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My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by TigerTears(m): 12:06pm On Apr 11, 2021
Good day my fellow nairalanders, so I'll just go straight to the point. There's this girl I started dating some months back(like 4 months ago) and we've been doing really really good because she loves me and I love her too and we open up to each other on almost everything we do. She actually told me the reason for her break up with her EX was because she opened up to him that she slept with a guy and it was because she was drunk but her ex couldn't take it and they just broke up. Fast forward to today that she was supposed to come back because she left town to see her sis, she just told me that she has canceled that her ex is coming to pick her up that they want to hang out. I was just confused and couldn't even comprehend what she told me. She said they broke up but they're still friends and anytime he's in town he usually likes that they hangout, and that she'll be with him for like 5 days before she comes back. This is after I've left all I'm doing to travel down and see her, like the journey is roughly 18hrs and she's telling me this. I'm just confused I don't know what to do at this point, please my people help me with some advice please I'm in confusion. Mods please help me push this, I really need help cry

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by habsydiamond(m): 12:12pm On Apr 11, 2021
So the Ex will enjoy her for five day while u will be dreaming about her for that five days... Op I know u are not Joseph and she's not portiphar's wife.. U should know she's no over this guy already nao.. In short u are plan B incase u no know

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by LadySarah: 12:12pm On Apr 11, 2021
grin
The future is already female.Ooin!
I reject it for my children.Aargh!


Dear Op,you were the rebound guy for her.Dust your shorts and move on.You will always be an option for her should you choose to remain with her.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by TigerTears(m): 12:13pm On Apr 11, 2021
habsydiamond:
So the Ex will enjoy her for five day while u will be dreaming about her for that five days... Op I know u are not Joseph and she's not portipher's wife.. U should know she's no over this guy already nao.. In short u are plan B incase u no know
cry
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by AwesomeStormy00(m): 12:13pm On Apr 11, 2021
I am sorry your girlfriend is a leeche... if your girlfriend wants to hang out with her ex she should invite you, then the 3 of you can hang out together while she introduce you as her boyfriend to her ex. If she refused to do that then no point being with her.

Once a cheat always a cheat she is not remorseful cheating on her ex and i tell you what, she is going to do the same to you, it could be your best friend.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by prodige001: 12:13pm On Apr 11, 2021
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TigerTears:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, so I'll just go straight to the point. There's this girl I started dating some months back(like 4 months ago) and we've been doing really really good because she loves me and I love her too and we open up to each other on almost everything we do. She actually told me the reason for her break up with her EX was because she opened up to him that she slept with a guy and it was because she was drunk but her ex couldn't take it and they just broke up. Fast forward to today that she was supposed to come back because she left town to see her sis, she just told me that she has canceled that her ex is coming to pick her up that they want to hang out. I was just confused and couldn't even comprehend what she told me. She said they broke up but they're still friends and anytime he's in town he usually likes that they hangout, and that she'll be with him for like 5 days before she comes back. This is after I've left all I'm doing to travel down and see her, like the journey is roughly 18hrs and she's telling me this. I'm just confused I don't know what to do at this point, please my people help me with some advice please I'm in confusion. Mods please help me push this, I really need help cry
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she fvcked ... got dumped.... you took her(simping at its apex) and she wanna play same card of getting fvcked and you are here contemplating??


Niggar u deserve better....

that's a big red flag...

she has no regards for your sacrifice(which you shouldn't have made)


https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know
start here let's see how we can vindicate you


thank me later

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by Danny110(m): 12:14pm On Apr 11, 2021
makermix1:
they fucking, just b fuking ur own n dont think bout being serious with her.
GBAM!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by TigerTears(m): 12:15pm On Apr 11, 2021
AwesomeStormy00:
I am sorry your girlfriend is a leeche... if your girlfriend wants to hang out with her ex she should invite you, then the 3 of you can hang out together while she introduce you as her boyfriend to her ex. If she refused to do that then no point being with her.

Once a cheat always a cheat she is not remorseful cheating on her ex and i tell you what, she is going to do the same to you, it could be your best friend.
Like I told her that too, she said it wouldn't be necessary. I was just dumbfounded
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by DaddyRochie1642: 12:16pm On Apr 11, 2021
Love still dey shack this one,

She told you she'll be spending 5 full days with her Ex, it's very clear she has no Respect for you.

Oga so you don't know that you've been dating yourself all along grin grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by Thurmieee: 12:17pm On Apr 11, 2021
you'll be confused for life.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by TigerTears(m): 12:18pm On Apr 11, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
Love still dey shack this one,

She told you she'll be spending 5 full days with her Ex, it's very clear she has no Respect for you.

Oga so you don't know that you've been dating yourself all along grin grin grin
I'm having a thought of this I swear
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by Kriss216: 12:19pm On Apr 11, 2021
because she loves me and I love her too

LOVE...a word used by two grown fools to deceive themselves.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by JaneYave(f): 12:20pm On Apr 11, 2021
Take a breathe and think straight, she has chosen another over u, walk away and shove the hurt, Be a man!

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by GreatChizzy: 12:21pm On Apr 11, 2021
You know the right thing to do, but you just want to be gullible.

Dumb that b!tch!!!

Where una take dey see all these kind of girls self.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by AwesomeStormy00(m): 12:21pm On Apr 11, 2021
makermix1:
sorry but dont think u know d meaning of leech

No i dont explain it to me.

The girl is keeping the dude for her own convenience no point going back and hanging out with your ex.

Please explain to me the meaning of leech and not the ant
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by AwesomeStormy00(m): 12:24pm On Apr 11, 2021
TigerTears:
Like I told her that too, she said it wouldn't be necessary. I was just dumbfounded

Guy do what is right for your sanity remember there is no guarantee she isnt going to cheat on you after few drinks
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by AwesomeStormy00(m): 12:26pm On Apr 11, 2021
makermix1:
that isn't leech bro a leech in this case wud have stayed with d ex even they not wanted no matter how much u tell them its over dey no go hear.

this one is jumping from one to another hoping for d best

Got you thanks bros.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by TigerTears(m): 12:27pm On Apr 11, 2021
prodige001:
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she fvcked ... got dumped.... you took her(simping at its apex) and she wanna play same card of getting fvcked and you are here contemplating??


Niggar u deserve better....

that's a big red flag...

she has no regards for your sacrifice(which you shouldn't have made)


https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know
start here let's see how we can vindicate you
Thanks man


thank me later
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by PrimeWatermark: 12:28pm On Apr 11, 2021
This is obviously a lie.

How would your girlfriend tell you she would be spending 5days with her ex and you're here asking for people's opinion.??

Please, who raised these men?

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by PrimeWatermark: 12:31pm On Apr 11, 2021
Thurmieee:
you'll be confused for life.
Amen!
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by Youngpo413: 12:33pm On Apr 11, 2021
LadySarah:
grin


The future is already female.Ooin!
the future is China!
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by mrnatty(m): 12:33pm On Apr 11, 2021
baba you nor get girlfriend, she nor even like u self not to talk of being loyal to you...it's very obvious she's using u to overcome the storm she created in her relationship now she's good to move on and her true owner is in town, cause no serious minded lady will dear wanna see her ex for few mins when she has a new guy not to talk of being with him for 5 fucking days and even telling you that bullshit for your little mind she's being honest...so she wants you to approve her dick appointment with her ex abi?, what the Bleep that aunty get mind and she nor get regard for u nor ur stupid feelings. uncle lover boy, if she's neat and and her Toto is worth the stress keep on banging it when next it's ur turn cause from what I can see it's not your turn yet, it's her ex turn. main while look for a serious sister that have sense that's ready for a serious relationship. that aunty they use ur head and you sound very weak with your complain...instead of you to fix ur problem you are reporting her on nairaland... bro ur shame they shame me pls....which kind men our generation they bread this time arround....you wan dey serious with a stupid so called girlfriend who is still loyal to her ex...if you end up with that fool na center of ur materimornial bed different men go take Bleep her even do sex video with the idiot while u are busy hustling to make sure she's then she go turn ur house to brothel collecting different sized dick...you just a. a sex mate on your hands bro...just go look for a real girlfriend pls, stop being stupid biko.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by extol1(m): 12:35pm On Apr 11, 2021
LadySarah:
grin


The future is already female.Ooin!
haha, e even choke u
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by Princessogaraya(f): 12:35pm On Apr 11, 2021
Leave that senseless girl alone....I hate when girls Bleep two dick at the same time.

if I leave you I leave you for good

Nonsense tomorrow she will come back and be crying to you her ex this her ex that.

But wait oooo is like she see that you are weak,she is now using it against you

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by sammyj: 12:36pm On Apr 11, 2021
grin
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by Kobicove(m): 12:38pm On Apr 11, 2021
I hope you know that the ex will not just be watching her like television for the 5 days the will be together grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:39pm On Apr 11, 2021
Op,you are a big fool.how dare you come to seek for advise ,when you should break up with her and go back to your base.dont ever disturb me from my sleep again with these your weak thread
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by TigerTears(m): 12:40pm On Apr 11, 2021
Princessogaraya:
Leave that senseless girl alone....I hate when girls Bleep two dick at the same time.

if I leave you I leave you for good

Nonsense tomorrow she will come back and be crying to you her ex this her ex that.

But wait oooo is like she see that you are weak,she is now using it against you
I bleeped up real time, I showed so much care and concern. I just showed her I didn't want to lose her and this is what it has turned into
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Go Out With Her EX: I Need Advice Please. by AmancalledGod: 12:41pm On Apr 11, 2021
mods i dear you people, you people should not push this to any front Page is not making sense, like are you still a kid what do you still expect us to tell you, like they are hanging out to read there bible, man the earlier you Know that your girlfriend is still fucking her ex the better for you, well she is still a nice girl For even telling you.
Wise up bro no dey mumu around??

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