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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by DSC7: 12:57pm On Apr 20, 2021
TheEnygma:

You can be friends with her but don't get close to her anymore.... Move on with your life, the guy that got her pregnant is probably broke or irresponsible and she's looking for a man to hang responsibilities on.....Find another girl and move on and don't let her emotionally blackmail you into taking up responsibility for a pregnancy that isn't yours because it's very obvious that's what she wants to do.

Hmmmm... thanks alot bro i really appreciate...

Will do as you said.....
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Saintmary(f): 3:05pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:



Be calming down dear......


Things dey happen inside life.....

Moreover she is working and according to her, her boss have volunteered to take care of her predicament till she puts to bed... Me just dey find how to comot hand patapata.....

Bros you're wicked.
Why are you doing this to the confused lady?
She wants to terminate a pregnancy, you are talking her out of it, do you plan to take responsibility for the baby?

You're not helping anyone with that hypocritical advice of yours when you are already thinking of how to abandon her.

Let her know she's on her own, so that she can make her decisions with a clearer mind.


And don't tell me she's to blame, she and her ex are to blame so she shouldn't carry it alone.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by kunle75(m): 3:50pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:




Lolsss,,,, read to understand bro.....


She is not a Liability...

Am only asking whether i should ditch her or still be friend with her after all she told me....



So are you telling us she is not aware that she was pregnant before she meet you?
Wake up someone is about to rope you with emotional liability.
Are you Jesus christ ni
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by DSC7: 4:59pm On Apr 20, 2021
kunle75:


So are you telling us she is not aware that she was pregnant before she meet you?
Wake up someone is about to rope you with emotional liability.
Are you Jesus christ ni

She was aware but didn't know how to tell me until i persuaded her to know what's bothering her... cos she always look lost in thought wen ever we are togeda....
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by DSC7: 5:05pm On Apr 20, 2021
Saintmary:


Bros you're wicked.
Why are you doing this to the confused lady?
She wants to terminate a pregnancy, you are talking her out of it, do you plan to take responsibility for the baby?

You're not helping anyone with that hypocritical advice of yours when you are already thinking of how to abandon her.

Let her know she's on her own, so that she can make her decisions with a clearer mind.


And don't tell me she's to blame, she and her ex are to blame so she shouldn't carry it alone.


please How am i wicked?....

Ok u expect me to assist her in terminating almost 4months pregnancy that i know nothing about?......

The worst part is that her Boss have known that she usually come to my side.. of which if anything should happen to her i am the prime suspect.....

I thank God i never slept with her and i still thank God that i never helped her with the abortion...

She is under her Boss care presently and i pray she delivers safely....
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by chrisblack: 6:05pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:


Yea before her confession...
you never did. You only lusted. Take it as a fling. True Love does not easily evaporated into thin air. You can be angry but it just don't disappear like that

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Saintmary(f): 6:47pm On Apr 20, 2021
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please How am i wicked?....

Ok u expect me to assist her in terminating almost 4months pregnancy that i know nothing about?......

The worst part is that her Boss have known that she usually come to my side.. of which if anything should happen to her i am the prime suspect.....

I thank God i never slept with her and i still thank God that i never helped her with the abortion...

She is under her Boss care presently and i pray she delivers safely....

Then I suggest you distance yourself from her, so you won't get entangled in this mess. Good luck.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Ofadaman(m): 6:48pm On Apr 20, 2021
You're lucky you didn't have sex with her, she would have given you some months then con around to tell you that she's pregnant. That was her initial plans, it just didn't work

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by kunle75(m): 8:52pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:


She was aware but didn't know how to tell me until i persuaded her to know what's bothering her... cos she always look lost in thought wen ever we are togeda....

Bro if you truly knows in your mind of mind that you can cope and by helping her to cater for the baby fine but if not please move on now
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Muhylonaire007: 9:53pm On Apr 20, 2021
Alaye!!! Na setup
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by geesilver(m): 9:55pm On Apr 20, 2021
forget the love my guy she wants to scam you
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by NamelessOGBENI(m): 9:55pm On Apr 20, 2021
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...


grin grin grin

Maybe I go start to dey discuss with babes to see whether dem go dey fall in love with me. But baami you funny o..

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by OMNIVIRUS(m): 9:58pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

grin
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Kylce042(m): 9:58pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

Should we tell this one?
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Kylce042(m): 9:59pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

Where unah dy see all these one week love self
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Dbarrzx: 9:59pm On Apr 20, 2021
Father Christmas, continue to take care but be assured, the father will come and collect his child any day.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Citizen0(m): 9:59pm On Apr 20, 2021
Work wey you for do don less. The guy try for you well well. Just dey love her dey go. Las las everything go dey alright.
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Chiffy: 10:00pm On Apr 20, 2021
EmptyGarden:
Who do you this thing?

Make i shout am again because obviously OP no dey hear word.

OP... WHO DO YOU THIS THING
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Muhylonaire007: 10:01pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:


Hmmmm... So what do you suggest i do... normally i have ruled out any possibility of having sex with her... i just dey pity her condition...


You for go have sex with am na... Lmao... You go hear am
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Drsnives(m): 10:02pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:



Deep inside i have moved on..... Just don't know how to discard her with out hurting her psychologically....

Na person matter het you dea answer as if na you the thing do..
Your mumu never do?
I foresee you weeping n gnashing your teeth sooner or later.
This I have seen
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Sunkyapogee(m): 10:02pm On Apr 20, 2021
You are a mumu man
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Drsnives(m): 10:03pm On Apr 20, 2021
RiyadhGoddess:
She can't be pregnant for another guy and still be in love with you, that's not love huh.
Love isn't confused...

Tell the mumu man
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Dbarrzx: 10:05pm On Apr 20, 2021
This is a cook up story...one side you said na person matter you table...meaning this stuff happened to another guy not you. But you said again that you have moved on but only thinking of the psychological effect on the Lady... Who you dey whine?

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Funkeshuga(m): 10:07pm On Apr 20, 2021
at what age do you want to put responsibilities for your head? when God no give you stress, you want force stress to yourself


brain in your head is meant for thinking bro

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 20, 2021
ThisCouldBeUs:
You are a big fool.
please can you add the word "very" in front of that "big"
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by merits(m): 10:07pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....


Brother that's mirage you are seeing there,when she was with the guy enjoy the p she's comfortable now is your turn,she want to use style to lure you into her undispline hole, don't ever marry for pity be warned.

But if you know you can buy container with the load inside go ahead but never come back here and start to shed crocodile tears oo.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by saasala(m): 10:08pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

Oloriburuku ni e o
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Chiffy: 10:09pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:
I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

You met her last week and you have already fallen in love unconditionally.
Bro, abeg go the neareast hospital sharpaly and check you body temperature. Maybe na malaria or typhoid fit dey do you.
The girl even say na hustle she com hustle. And you too; Mumu. You are advising on whether to keep the pregnancy or not. Na you wan follow her raise the Child??

Bro you better close the chapter and find yourself another girl because this girl will spell BURDEN for you. emotionally, financially, physically, socially, mentally and otherwise.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by BruncleZuma: 10:09pm On Apr 20, 2021
This one wan fall maga ooo

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by freethesheeple(m): 10:10pm On Apr 20, 2021
anitabella:
First....

You guys got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because you had no condom at home when she visited....

Second...

She told you that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Thirdly...

Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but you talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday you have been thinking of how to continue with her, you don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact.

And now you want us to tell you what to do ba...


My own opinion....

If you be my brother.... And u ask me the kind of thing... I go swear for u.... Oloshi...

Na guys like this dem dey call simps!!!


Hahahahahaha hahhahah � � � � � �
Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by osejie17(m): 10:10pm On Apr 20, 2021
Mehn laugh want kill me thank God for unavailability of condom in the house. Na so ur village people for pin d Belle on u. omo before u discard her go write report for police station make she no go do wetin Dem go take find u come house. Na u Dem know as d last boyfriend.

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Re: She Is Pregnant For Another Guy But In Love With Me.. Please Help!!! by Mrlcredible: 10:10pm On Apr 20, 2021
DSC7:



Bro i dey clean....

Na person matter i table so cos me sef no know wetin to tell am........
person matter ke?
you no go shut up? person matter ko, person matter ni.
Na who no sabi say you be simp for this forum

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