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|My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Lifeisnotfair: 5:50pm On Apr 28|
I hope everyone is having a good day. Here's my story and I'd try to be brief as much as I can.
About four months ago I met this white girl on Instagram and since then we've been talking day in day out. I'm surprised af how quick we both connected in a very short time and to be honest I can tell that she's crazy about me and I'm as well. As a matter of fact she broke up with her ex boyfriend so she could focus on our relationship because according to her she hasn't met someone as sweet as me and I was actually cool with it since no girl has shown me such love in my entire life.
We are both in our early 20s (24 years old) and we 've both promised each other a lot, we plan on seeing for the first time in Nigeria very soon but after last night's conversation, I actually don't feel the same way I felt for her when we started talking.
She confessed to have been with 8 guys after I asked her how many guys she's dated in the past, then she said 9 and later 10 and said she has lost count of how many times she's had sexx. And oh I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend yet though but last night I was about to and after hearing all of her confessions I had to go offline and she's been begging me for forgiveness but I've been ignoring her.
I'm confused and I don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with her and I see a future with her as well but her past disgusts me so much and I don't feel sexx with her would be something special when we finally decide to get married in the future. Should I continue to lead her on till when I get a green card and just ditch her afterwards or should I just cut ties with her now that I have the opportunity to?
Ps: She's based in America while I'm in Nigeria and for those that would say I'm not a saint, oh well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but I'm still a virgin and haven't had sex in my entire life. I'm not saying she should be a virgin but I feel like 10 guys in the past is a bit on the high side. Please NL members, I need advice on what to do. Thank you in advance.
I've been reading all of the comments and I appreciate everyone of you that took out time to advice me on what to do.
First I'd like to say that my intentions of talking to her was pure and genuine. I wasn't thinking of using her to get a green card. And second I didn't say I was looking for a virgin but it's all good now.
I actually did followed my heart like most persons here suggested and we are both cool now. We hope to see where this leads us in the future. Thank you again.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Hardgun: 5:53pm On Apr 28|
Boss u get luck collect the green card and leave her
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by donbachi(m): 5:54pm On Apr 28|
As sweet as u..e be like,u be chocolate factory.abeg cut chocolate give us.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Xenry: 5:55pm On Apr 28|
Any day I go see an opportunity like this, I won't look back, na one-way journey. It's like you ain't tried of being a Nigerian.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by olamide0147: 5:56pm On Apr 28|
Lifeisnotfair:Future keee u dia, survival first nigga, if u know u know... My fiancé is 55 year old bro all that matters is the card after that u can free her and get the girl of your dream
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by EmptyGarden(m): 5:57pm On Apr 28|
Tell her to send you small thing na... Na so yahoo yahoo take start o.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by KidDarkness(m): 5:57pm On Apr 28|
Lifeisnotfair:Her body count na legion( for we are many). Your heart will tell you something and your brain will tell you something too. Choose one of them. I'm not saying you should choose your brain ooo before nairaland girls will say I led you to the wrong promised land. I no be Moses but I dey try
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Kandeed: 6:04pm On Apr 28|
Lifeisnotfair you should expect that from any American babe you'd be oppurtuned to meet and it's rather funny cuz guys over there don't see that stuff as anything
Anyways OP choose yee this day between billing Re-tarded idiots parading themselves as 9ja girls who sees you as connected ATM and after it all break ur heart or a chick who would prolly add positively to ur life aside her past life with a prospective future. choose yee this day man
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by tolufase: 6:06pm On Apr 28|
Since her past disgusts you, let her be now. If you're looking for saint, kindly go to saint petersburg.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Jeon(m): 6:08pm On Apr 28|
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Foodqueen(f): 6:13pm On Apr 28|
Don't mind the girl jare.
She doesn't know you are a Nigerian and Nigerians don't like the truth.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Kandeed: 6:13pm On Apr 28|
Well in all ur doings avoid Yankee women. why i been dey talk so be say Babatunde no live to see and enjoy the part two when he left his aged Yankee lover. we don cry for am taya but his case don turn e go be for the other life.
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by SportsHD: 6:17pm On Apr 28|
tolufase:oloun. Nigga dey find virgin or fairly used.
Na why car dealers always put "few months used" on cars. Truth too dey choke people
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Quality20(m): 6:18pm On Apr 28|
why is an American girl's past disgusting u? just cos she may have been analy analysed? just b ready to continue from there, na una way b dat
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Six30: 6:19pm On Apr 28|
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by olamide0147: 6:20pm On Apr 28|
Kandeed:You mean when hamid babatunde aka sunshine cheated on Patti and he go ahead and sent packages that was scammed from people to her house after already left her
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by AmazingELixir: 6:20pm On Apr 28|
What is really wrong with some of you guys....why ask questions you can not handle the outcome.
Please don't come and disturb us here oo...we have somuch problems in our plates in this country right now.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Kandeed: 6:21pm On Apr 28|
You might wanna make urself understandable
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by KidDarkness(m): 6:23pm On Apr 28|
Quality20:Lol. You just dey make things worse for the guy. His brain go dey do overtime now
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by KBdownloads(m): 6:53pm On Apr 28|
See u, those foreign girls knack alot, so u better live with it or dump her and look for ur fellow virgin here in nigeria
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Matheusmartin(f): 6:58pm On Apr 28|
She belong to the streets.
It's not your duty to try and clean her up.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by SugarCake: 7:45pm On Apr 28|
I'm sure, you'd loved if she had lie to u that it's just one guy...wahala for who dey honest
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by brainmax2000: 7:51pm On Apr 28|
This op you no get sense oyibo body count no matter to them but if dem love you dem go love you die, na why slawomir ppl dey take advantage of them..
I'll rather date and marry a non virgin american woman (white oh) than marry a non virgin Nigerian woman
Nigerian girls no just get anything to offer
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:04pm On Apr 28|
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Nobody: 8:09pm On Apr 28|
I'll advise you face your studies but If you're done with schooling, face your job, keep your virginity and seek God's face for a good and Godly wife.
Just be friends with the white girl and stop having intimate and personal discuss with her.
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Justkatty(f): 8:16pm On Apr 28|
See what green card is doing to you���
Hustle well and leave the country with your hard earn money, you'll see yourself walking on high shoulders,and not the other way round.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Offpoint1: 8:26pm On Apr 28|
An average white/black American female start having sex at 11 and the guys by 13.
So you're lucky she only slept with 10 men, some of them can't count.
Sex is just like normal meal to white folks, they can have it with even a total stranger.
Was going through some YouTube videos where the YouTuber was asking random ladies and guys at what age they lost their virginity... 98% of the ladies lost it between age 11 and 14, only few lost it between 14 and 18.
And they guys lost theirs between 14 and 19.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by bigjackass: 8:33pm On Apr 28|
Pigs up there advising him to marry her and dump after collecting green card. Poverty has damaged you guys to the point that you have lost all sense of reasoning and humanity. Op forget all these I love her talks because if you really love her you wont find it difficult to look beyond this thing. Na fúck she fûck, she no kill person. Just free the girl to move on with another guy who is not disgusted by her past. It's not a do or die affair.
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|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by addictiv(m): 9:43pm On Apr 28|
You no get problem
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Vanilla4: 9:47pm On Apr 28|
It's normal to feel that way, especially when you're somewhat on the religious side. If you don't want to be more than just friends, make it happen.
|Re: My Girlfriend's Past Disgusts Me by Cousin9999: 9:53pm On Apr 28|
You're talking to a oyinbo and you're surprised she's promiscuous? lol
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