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Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Leonstar: 7:48am On Apr 28
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Bola146(f): 7:53am On Apr 28
Oniranu sad Get a meaningful life undecided

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by donstan18: 7:53am On Apr 28
Una preeeq no dey ever rest??

Your sister’s husband asked for a favor to accommodate his cousin for few days till she settles, you don begin fvck fvck am dey worry am.



Nawa for some of una o!!

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by ictjobber: 7:58am On Apr 28
Hmmm

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Jeon(m): 7:59am On Apr 28
Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying. The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.
Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship). She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.

wahala

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Ahmad62(m): 8:01am On Apr 28
Another cooked up story!

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Homeboiy: 8:07am On Apr 28
Get another girl and bring her home

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Leonstar: 8:10am On Apr 28
donstan18:
Una preeeq no dey ever rest??

Your sister’s husband asked for a favor to accommodate his cousin for few days till she settles, you don begin fvck fvck am dey worry am.



Nawao!!

I'm sure familiarity contributed to this because it's been almost 4 months now + I just need closure!!!

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by chatinent: 8:19am On Apr 28
That brother-in-law is a brainy one. He didn't have to talk much but waybill his cousin sister ready to settle down to you with a guise of no accommodation!

I guess he trusts you'll make a good husband.


BTW, I don't support premarital sex.


Her recent attitude after the act, I think, is to build the remaining fallen blocks of her pride.

My crazy opinions tho.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by OlayemiAshraf(m): 8:19am On Apr 28
Get over here" let me slap you ..... They told you to help someone , you dey fvck her

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Leonstar: 8:34am On Apr 28
chatinent:
That brother-in-law is a brainy one. He didn't have to talk much but waybill his cousin sister ready to settle down to you with a guise of no accommodation!

I guess he trusts you'll make a good husband.


BTW, I don't support premarital sex.


Her recent attitude after the act, I think, is to build the remaining fallen blocks of her pride.

My crazy opinions tho.

Yeah, I thought so.......But I just wished she could just communicate with me freely......... Some of the times that I worry her is because I thought she was giving me a greenlight or sort since she's not so vocal but I guess it was just sleep n all.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by chatinent: 8:39am On Apr 28
Leonstar:


Yeah, I thought so.......But I just wished she could just communicate with me freely......... Some of the times that I worry her is because I thought she was giving me a greenlight or sort since she's not so vocal but I guess it was just sleep n all.

I feel you shouldn't have accepted accomodating a female, and shouldn't have had carnal knowledge with her.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by nrexzy: 8:45am On Apr 28
She likes u but she no wan catch feelings

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by denmark10: 10:56am On Apr 28
well, that's your problem mate

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Nobody: 10:57am On Apr 28
grin

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Amaso99(m): 10:57am On Apr 28
Baba Oyo soap at work

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by sotall(m): 10:57am On Apr 28
Lust and infatuation


It takes more than lust to love a woman. If her character is ugly, you will soon create a thread on nairaland on how to leave her.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by TOPCRUISE(m): 10:57am On Apr 28
It is when you get caught in the act or magun catch you that you will get her off your mind

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by slawormiir: 10:57am On Apr 28
Damnnn niggarrrr
A real niggarrr ain't got nothing to say.....

But he is going to grab his weed and listen to some pop smoke songs while reading comments

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by HITMEUP4ANYBIZ(m): 10:57am On Apr 28
Nczn
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Findschoolnews: 10:57am On Apr 28

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Chummynoni(m): 10:58am On Apr 28
ashawo. you had sex with someone that you dont know her status? i am 300% sure you guys had sex without condom. now imagine that lady have AIDS, what wud happen to your life?cheesy.




advice to both guys/ladies: dont dive anyhow without knowing the status of the partner* peace

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by ipobarethieves: 10:58am On Apr 28
sad
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Kingpele(m): 10:58am On Apr 28
U try,your brother in law and probably a friend trusted u with her cousin sister and you lost your mind and composure ,what if her relative got to know u slept with her ,the trust between you two will be damaged,the girl probably saw what u two did as bad and she is trying to avoid a repeat but u are not done with your infatuation and folly ,just pretend you never slept with her and get even more busy chasing your destiny ,u have the mind to eat meat older than your manhood ..U try

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Amspecial: 10:58am On Apr 28
grin
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by GreenWire(m): 10:58am On Apr 28
guys will always be guys sha.. abeg nah just pure infatuation wey dey Ur mind.. all u mind u wanna get her laid she ain't a fool u can play with, I'm thinking she might have a very bad experience since she have a baby.. my guy just get her off your mind and think about how u will move forward in life...

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by inoki247: 10:58am On Apr 28
Between Man Preek, Bandit and boko Haram I no know which one dey kill pass...

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by CryptoTeacher(m): 10:58am On Apr 28
Issues
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by rowosky(m): 10:58am On Apr 28
Anytime she comes to your mind,
Just beat your meat
You'll forget her immediately.


For that moment of post nut clarity.

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Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by seyz91(m): 10:58am On Apr 28
cheesy
Bola146:
Oniranu sad Get a meaningful life undecided
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Seniorwriter(m): 10:59am On Apr 28
Mwtssss
I hate rubbish
Re: Can't Get Her Off My Mind, I Need Help!! by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 28
Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.
stick to FWB like she want, u wan chop d pack join the sugar ni.

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