doesn't see me, she is not comfortable,if she sees me with other girls, I will receive some sullen attitude from her till,until I whine her head and inform her those girls are just friends and nothing else, she practically told me she wants to Bleep me or atleast since I don't wanna date, I actually wanted to Bleep her and be fucking her, cos I felt if I don't know her boyfriend,she's single to me cheesy

Meanwhile she told her boyfriend about her school bestie who helped her secured an apartment, explained some topics to her, made it fun at school for her etc etc, at few times we made out, kissing sucking and all that, but there was no penetration

As luck will have it, the boyfriend visited her one day and met me, the guy had so much respect and love for me, for helping her babe in school, while the three of us were seated and gisting, guilty conscience wan finish me, but this babe acted like nothing was wrong, omo I fear women that day, the boyfriend insisted he must 'flex' me that day, that he heard lots of beautiful things about me, and he wants to appreciate me for that, he promised me that if I ever wanted to visit his place(his own house) anytime I should feel free

Brethren, that day the boyfriend visited, this girl went out to get drunk with the intention of carrying out what she had always wanted, at this point, I sleep in her room sometimes, and we haven't bleeped, she made the moves my sitting on my legs while I was laying on her bed pressing my phone, she wore a bump short, prick na bastard, small time the idiot prick don gather muscle, she moved her hands to my chest and started dry humping me in a cow girl style, I could take it anymore, I lifted her up a bit and worked her inner core real good with my fingers, she was soaked, she hurriedly undid my flap and brought my dicc out, she was about sitting fully on my dicc when my mind flashed back to his boyfriend,I would have bleeped her head out that night, but I felt I was breaking the bro code, I just met the boyfriend today, and he's a nice guy, it wouldnt be nice to sleep with his girl even tho my body wants to

I took excuse from her to get condom from my room, enter the bathroom washed up and and slept in my room without returning to hers, the following morning, the kind of evil look this girl gave me, for weeks she avoided me like l had a contagious disease, she doesn't even want to hear my voice or see my face, I knew I had lost the friendship i had with her, I don't know if I did right by not fucking her cos till today this girl never still forgive me and I have lost contact with the boyfriend

Bestie na scam
I respect you.personally,when I know a girls boyfriend physically. I just avoid the girl no matter what.but I dont know your guy or I haven't seen him,then we can run things

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Kobicove(m): 8:35am On Apr 08
These things happen sometimes...
Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by padi94(m): 9:10am On Apr 08
My bestie, my bestie naso prick take enter nyash grin grin

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Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by Ghedo99(m): 9:17am On Apr 08
all this epistle
na nonsense full am
Re: I Slept With My "Bestie"! by danietohbadt(m): 9:26am On Apr 08
Bestie and that shit called school father and school mother na same same.
Just avenues to cheat codedly.

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