meobizy:
Does she have a job? Start from there first.

Papertrails:


She's still searching for job....

playapayaski:
Get her d fvck pregnant if u really want her in your life.. things don't always work out the way we plan but no matter what, we adapt. Wrong advice it might seem but wish I got my ex preg years ago, now I get d money I nor see better person. Choose wisely, if u don't want her then don't but if u genuinely want her then go ahead so long u have done your homework that she's not being self-centered.. four years time I'd look back and be happy u took that risk. Money ain't everything son

seanwilliam:


I’m sorrry if you find that insulting sir but there’s nothing sensible in the advice ..

No matter what , securing his finance should be the his utmost priority. I believe if him goes into marriage and things don’t work out , you will still cast a stone on him. It’s better not to give birth at all than to give birth and not give them quality life.




Naija don pass make person Dey live him life on 50/50 chance

Gone were the days of our parents where so many opportunities abounded . Gone were the days where little struggles paid easily .These days the opportunity is very very limited. A carefully planning , hard working and smart person finds it hard to make it in this economy not to talk of person wey just Dey live life recklessly..

It probably works for u doesn’t mean it will work for others( besides from your post , it sounds like your parent still Dey tip u)

Rice of 400 don turn 1k
Tomato paste is almost 150
Titus don turn 400
1kg of gas is 450
Cement is almost 4k
Less down 30,000 Nigerians have 1million naira in their acct out of over 200m population
There is different between living and surviving
If you already found yourself in the situation sir, may God come to your rescue .
Not marrying or giving birth is not a crime bro ..


Imagine u giving birth to pikin u can’t provide the necessity of life for ( balance diet food, good clothing and good shelter ). Doing this is a very wicked thing to do ..

I hail u

cayorday89:

Reason why I told him to hold on concerning childbirth, people do that, and my advice is for him to either take or leave... You get? Me sef never marry na the same situation all of us dey, but me I dey single now cos babe don japa, life goes on...

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

danietohbadt:
Na wah for you oooo.
You no get job,
You no get money,
And you one become father.

I pity you.

Just talk to the girl and make her understand the situation of things.

Cos in the end, there's always a difference between pikin and baby.

Use your head oga.
There's no erection for a poor man

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

playapayaski:
Get her d fvck pregnant if u really want her in your life.. things don't always work out the way we plan but no matter what, we adapt. Wrong advice it might seem but wish I got my ex preg years ago, now I get d money I nor see better person. Choose wisely, if u don't want her then don't but if u genuinely want her then go ahead so long u have done your homework that she's not being self-centered.. four years time I'd look back and be happy u took that risk. Money ain't everything son

SweetCunt97:
She's freaking selfish! Money for pampers, cloths, baby wipe, baby bed and materials can she provide?

Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.