Olatara:
A married man will cheat on his wife, they (Nigerian men) will blame the concubine.
A married woman will cheat on her husband, they will blame the woman.
Who is sleeping with the hoes, prostitutes and lose wives?
Blaming the wrong gender all the time won't solve your problems guys.

Yungmil:
is not about doing what makes you happy, but is about making sure it doesn't affect or disturb the peace and happiness of others.

DSC7:
“The moment you agree to date a married man, you agree to be a second class woman, and every second class person is classified as a person of lower values. Now look at it this way.. If he is with you & his wife calls, he lies that he is still at the office or on an official assignment.You dare not interrupt his conversation or query him. But you can’t call him when he is at home with family…..
My sisters, you be toy? He sneaks you from his car into his hotel room but gives his wife his entire home…..
My beloved sisters grow up, please! He visits you at home & you introduce him to friends & neighbours as your boyfriend thereby blocking your chances of getting a genuine suitor, yet
you don’t even know the name of the street where he lives…..
My sisters, how long will you continue to sacrifice your future? He takes you out & buys you assorted types of alcoholic drinks, yet he will never allow his wife taste even a drop of alcoholic drink. Common sense should tell you he is only doing that to get you drunk so he can truly destroy you in bed……
My dear sisters, na your body good pass for experiment?

Fiscus105:


oga, what about a single girl that is dating single guy and in which she knows and see that she herself is not even in number 3 on pecking orders?

What did u want to say about a single girl that is dating single guy in which if she mistakenly visits her so-called single guy unannounced, she will definitely meet another girl in which the single guy wont be remorseful, in fact he will not show a single attention for the girl, instead, blaming it on her for visiting without prior notice?

baralatie:
it is the other way around though!
it is the married men who initiate and chase after young girls

Michelle55:
Why deprive herself peace of mind by dating a married when she can easily grab her own man? perhaps it's only few of these ladies that sees married men as leftovers no matter how wealthy they are.
Food wey her fellow woman don chop finish na im she go open eyes carry the crumbs dey flex, e no gel at all
Shey her life dey reject new chassis ni?

But on a serious note :
Ladies date married men for different reasons and here are some of the reasons:

Dating a married man is less demanding
Most single women are single for a reason, like their career or other personal issues,a married man doesn’t have many demands when it comes to his mistress and this arrangement suits most modern independent single women very well. Both get what they want from the relationship, he is not too demanding on her time or he doesn’t interfere when she is hanging out with her friends or going on trips with colleagues. He also needs to give time at home and he is okay as long as the affair is on but doesn’t become too demanding.

Financial stability
As compared to single men, most married ones have a financial plan in place to secure their family financially, these married men are already running their domestic life smoothly. The single woman finds this trait of the married man being the provider of the family very irresistible, he can also provide her with what she wants and that works out great for her.

To boost her self-esteem
A woman feels more pretty and desirable when she is dating a married man
When a married man showers his affection on the single woman, she feels powerful and her self-esteem gets the desired boost. If a man is making efforts to be with her rather than his wife, that means probably she is prettier and more desirable, she may feel like a God-sent angel who provides emotional and physical support to the man who has a miserable life back home.

Maturity and experience makes them attractive
Married men deal with different complexities of life far more maturely than a single guy. Be it handling in-laws or parental duties, married men are already experienced to handle any unforeseen circumstances. They are less clingy and more understanding. They are experienced both in life and in bed and single women find that very attractive that’s why women date married men.

High-risk high returns
A married man takes a huge risk while dating a single woman,this risk reveals his level of deep commitment to her. A man will only put his social credibility at stake for something that he is really passionate about, he thereby creates a mesmerising illusion of how intensely he desires her; in the bargain the single woman gets whatever she asks for.

They are just jealous and immoral
There are some single women who are just jealous of another woman’s happy home. Sometimes this jealousy reaches an extent where they get immoral and go all out to destroy the happily married couple. They are narcissistic, at times ready to use sex as a tool to lure the married man and then can even blackmail him to get what they want.

At the end of the day, just do what makes you happy and if you have decided that it's dating married men and sleeping with married women that brings you joy, just carry on.

Op, I think it's time you guys allow the female gender to rest.

obstead200:
actually I am inclined to believe this. The way the topic carry pain the babe is suggestive of something.

sapph.iere:
Op hmm this your question is hard to answer o. I can't really tell what I will never engage in. Anything can happen.

Situations make people change. I remember when I was young, I'd tell myself that I will never follow a man to a hotel. If he can't take me to his house he should forget. But situation changed things.


Also, I vowed never to involved myself in abortion but a guy I dated sometimes ago after getting me pregnant gave me abortion drugs to take.

So this your question is hard to answer. Anything can happen. I'm always praying for the best while being prepared for the worst.

These were the 3 things I vowed never to do when I was young but I did them due to situations I found myself at that time. And since I've done these 3 things, I can possibly do anything.
1. Sleeping with a man in a hotel.
2. Doing abortion. (Did my first abortion at the age of 16. I was naive. Did the last one at the age of 19)

3. Sleeping with a married man. (my lecturer who disturbed me a lot and frustrated me academically till I bowed to his pressure).

I'm always praying for God's help and directions.

Being a girl child is not easy. Once you're 16 you buy almost everything for yourself. And girls things are quite expensive.
For instance, you need at least 1500 to make hair while a boy would cut hair with 200. You need to buy body cream and soap while a boy can survive without cream. Not to mention buying of pads.

I can't remember when last my parents bought clothes for me.
At 16 I was left alone to fend for myself. The only thing I benefitted from them was food and shelter. Every other thing I had I provided for myself.

To be a woman is not easy.

Mrlcredible:
she said it herself that she slept with married lecturers countless times, got pregnant several times and committed countless abortions at an early age of 16.
Read below

YoungBruzzy:


I guess this is the reason Sapphire hate everything called malefolks now I know better..

bonetalk:

It's the young girls that dress seductively to attract them.
Men are easily attracted by what they see...
Look around you there is seduction everywhere by these young ladies

franchasng:
The way young unmarried boys castigate married men who try to keep themselves happier with some sweet side babes is annoying, and you know why In few years from the day they are complaining about married men dating single ladies, they themselves will become a married man and will want to date all the girls in the world.....guys stop whinning and get busy with making money and more money.


Life is not that difficult you know....just enjoy your life, we have a very short stay here on this earth, and if you no come enjoy am unto say you want to prove that you are a different man than other men enjoying their lives responsibly, na yourself you go blame oh when you finally land for hell fire because of other sins like envy, greed, anger, jealousy of people doing better than you, sin of telling lies, etc....so don't think its only having sex that is sin, other sins can send you to baba satan's mansion oh

YoungBruzzy:


I'm sure that you must be feeling glad and joyous With all those gibberish that you scribbled up there innit??
Now put your sorry self in the position of a married woman, would you want your man to engage in extramarital affairs because here you are now with supportive words for single ladies going out with married men.. Even giving them undeserved credit for them tryna ruin another woman's home.. Believe you n me, Karma issa beautiful b*tch, if you are supporting /engaging in such act, be rest assured, the girl wey go jack your man comot for your life still dey primary 5 dey recite day by day dear lord of thee

I just don't know why the truth is always hard to say..

Kwinesther:
Lies, what you just is nothing but mere excuse. Men are naturally cheats and undisciplined generally when it comes to women. Countless well to do married men(top businessmen, lecturers, traditional rulers, religious leaders) have seduced me with money and even promised heaven and earth but still I'm on my firm stand of saying no even till tomorrow. I never seduced these men in any way, they came to me directly or send someone to me. Be truthful enough and preach to your fellow men to be faithful to their wives. Sincerely, Most married men are so useless and shameless.

ensamy:


The boys are angry because married men are dating thier small girlfriends and spoiling them with money thereby making the girls to look down on them and given them higher experience they cannot afford.
So make the married men pity the boys and leave Thier babes for them...
As Ned Nwoko collect Regina from that little guy.

Kwinesther:
Lies, what you just posted is nothing but mere excuse. Men are naturally cheats and undisciplined generally when it comes to women. Countless well to do married men(top businessmen, lecturers, traditional rulers, religious leaders) have seduced me with money and even promised heaven and earth but still I'm on my firm stand of saying no even till tomorrow. I never seduced these men in any way, they came to me directly or send someone to me. Be truthful enough and preach to your fellow men to be faithful to their wives. Sincerely, Most married men are so useless and shameless.

DSC7:
“The moment you agree to date a married man, you agree to be a second class woman, and every second class person is classified as a person of lower values. Now look at it this way.. If he is with you & his wife calls, he lies that he is still at the office or on an official assignment.You dare not interrupt his conversation or query him. But you can’t call him when he is at home with family…..
My sisters, you be toy? He sneaks you from his car into his hotel room but gives his wife his entire home…..
My beloved sisters grow up, please! He visits you at home & you introduce him to friends & neighbours as your boyfriend thereby blocking your chances of getting a genuine suitor, yet
you don’t even know the name of the street where he lives…..
My sisters, how long will you continue to sacrifice your future? He takes you out & buys you assorted types of alcoholic drinks, yet he will never allow his wife taste even a drop of alcoholic drink. Common sense should tell you he is only doing that to get you drunk so he can truly destroy you in bed……
My dear sisters, na your body good pass for experiment?

Mrlcredible:
most married men?
see your ugly face in your profile picture and I wonder the kind of baboon that will even ask you out in the first place.
When issues like this is being discussed you should shut up and crawl back to the hole you crept out of.
Them dey talk better girls wey married men dey roll with this ugly frog face dey follow put voice

sapphiere:
Thank you so much for being with 90% of women to know that they sleep with married men.
Thank you once again for living in the mind of every girl that has slept with a married man to know their reasons for sleeping with married men.

And for the mod that brought this useless thread to frontpage, thank you so much.

Kwinesther:
Obviously, you are in the category of the cheat, shameless and undisciplined men I am talking about. I guess I just touched a nerve. You will never stop being useless, now now you don go check my profile picture? Jobless men plenty for this forum abeg. Idiots like you are the type of men we are talking about. Jobless broke animal calling someone ugly. Na kayamanta and STD go kill you las las.

lkillbrokehoes:
Is it true you had countless abortions and slept with men for money? is that the reason why you dislike men on this forum? I don't even want to believe it. damn!

Kwinesther:
Jobless men plenty for this forum abeg. Idiots like you are the type of men we are talking about. Jobless broke animal calling someone ugly. Na kayamanta and STD go kill you las las.

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