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ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by Haylel: 11:37pm On May 07
"Marriage is a scam, na baby mama sure pass" A line you hear from so many Nairaland red pill wannabes.
If you have social myopia, baby mama seems like the way to go. I mean - you secure the coochie (thanks to Okafor's Law), you get to make babies, you remain unshackled, and you also get to secure your financial worth. A monogamous LTR (either Long term or Life time) on the other hand, does not give you all these.

But!
Making a woman who's not commited to you simultaneously mother and Father your child is worse than simping.

As babies, we are harmless and innocent creatures sapping knowledge from our environs and in effect grow to be complex.

To start with, the mother will definitely do her motherly thing and your child tends to grow with the ideology that his/her father is a cold man who cares about him just 10%.
Then, your child won't get the manly tough love that is responsible for the balls in men and feminity in women. The girl either becomes a pickmeisha or a feminist. As for the boy, he grows into that thing you so dreaded - Beta male. You know what's worse? If your son sires another son, he shares from the beta apple his father (your son) had sired him with.
What do you get in the end? A generation of hardened simps that were made so because their great grandfather (you) wanted to escape the pitfalls of monogamous LTR.

This thought process is what made me give up on the baby mama thingy. Now, I find myself in a crossroad. For I might even die from the harsh chokes of a monogamous LTR before I sire a child.

Is there another alternative? Yes! Polygamy.

Do I want another pussy? I simply add her to my harem. Do I want more children if my first wife cannot give me any? I simply add another to my harem. Do I want a submissive? I find one and add her to my harem. Do I want a religious one? I find her and add her to my harem.
Like having a baby mama, I am not restricted to the bossom of a woman.
Like having a baby Mama, I am free.
Like having a baby mama, I can easily get more children if I wanted.

The best of it all. All my children get to drink from my cup of tough love. I teach the boys how to be men, and my manliness help radiate the girls' feminity.

If one of my wives divorce me, she is the one who gets the DIVORCED tag. Duh! I'm still with 5 other women (and can still add more).
Tries to milk me off my resources? Well, the other 5 wives won't sit idly and watch.
If she's good on bed but can't cook, I spend the night at her apartment and go to the apartment of the one who cooks best and enjoy my meal.

Sadly, Moses' ideology would have permitted this. But Jesus decreed - One Man, One woman.
Now, my logic is wrestling with my faith.

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Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by Billyonaire666: 12:00am On May 08
Polygamy it is then.

Just understand that you need a home for each wife. Once you have that squared, the thing sweeet die. See as each woman is trying harder to earn your attention.And you no longer monitor their phones or feel the jealousy that comes with the addictive love in monogamy.

It is the best thing to happen to a rich man and the worst thing to happen to a poor man.

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Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by Haylel: 12:27am On May 08
Billyonaire666:
Polygamy it is then.

Just understand that you need a home for each wife. Once you have that squared, the thing sweeet die. See as each woman is trying harder to earn your attention.And you no longer monitor their phones or feel the jealousy that comes with the addictive love in monogamy.

It is the best thing to happen to a rich man and the worst thing to happen to a poor man.
I prefer having all of them close (the way kings have a big apartment for their wives and concubines, with each having her own quarters) than having one in Manchester, another in London, and another in Leicester.
You are so right about them trying to earn my attention. You know, I wanted to create a thread on that before. A woman is on her best behavior when she is in competition. This is why many men complain of their wife's pussy juice drying up after they became married (which was not so during their boyfriend-girlfriend season). After marriage, she has secured the commitment and there is no competition. If there is no competition, it will take longer time of tuning on before juices can flow.

On the other hand, baby mama will be man's greatest undoing. That same thing he is running from will be what he will sire.

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Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by TheUndercover: 5:50am On May 08
These are good points raised, nice one. I maybe mistaken, but there's nothing wrong with having more than one wife according to the Bible. Even Abraham had more than 1. Monogamy is the reason why most married men decides to keep side chicks or engage in adultery instead of marrying another.

Also, the importance of both gender in the child's life cannot be overemphasized. If everyone decides to keep having baby mamas, you can picture how upcoming generations is going to be.

@OP, you raised a good point and the second poster too. For a rich or able person, polygamy works best, for a poor person, there are limitations. Sometimes, the issue of domestic violence is mostly associated with people in monogamous relationships. On competition, women needs someone to compete with, it makes it more interesting. If she knows you have no options, she will become complacent.

Sometimes, I don't blame the men that decides to have baby mamas though, the world is rapidly changing. These hoes ain't loyal. Most people are settling for less in marriages. For the men, they are settling for damaged women/non-virgins/typical modern women and for the women, they are settling for fraudsters, deadbeats etcetera.

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Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by richmond500: 6:43am On May 08
Make one jealous wife no kill ur other children o
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by yomi007k(m): 10:27am On May 08
richmond500:
Make one jealous wife no kill ur other children o

If she does that then she gets killed too.
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by richmond500: 10:30am On May 08
yomi007k:


If she does that then she gets killed too.
its until u find out bro.
She may kill them without giving evidence, I'll still prefer baby mama polygamy just like Davido where u have different children living with their respective mamas while u live alone but take good care of them
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by BareFacedLies(m): 10:36am On May 08
Do whatever makes you happy
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by yomi007k(m): 10:39am On May 08
richmond500:
its until u find out bro.
She may kill them without giving evidence, I'll still prefer baby mama polygamy just like Davido where u have different children living with their respective mamas while u live alone but take good care of them

She better dies with the secret and evidence because if I find out, then she will also die without evidence and secret.

I get your point.

We are just weighing pros and cons.
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by gentlestdude(m): 10:51am On May 08
find one gullible village girl from poor home, nack am belle, she breastfeed your baby for one year, go with army men to collect your baby, give your mama for 3 years, continue from there, and if you no get mama manage with daycare for 3 years.
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by Haylel: 12:07pm On May 08
richmond500:
its until u find out bro.
She may kill them without giving evidence, I'll still prefer baby mama polygamy just like Davido where u have different children living with their respective mamas while u live alone but take good care of them
To start with, someone that murder my sons in cold blood won't find it hard to murder me if I was caught cheating in a monogamous LTR.

You see, when the competition is just between two women, polygamy might not be as effective as you will want it. But talk about 3, 4,5 wives in competition, they all know eliminating (It doesn't have to do with taking lives though) competitors is out of the equation. Each one strives to be the best for you.

Talking about Baby mama polygamy, that same problem still rears its ugly head. Your offsprings (from different women) will individually grow up believing you are a devil while the mum (your baby mama) is an angel.
Even if we take those kids to my mother (their grandma), they still don't get to drink from the cup of balls the redpill had given you (This is where monogamy and polygamy gets the advantage). Your boys will grow up to become sissies, women asslickers and female (mother) worshippers. For the girls, their anthem even before having any romantic relationship will be - Men are scums. I don't have a father figure because my Dad is irresponsible and wants to whoré around.

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Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by Haylel: 12:14pm On May 08
TheUndercover:
These are good points raised, nice one. I maybe mistaken, but there's nothing wrong with having more than one wife according to the Bible. Even Abraham had more than 1. Monogamy is the reason why most married men decides to keep side chicks or engage in adultery instead of marrying another.
One nigga went to ask Bros J about it. He said Moses only permitted it due to the situation of things then. The real deal is one man must be married only to one woman (just as it were in the estate of Eden). Jesus' point of view is for you to be 200× careful when choosing a woman. Apply all your redpillness and choose the best available woman. In the case where you choose wrong, your own don be be that. You are stuck with her forever except she commits adultery. He also encouraged MGTOW though. But you won't sire any child if you are to tow that part.

Also, the importance of both gender in the child's life cannot be overemphasized. If everyone decides to keep having baby mamas, you can picture how upcoming generations is going to be.

@OP, you raised a good point and the second poster too. For a rich or able person, polygamy works best, for a poor person, there are limitations. Sometimes, the issue of domestic violence is mostly associated with people in monogamous relationships. On competition, women needs someone to compete with, it makes it more interesting. If she knows you have no options, she will become complacent.
I concur to all the points above.

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Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by Reex12(m): 12:43pm On May 08
gentlestdude:
find one gullible village girl from poor home, nack am belle, she breastfeed your baby for one year, go with army men to collect your baby, give your mama for 3 years, continue from there, and if you no get mama manage with daycare for 3 years.
how can a child grow up with his mother absent in his life...
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by gentlestdude(m): 3:38am On May 09
Reex12:
how can a child grow up with his mother absent in his life...

it's 2021 bro not 1960, it's a cold world out there.
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by Reex12(m): 8:19am On May 09
gentlestdude:
it's 2021 bro not 1960, it's a cold world out there.
even if were in the era of flying donkeys i wont deny my child the love of thier mother under the guise of redpill am not training him to be a nazi warrior

there's a huge differnce between being a fatherfigure than a complete jackass
Re: ON POLYGAMY - Why I Prefer having many wives instead of Baby mama(s) by Haylel: 1:52pm On May 09
Reex12:
even if were in the era of flying donkeys i wont deny my child the love of thier mother under the guise of redpill am not training him to be a nazi warrior

there's a huge differnce between being a fatherfigure than a complete jackass
Nice point there.
Which poison are picking - Monogamy, Polygamy or Baby Mama-gamy?

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