pocohantas:


Men should fight small!! You see Nigerian wives looking old and stressed. Jumping from one church to another, no single rest because right from Day 1, all they do is FIGHT FOR THE MARRIAGE.

I wonder why the so called HEAD OF A HOME will intentionally scatter something and the weaker vessel is expected to FIGHT.

pocohantas:


Men should fight small!! You see Nigerian wives looking old and stressed. Jumping from one church to another, no single rest because right from Day 1, all they do is FIGHT FOR THE MARRIAGE.

I wonder why the so called HEAD OF A HOME will intentionally scatter something and the weaker vessel is expected to FIGHT.

Ladyhippolyta88:

And a good husband and wise man breaks his home and expects the wife to stay no matter what.If your wife cheat on you please stay as a good husband and keep the home as the head of the family no matter what.

Mr man you are a wicked and selfish person if a man does this to your sister or daughter you nor go talk this nonsense.Stop saying our foremothers were happy they were not stop trying to paint marriages of that time as the best it was not.No human being should take what they cannot tolerate because they must stay married that is a selfish thought.

Ishilove:

You still did not answer my question. Let's say I'm tired of tasting your preek and I want to taste another man's own for a change, can I go ahead? I love you o, but I need a change of preek to relieve tension. Can I go ahead?

peepydelano:
Dont listen now ooo be doing feminist up and down laslas your future husband go/must cheat on you and if you divorce him the next one you will marry go still cheat on and so on.Be a wise woman.

Ladyhippolyta88:


I think it should be addressed to the men after all they say they are the head of the home so it should be their responsibility no need to over burden the wives to start fighting after the man broke his vow and commited misdeeds it should be his job to fix and not the wife

BareFacedLies:
So?

Should we fry beans because of this news?

Romanoff:
There is no smoke without fire.

Some men won't touch their wives when they are pregnant, na then them dey get side chicks.

I hope he is happy now that he has ruined his marriage.

Goldiness:





Yes so true, funny enough a lot of men are so weak, instead of keeping their vows and keeping their homes they prefer to move from one woman to the other, if your home is worth it as a woman you fight and win, not minding your weak husband, but the thing is this is it not another fellow woman that will still collect the man.. .? Instead of her to succeed, the woman should fight and win back her man.

Timagex:
A professional football player with Chinese super league is "squatting" at a friend's place in ajah? or is it my eyes?

kenzysmith:
Mercy Eke and her mother right now

dominique:
There's more to this story. I don't think the wife left him because he was cheating. She left because he's now broke and homeless. The lady looks like an high maintenance lady who won't lower her standards of living to suit the pockets of an out of work footballer.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Lol for a man that cheats or breaks a vow it shouldn't be the wife fighting to win over her husband it should be the other way around.
Can two work together unless they agree?if they are both not committed to making the marriage work what then is the point of staying and wasting your time lol nobody liberates or fights for the unwilling.
That said another woman is free to take a man who breaks his vow and ruined the marriage nor be that kind man me go dey waste my time fight for the other woman is free to collect the trash I dash am.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Loud it for those at the back. I wonder why men find it hard to take responsibility later they will call themselves leaders how can a leader not know how to take responsibility for their actions and be held accountable why try to deflect and blame other people

Ishilove:

But wait o, what does she have that the one in your house doesn't have? Don't tell me vegetable and okro please, because us too would also like to taste carrots and cucumbers, but we decide to stick with the carrots because we are loyal.

UDUJ:


Ishi I can't speak for all men but I for one used to cheat when I was younger because I kept getting away with it. It was a classic case of eating my cake and having it. The blame falls on me, don't get me wrong, but since the ladies I was with never broke up with me, I was like, 'Well, why wouldn't I cheat? What's the downside?''. I am older and wiser now

And it doesn't help when ladies just throw themselves easily at these sports stars, rich and handsome dudes. We don't all have the power to resist pretty women's invitation to a no holds barred sex . And like someone stated earlier most men are moved by the physical before getting emotionally involved, sadly it's more emotional when it comes to women.

That's why I stated earlier that most of us think with our third legs, lol

Gamesmart:


Unfortunately for her, she appears to either be:

a) one of those delusional girls that think (or know) they are still fine and feels it will be easy to replace him because she was used to having a queue of men chasing her before. Im eye neva open say she don born two now and even if men what her, most won't now want her for marriage.

b) attempting to be smart by making him know there are consequences for him sleeping with other women, but she plans to go back to him asap.

If it is (a), I am sorry for her.

olabrinks:
But does she need the approval of most men or one man to move on? Please answer this question for me

Gamesmart:


Who said she did?

olabrinks:
so why the reference of “most” men will not take her seriously when she only needs the approval of one man if she wants to re marry. The aim for women is never to get the approval from most men, as most men are not even worth chicken on bones. The aim is to get the approval of a man who is worthy.

Goldiness:
Fight for your marriage and win, instead of that bitch of an actress to take your marriage happiness and peace, fight and win, no woman should succeed in pushing you out of your marriage, instead of you to go, she will go, two things are involved it's either she leave your husband alone or she exit this world, dieing by correction.

Married Women should not surrender to their homes to other fellow women, fight and win, until that man comes back to his senses.

Gamesmart:


Sorry, please explain how saying "most won't now want her for marriage" means "she needs the approval of most men or one man to move on"?

Do you know the meaning of "want"?

And do you know the meaning of "approval"?

olabrinks:
you stating that most men will not be interested in her anymore is insignificant as she doesn’t need to be desired by most men to get what she wants (remarriage) if that’s the goal for her. She’s at a stage where she’s been there and done that, so the selection of men that she may even consider will be low, and very much in line with her circumstances.

LilMissFavvy:
This your advice can't work in our current world. Personally I would have done the same thing if I was the wife as long as he pays child support and I am able to gather as much money as possible, I rather be a happy single mom than tolerate a cheat, today's women are wiser. Mercy Eke didn't push her out, she walked out by herself because she is too good to mingle among a publicc dickkk and a prosti...tute. some ladies can tolerate it, but some can't. In as much as you encourage fighting for marriage, it would still be good if you encourage men being faithful.