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The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:18pm On Apr 15
These are some of the challenges extremely beautiful women face: It can be hard to develop a personality when others are permanently keen to project a ready-made one onto one's features.

The beautiful are fated to be told who they are far more than they are encouraged to unearth interesting identities for themselves. The beautiful are seldom single for longer than a few months;its just too difficult to keep turning people down.

In bed the beautiful wonder 'is it me or is it my body they want? They want of course to be loved for the whole of who they are but their exterior is so affecting it. The very beautiful stand to discover that very interesting people who don't look so nice are terrified of approaching them,it can be puzzling to find that one has this effect.

The very beautiful are presumed to be stupid (Nigerian standard),people don't wait to find out,they like the idea of the beautiful being resolutely dim. People feel fortune has smiled on these beauties enough already,they surely don't need anything further,like kindness or understanding that's why the beautiful may be on the receiving end of some remarkable cruelty,their pains and sorrows are of no interest,their so-called insecurities attracts scorns,certain people may even feel they need actively to show these beauties that they are nothing special though they never claimed to be.

The beautiful face difficulties in making female friends just by being beautiful. People will assume things about you just because you are beautiful,you will be called promiscuous,stuck-up,arrogant,dumb and everything in between.

Anything you do will have to be thought through a million times because it will be misconstrued as sexual interest by males and antagonistic behavior by fellow women. No matter how accomplished you are,you will always be judged on the basis of your appearance which is probably the worst part of being beautiful.

Life is indeed difficult for extremely beautiful women and more difficult if you are academically sound(she use wetin she get collect wetin she no get).

These are some of the things extremely beautiful women face.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Salt06(m): 3:23pm On Apr 15
One good reason why a personal relationship with God and self discovery /development is very important. Some beautiful ladies are very rude cos of everyone making passes at them while others have very low self esteem which makes them fall into wrong hands.
A well balanced individual is bae

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:26pm On Apr 15
Salt06:
One good reason why self discovery and a personal relationship with God is very important. Some beautiful ladies are very rude while some have very low self esteem
Most times its the low self esteem playing its ugly head but been misconstrued as rude,you will never understand except you wear the shoes

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by bigpicture001: 3:28pm On Apr 15
The beautiful are too full of themselves. Simple. and look down on almost every man except they have money

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by MickzyDonald: 3:29pm On Apr 15
To be Beautiful and Ugly is even a problem sef.....
Many nametags will just keep on following you always

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by after4: 3:32pm On Apr 15
You didnt talk about the insecurity their husband have knowing that other men will always make advances at them. As such men avoids the too beautiful to save themselves from future heartache

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:33pm On Apr 15
bigpicture001:
The beautiful are too full of themselves. Simple and look down on almost every man except they have money
Still under the misconstrued perception, its written on my post

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Zorr(f): 3:33pm On Apr 15
It's not easy to be a beautiful lady. Sometimes I hide so that I won't be noticed by some hungry men wink

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:34pm On Apr 15
after4:
You didnt talk about the insecurity their husband have knowing that other men will always make advances at them. As such men avoids the too beautiful to save themselves from future heartache
This is a plus too,the insecurities from their other half is on the high side
Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 15
MickzyDonald:
To be Beautiful and Ugly is even a problem sef.....

Many nametags will just keep on following you always
Both suffers low self esteem

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by bigpicture001: 3:36pm On Apr 15
Rozcol:
Still under the misconstrued perception, its written on my post

You know u ppl's character ND hurriedly listed it as misunderstood. It's too true

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:37pm On Apr 15
We that we're ugly, what should we do?

We can't complain ooo



Just love yourself the way you are.


Though sometimes, it comes with certain level of esteem issues.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Salt06(m): 3:38pm On Apr 15
Rozcol:
Most times its the low self esteem playing its ugly head but been misconstrued as rude,you will never understand except you wear the shoes
I get.
Met someone like that. Initially tot she was rude cos of her response but later discovered she's a really nice person

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nayolex55(m): 3:39pm On Apr 15
Yes this is one of the reasons men tend to go for the less attractive ladies.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:39pm On Apr 15
StacyO:
We that we're ugly, what should we do?

We can't complain ooo



Just love yourself the way you are.


Though sometimes, it comes with certain level of esteem issues.
The esteem issues is really draining, it can makes one act abnormally

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:40pm On Apr 15
Nayolex55:
Yes this is one of the reasons men tend to go for the less attractive ladies.
Part of the insecurities they face from their partner which often leads to emotional violence and sometimes physical

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:43pm On Apr 15
Rozcol:
The esteem issues is really draining, it can makes one act abnormally

I can be a bit cocky sometimes.

You just learn how to balance up and ignore what people say.

It's hard to practice though but, I keep trying my best.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:44pm On Apr 15
Salt06:

I get.
Met someone like that. Initially tot she was rude cos of her response but later discovered she's a really nice person
That's how it is most times,it pops up in in the way you react to people few times and you sometimes loose it,you just want to be accepted like every other person. Its crazy though

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Havesomesense(m): 3:44pm On Apr 15
No paragraph. You don't even know how to write an essay.

Beauty without brain, na toto go suffer.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Salt06(m): 3:46pm On Apr 15
Rozcol:
That's how it is most times,it pops up in in the way you react to people few times and you sometimes loose it,you just want to be accepted like every other person. Its crazy though
True. It's to give people the benefit of the doubt, Sometimes they're going through stuff

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:46pm On Apr 15
StacyO:


I can be a bit cocky sometimes.

You just learn how to balance up and ignore what people say.

It's hard to practice though but, I keep trying my best.
You are right but I also talked about people who think they actively have to show you that you are worthless these ones hardly back off. Its psychologically draining

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 3:49pm On Apr 15
Havesomesense:
No paragraph. You don't even know how to write an essay.

Beauty without brain, na toto go suffer.
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Salt06(m): 4:00pm On Apr 15
Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks
Woah. Nice

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Depressed101: 4:00pm On Apr 15
Rozcol:
These are some of the challenges extremely beautiful women face: It can be hard to develop a personality when others are permanently keen to project a ready-made one onto one's features. The beautiful are fated to be told who they are far more than they are encouraged to unearth interesting identities for themselves. The beautiful are seldom single for longer than a few months;its just too difficult to keep turning people down. In bed the beautiful wonder 'is it me or is it my body they want? They want of course to be loved for the whole of who they are but their exterior is so affecting it.The very beautiful stand to discover that very interesting people who don't look so nice are terrified of approaching them,it can be puzzling to find that one has this effect.The very beautiful are presumed to be stupid (Nigerian standard),people don't wait to find out,they like the idea of the beautiful being resolutely dim. People feel fortune has smiled on these beauties enough already,they surely don't need anything further,like kindness or understanding that's why the beautiful may be on the receiving end of some remarkable cruelty,their pains and sorrows are of no interest,their so-called insecurities attracts scorns,certain people may even feel they need actively to show these beauties that they are nothing special though they never claimed to be.The beautiful face difficulties in making female friends just by being beautiful. People will assume things about you just because you are beautiful,you will be called promiscuous,stuck-up,arrogant,dumb and everything in between. Anything you do will have to be thought through a million times because it will be misconstrued as sexual interest by males and antagonistic behavior by fellow women. No matter how accomplished you are,you will always be judged on the basis of your appearance which is probably the worst part of being beautiful. Life is indeed difficult for extremely beautiful women and more difficult if you are academically sound(she use wetin she get collect wetin she no get). These are some of the things extremely beautiful women face.
there's no such thing as extremely beautiful lady...

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Daniiel: 4:03pm On Apr 15
Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks

dear is still better to be wonderfully made than fearfully made ... but I found most times pretty gals are usually lonely ... I guess that's a cross for dem to bear.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by DSC7: 4:04pm On Apr 15
Chaiiii....
Beautiful and endowed ladies are the highest victims of heartbreak...
Only few ends up happily married

TBH i dey always pity dem, dem go fine scatter las las men go dey jonze dem...

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by tosaino95(m): 4:05pm On Apr 15
Salt06:
One good reason why self discovery and a personal relationship with God is very important. Some beautiful ladies are very rude cos of everyone making passes on them while some have very low self esteem which makes them fall into wrong hands.
A well balanced individual is bae

That self discovery you mentioned is important to everyone to do it.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 4:08pm On Apr 15
Daniiel:


dear is still better to be wonderfully made than fearfully made ... but I found most times pretty gals are usually lonely ... I guess that's a cross for dem to bear.
You are right, most beautiful girls are usually lonely,people assume a lot of things about you from far,some keep a cold face towards you and makes you wonder if you did anything wrong, some just want to show to your face how worthless you are to them and lot more but few are nice you, it's complicated and draining.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Zivaharry(m): 4:34pm On Apr 15
Zorr:
It's not easy to be a beautiful lady. Sometimes I hide so that I won't be noticed by some hungry men wink
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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Havesomesense(m): 4:46pm On Apr 15
Rozcol:
You are right, I'm not good at essay writing but good at sciences but atleast you can comprehend my poor writing lol. Correct me anywhere necessary.Thanks

I didn't read your essay because it was jam-packed.

However, you accepted that you are not a good writer and I llke that.

Next time please use paragraphs when writing.

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by peepydelano(m): 4:46pm On Apr 15
Zivaharry:
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That idiot is not Zzor he or she is just impersonating her

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Re: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by Nobody: 4:49pm On Apr 15
Havesomesense:

I didn't read your essay because it was jam-packed.
However, you accepted that you are not a good writer and i llke that.
Next time please use paragraphs when writing.
OK

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