how can she ask you pay her monthly stipends , what about the one FG will pay her monthly which is 30k? what will she be doing with both?

pls have a serious talk with her...my advice is, if she will settle down with you, go ahead n pay her if you have the means but if not, channel your resources elsewhere!

What kind of boys do we have these days?
Just imagine the nonsense, ask her what contributions did she make to put that money in your pocket?

Indeed Iberibe n'enye onye ara morale...Phyno

Dem no born my girlfriend well to ask me for anything but I do give her things willingly on my own and she do give too.

It's a 2 way traffic

Look, i banged ur gf type while i was serving back then.
D lady served me well while her boyfriend served us by providing monetary support from Nnewi.
Lizzy, omo Anambra toh d'oko omo Oyo

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

dem don use kayamata for this one, pele

They want open shop for mugu head.

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

Mr. ATM abeg do for me sub na 08177926672 your guy broke o

She go give u monthly nyansh too

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

Are you that ugly or too old?

Michelle55:
Which kain yeye monthly stipends?

How much is her own father giving her monthly or did you tell her you are running a charity organization?

Don't be pussy whipped my friend and curtail her excess, besides what has she given you since you both started dating abi dem do you say na only you go dey spend as Bill Gates pikin wey you be na

So the alawee of 33k no go reach her manage her life or dem never increase am ni? I guess you started the relationship on monetary level if that's the case, abeg continue oh. No lemme use my reggae take spoil una fairytale blues.

Instead of always giving her, have you thought of helping her stand on her own feet by getting her a job or something to keep her busy and earn while at it? Or do you like giving without receiving as much as a little pamper from her ni?

Woos, today na Sunday and I no just dey in the mood to table ya matter, do what you deem fit and if giving her ya life savings will make the relationship sail smoothly please do biko.


The chances of your babe coming back to you from service the same and intact as you left her is 50/50 my brother, I say make I tell you so that you go prepare ya mind for anything.

Your last sentence is deep!
That Simp no go sleep well this night .
Someone earning 33K monthly is still asking you for allowance and you didn't call her bluff.

Men stop pretending to be Abrahamovic and reveal yourself to your girl the minute you start dating, let me tell you all women have tendencies for lavishness and only 10% of them actually think beyond their immediate needs or wants. Even if you have 1 Billion Naira in your account, never allow money to be the bedrock of your relationship, 9 out of 10 times, it ends in premium tears.....like the elders said, wahala no dey finish, shora fun obirin o

earleswood:
For you to contemplate the idea for a nano second shows that you two deserves each other. Shikenan! Whilst a service member in my days, I saw that mostly all of the female members from the south were sleeping with any one that cared, except 3 that were pregnant during the camp.

My principal lashed a married Corp member.. Fear women oo

should we tell him? Okay make I tell him, young man ur babe no longer belong to you so prepare ur mind as she embark on the journey of one year of knackology service. Na she supposed dey pay you cos she go dey gather enough from fg and men them over there.

Tell her to make it a duty of coming to meet you monthly for cup washing

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

I reached out to Reno Omokri to seek his opinion and this is what he has to say.

“Spending on women you are neither married or related to, just because you are dating them, is not generosity. It is stupidity.

“Why should men give a woman money? Where do you see it in Scripture? Entitlement has totally messed up your mentality. If a man wants to be generous, he spends on the poor, not on women who have high maintenance cost as well as high nuisance value to you.

“This is the main reason too many young Black African men are marrying older White women. Because they are pleasantly surprised that there are women who don’t require financial maintenance.

“Our women must stop being feminist that still want men’s monies!

“That is not feminism. That is moneyism!”

I hope you have the answer to your question?

Akpors

Smh.

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And your family are in the village begging for food to eat..

And where girls they meet D's kind guys�

God abeg I need my own money.
Anyways do what you think is right.

ictjobber:
They only make this kind of demands when the know they are dating a simp....

Them no born any girlfriend to ask me for money for hair talk more of monthly salary sorry stipend.

Aswear down

Wonder shall never end. Be paying her 50k every month or you can even make it 80k...wise man

One side of me says she is looking for a reason for conflict in the relationship.

What exactly is in Boy friend and Girl friend ....U both have sex ,She demands things U give her Tell me other things that goes on .She Manipulate U with her Pussy, U become Helpless based on your decision .This keeps going on.Is the Relationship leading to Marriage ? Why can't U guys just get it straight to stop wasting your money on Girl friend .She is just your Sex mate Period there is nothing like Girl Friend ,U have fun with her U pay her instantly she goes away till next time U guys are doing it again .Calling U to make u place her on ur Payroll is very

Nigerian females should be avoided by all means

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

which advice are you seeking from us? What do you want us to tell you? That smelling talk you girl de tell you, does it sound nice to your own ear?

Well maybe cos she has been serving u since 2019

Wait.... Is she an orphan?

nawa oo..The way guys bash and insult ladies at any slight opportunity on Nlnd is now getting irritating as fvck .. can't you just make your [b] nawa oo..The way guys bash and insult ladies at any slight opportunity on Nlnd is now getting irritating as fvck .. can't you just make your point without insults.

Moreover Op you already know what to do,do it..if she has a reason for asking for the monthly allowance,maybe she wants to venture into a business,or want to run a professional course..and you can afford it...there is no harm in helping her out.

Na wa ohh
Monthly stipends for being in a relationship...I did not know that relationship is now a job
One thing i do know is that if a lady really loves you, she will feel bad or ashamed asking you for money even when she knows that you are capable or buoyant!
My opinion sha

lemme play idowest ft zlatan No girlfriend No problem and look away....

vinehedge:
Hello Nlanders, so I have been in a relationship with this young lady for about 20 months now. We started dating when she was in her final year 2019 and will be going for NYSC service year this coming May, 2021.

Now the question is after paying my dues, I mean gave gifts(both monetary and material) and do surprises. The problem now is she is asking me how much monthly compulsory stipends I will be paying her during NYSC.

NLanders, Please I need advice...This is my first relationship and I don't know if this is right.

Confirm ATM Lolz please how much you dey send give your mama monthly make we start from there

PlayMaker14:
Oh Dear Lord!!!


A full grown Efulefu has decided to open a thread to display his Simping Disorder....

Giving to a lady that is not your mother, sister or wife is not generosity but gross stupidity.



E nor go better for person wen turn you to Mumu.

Thank u bro, u don end the talk. Na him sabi