frozen70:


Calm down, at three years, if she starts exhibiting those qualities you mention, you will be worried for her age

Start working on her at home

Seay her down and tell her how you feel about her quiet attitude

Children loves counseling

With time she will pick up

Will try to adopt this strategy

CalmElder:
Cultivate whatever trait you want to see in them. You're their role model for now.
Encourage your wife to do same.

Reason I am here asking how to do it.

MALIGNANTGuest:

BRING them to the United States.
Leave them in someone's custody.
Den come back next year, and see the miracle 4urself.
You'll observe untamed Confidence, Smartness, Boldness at public speaking, uttering 5000 sentences in 2 minutes and many more, that you would wish you never brought them in, in the 1st place.

It can also be achieved here, I believe.

Rubbiish:

Just 3 years??
Were u confident at 3??
What does a 3 years old know?
Please do not ruin the lives of these kids, they still small & girls too. Instead of u to be happy for having quiet kids, u want troublesome ones?

I honestly don't want troublesome children. Don't get me wrong.

Hemanwel:
Reason I am here asking how to do it.

Criticality and honestly analyse yourself and make improvements accordingly. You will have to be deliberate.
E.g I use to be very very timid and careful to not offend anyone, most times to my own detriment. I'm more open about my feelings now. There's now a limit to what I to tolerate, I'm now very conscious of the right thing to say and do, when to say, and when to refrain from saying anything or taking an action and be respectful.
Most importantly, I'm learning to truly let go, honestly forgive.
I'm a very bold, but more quiet and reflective person now from years of practice.
Keyword : DELIBERATE ( Know why and what you're doing)

michru:



You mean like homosexuals and transgendered? God put that trait in them?

I'm not sure we know what's happening in western culture today.

I didn't in any way shape nor FORM imply what you just stated. GOD IS NOT AN AUTHOR OF CONFUSION.

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

lalasticlala

I understand what you mean. I also have a 3yr old daughter but she's the opposite of your daughter. She enjoys playing with older children and will be the one to go introduce herself and ask for their names, even adults. She's quite bold and outspoken.

I think it has more to do with their character than what we can do. But it might help that while bringing her up, we allowed her to express herself freely without always scolding her or letting her think she was wrong.

We allowed her some kind of independence for her age, not always shielding her from doing stuff. Just overseeing and coming in where necessary.

But let your daughter be if that's who she is. Just make sure you try to make her feel free to express herself.

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

Let them watch YouTube frequently

Read Bible stories book to her

Relocate to Ajegunle or Borno, u 'll thank Me later

There's only one person I know on this platform who can help you.

Cc Billyonaire666

Them go help you teach her when she grows up!

let's know that, what ever happens, u are there in are back

Introduce her to sport

wow

Nice one

Do it your self

Graphics

Website(social media, ecommerce, blog etc)

SEO (Rank your website on search engine)

Social Media advert Online marketing

Build a form for data entry Extract or analyse data

All the above to do it by yourself , I will you

Produce your on music at home and Edith Video

Also need a cheap website check signature for WhatsApp

start exposing her more to christianity and also let her know that Buhari is a terror.

AsherAmari:

At 3, I think she's still too young for you to be begin to worry. Wait until shes 5 then check for any improvement.

How are you doing

Encourage them to watch wrestling... Thank me later

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

Please I deh beg u with the name of anything u believe, don't install aggressiveness in that small child.

Most children are born introvert and u can't change it, all u have to do is continuously take her out, allow her to associate with people, take her to market square Kilimanjaro etc, drive around to where people her, it won't change the introverted nature in her but she won't turn a total slowpoke, but if u try to install aggressiveness, u may end up frightening ur child and install low self esteem in her

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

Let her be. At that age, they are still developing trying to understand their environment.

when she's a bit older if she's still timid you can enroll her in a drama class as that may bring her out of her shell. Generally though some people are more gentle and calm than others

kenodrill:







How are you doing

I'm good.
Thank you.

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

I guess you're more interested in how they relate to their peers rather than long term confidence in themselves.

For your information, there's already a research by African-Americans on how to get their children confident. The result showed that confident African-Americans are those from wealthy families or those that studied history and knew their roots.

This's why the ancient Egyptians said "man know thyself".

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

If you're the type that shout or quick to spank them for correctional purpose on simple matters, this might affect the confidence of such child. Make sure they are as free possible to relate with you, this will help in boosting their confidence.

You have nothing to worry about. Most first born are usually quiet, they learn from their younger ones besides she's still tender

Please ignore those saying god made her the way she is, bla bla bla, Whatever you know you can do to make your daughter better, Do it. The world isn't too kind to quite people.

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

That was how I dislike my father from childhood and kept it to myself .

My dad want me to be active as a boy instead of understand my nature is different from that of my sis.

I just chop knock that I don't understand

They will grow up to be very confident ,they are still very young .

She gon be alright, do you hear me ' do you feel me.

She's still a baby. It's too early to tell what her personality would be. Let her be. Being calm is not a bad thing. Are you guys not the ones looking for calm and obedient women to marry?

Hemanwel:
Good morning dear nairalanders!

I have two daughters: one will be 3 years old later in the year and the other will be 1 next month. I noticed that my first daughter is too timid. She gets easily frightened by her peers. She is quiet. She will allow just anybody to carry her - even those whom she is older and bigger than - without any resistance.

I really don't like these attributes about her. I want her to have the boldness to resist some of these things. I want her to be aggressive. I want her to grow up having confidence in doing things her way.
I also wish to instill that in the second child. Thank you!

Oga,pls allow her grow.
Dont offend me abeg.

My Daughter is 6!