Most women must have experienced their men losing interest in them and pulling away at least once in their lifetime.

It's like one day your man is devoted and so attracted to you and the next thing you know they’re looking for ways to avoid you. And in no time, he seems distant whenever you both try to spend time together.

This is more like watching your break-up in slow motion. This feeling where the man starts to pull away and lose interest really hurts a lot and if you wish to find out reasons why this happens, we've got you covered.

*Your emotions are too loud*

When you first meet a guy, you aren't fully attached to him emotionally and so you seem cool and calm all the time. But once you both have dated for a while, you tend to become more emotionally involved with your man.

Your feelings will start to show, which is quite natural for women. Men start to sense how quickly the relationship moves from carefree to serious. And when they notice this, they don't know how to respond and so they pull away.

*Your insecurity*
As a woman, if you're the type who constantly nags your man about other women and/or keeps a check on him and his phone every now and then, he'll know you're very insecure. Interrogating your man about his female friends and questioning his every move is going to make him lose interest in you eventually.

*You sound desperate*

If you notice your man pulling away, it might be because you're emotionally unequipped. This means you're not happy with yourself and your man can easily become your sole source of happiness. This will suffocate him and in no time, he will distance himself from you.

*You gave it up too soon*
When it comes to having physical intimacy, women and men are total opposites. Women feel more emotionally connected and attracted when they sleep with a man.

Guys, on the other hand, sleep with a woman and easily lose interest and move on.


And so, giving up s3x with a guy too early on can be one of your biggest mistakes for him to start pulling away from you. If you give it up too soon, he won't have to work for it and chances are, he'll put you down as just another fling.

*You're trying to force love*
When you start dating a man, no matter how amazing it seems in the beginning, it's essential to keep your heart out of the situation. Only once you're both serious about your feelings is when you should move forward in a relationship.

When a woman starts to get too emotionally involved, she will try to force love on the man. This might not be the case for the man and he will soon pull away.

In summary, a woman is logical until she opens her kitty after that she gets emotional. The man loses his emotional tendencies the moment he bursts his nut inside the kitty. He becomes logical.

So lady who at first wasn't emotional becomes emotional and the man who wasn't logical becomes logical.

Local man no do again

Don't generalize this is not true about every guys at all.

** Most of the time it is over packaging that piss me off, when you make yourself look like a diamond before we get close and I tried so hard to have the diamond not knowing it's just cheap Aluminum that you are packaging.

** I have left a girl after having sex with her because, she is not sexually appealing at all(God forgive me).

** Some people(both male and female) are only good for the sex, nothing more. What the relationship is, it's up to them to define, the player don't care

Godada:
In summary, a woman is logical until she opens her kitty after that she gets emotional. The man loses his emotional tendencies the moment he bursts his nut inside the kitty. He becomes logical.

So lady who at first wasn't emotional becomes emotional and the man who wasn't logical becomes logical.

Local man no do again

Very apt

You ain't wrong tho. Lol but how do u mean she ain't sexually appealing? Like she get craw craw or what

Kimjongun:
Don't generalize this is not true about every guys at all.

** Most of the time it is over packaging that piss me off, when you make yourself look like a diamond before we get close and I tried so hard to have the diamond not knowing it's just cheap Aluminum that you are packaging.

** I have left a girl after having sex with her because, she is not sexually appealing at all(God forgive me).

** Some people(both male and female) are only good for the sex, nothing more. What the relationship is, it's up to them to define, the player don't care

What of she is not good in bed?

Nice Article

BigDan69:
Most women must have experienced their men losing interest in them and pulling away at least once in their lifetime.

It's like one day your man is devoted and so attracted to you and the next thing you know they’re looking for ways to avoid you. And in no time, he seems distant whenever you both try to spend time together.

This is more like watching your break-up in slow motion. This feeling where the man starts to pull away and lose interest really hurts a lot and if you wish to find out reasons why this happens, we've got you covered.

*Your emotions are too loud*

When you first meet a guy, you aren't fully attached to him emotionally and so you seem cool and calm all the time. But once you both have dated for a while, you tend to become more emotionally involved with your man.

Your feelings will start to show, which is quite natural for women. Men start to sense how quickly the relationship moves from carefree to serious. And when they notice this, they don't know how to respond and so they pull away.

*Your insecurity*
As a woman, if you're the type who constantly nags your man about other women and/or keeps a check on him and his phone every now and then, he'll know you're very insecure. Interrogating your man about his female friends and questioning his every move is going to make him lose interest in you eventually.

*You sound desperate*

If you notice your man pulling away, it might be because you're emotionally unequipped. This means you're not happy with yourself and your man can easily become your sole source of happiness. This will suffocate him and in no time, he will distance himself from you.

*You gave it up too soon*
When it comes to having physical intimacy, women and men are total opposites. Women feel more emotionally connected and attracted when they sleep with a man.

Guys, on the other hand, sleep with a woman and easily lose interest and move on.


And so, giving up s3x with a guy too early on can be one of your biggest mistakes for him to start pulling away from you. If you give it up too soon, he won't have to work for it and chances are, he'll put you down as just another fling.

*You're trying to force love*
When you start dating a man, no matter how amazing it seems in the beginning, it's essential to keep your heart out of the situation. Only once you're both serious about your feelings is when you should move forward in a relationship.

When a woman starts to get too emotionally involved, she will try to force love on the man. This might not be the case for the man and he will soon pull away.

BigDan69:

You ain't wrong tho. Lol but how do u mean she ain't sexually appealing? Like she get craw craw or what

She has not being taking care of herself

Kimjongun:


** I have left a girl after having sex with her because, she is not sexually appealing at all(God forgive me).

You don't find her sexually appealing yet you f*cked her? I don't get. Who does that?

StonedLex:

You don't find her sexually appealing yet you f*cked her? I don't get. Who does that?

Konji na bastaad

I don't do that though

Godada:
In summary, a woman is logical until she opens her kitty after that she gets emotional. The man loses his emotional tendencies the moment he bursts his nut inside the kitty. He becomes logical.

So lady who at first wasn't emotional becomes emotional and the man who wasn't logical becomes logical.

Local man no do again

The bolded shows why we are called *opposite sex*

Hahaha. ...Teach yourself to love one woman, fine girls no dey finish

trash

Godada:
In summary, a woman is logical until she opens her kitty after that she gets emotional. The man loses his emotional tendencies the moment he bursts his nut inside the kitty. He becomes logical.

So lady who at first wasn't emotional becomes emotional and the man who wasn't logical becomes logical.

Local man no do again

This is so dope.


It's the reality.

Let's not deceive ourselves, there's absolutely no manual in keeping a man / relationship. If it won't work out even after hoarding the pvssy till the wedding night, my dear it won't work out. Some dude are extremist in nature and can patiently wait to have the cookie even if it means till marriage and once they have tasted it, omo na away match get them oh. Be diplomatic when playing hard to get, no go over do am and expect the dude to worship the ground you walk on.

Don't force anything to happen, if it's going to happen it will happen. Men tends to drift away when they notice you're too clingy, no one likes to be suffocated all because they are in a relationship with you. Let them have their space and keep the communication level flowing naturally.

Never be too expectant in a relationship to avoid heart break, sometimes be on the same page with your partner. Everything shouldn't be about your needs, be accommodating and understanding when the need arises. Both gender are all emotional beings just that the ladies shows it more than the guys but it doesn't mean that the men doesn't feel pains, that's why it's advisable to treat your partner the same way you wish to be treated.

If you want to be treated like a queen, treat him like the king. We know say life no balance but when two genuine heart wants to be together, they create room for each other in their hearts.

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Scrap total bullocks

Ladies have selfworth is all I can say. There are some ladies with high value that men are scrambling for despite the fact that she has slept with three friends and is still confused on who to choose. Yes it happens. I said it. On one thread they were saying they can't take a woman out on a date without sex being involved. And I tell you my fellow ladies, let them be the one to beg you to go on a date with them with promises of nothing will happen, it's just a date...... Know this and know peace. I turn down dates steady. Once you don't have long throat as a lady, then all these their antics cannot impress you. They will then need to step up. You filter off a lot of randy men from your trail when you know your worth and act accordingly.
It's not about playing hard to get, play hard to keep. Be invaluable. Once you are this, they will be the one coming and begging for more.

Melst:
Ladies have selfworth is all I can say. There are some ladies with high value that men are scrambling for despite the fact that she has slept with three friends and is still confused on who to choose. Yes it happens. I said it. On one thread they were saying they can't take a woman out on a date without sex being involved. And I tell you my fellow ladies, let them be the one to beg you to go on a date with them with promises of nothing will happen, it's just a date...... Know this and know peace. I turn down dates steady. Once you don't have long throat as a lady, then all these their antics cannot impress you. They will then need to step up. You filter off a lot of randy men from your trail when you know your worth and act accordingly.
It's not about playing hard to get, play hard to keep. Be invaluable. Once you are this, they will be the one coming and begging for more.

all these one na theory, just pray to your God or whatever you worship to have mercy on you and give you cool headed guy who has made up his mind to settle down.


If you like apply professionalism or turn down all men and accept your most approved man of integrity, the way he will mess u up at the end will keep u wondering what u did wrong



Life no balance, most times it's not by intelligence or smartness or principle, it's all by His grace that u can get it right. If u doubt me, wait for time, life will bring you to reality lol

Michelle55:
Let's not deceive ourselves, there's absolutely no manual in keeping a man / relationship. If it won't work out even after hoarding the pvssy till the wedding night, my dear it won't work out. Some dude are extremist in nature and can patiently wait to have the cookie even if it means till marriage and once they have tasted it, omo na away match get them oh. Be diplomatic when playing hard to get, no go over do am and expect the dude to worship the ground you walk on.

Don't force anything to happen, if it's going to happen it will happen. Men tends to drift away when they notice you're too clingy, no one likes to be suffocated all because they are in a relationship with you. Let them have their space and keep the communication level flowing naturally.

Never be too expectant in a relationship to avoid heart break, sometimes be on the same page with your partner. Everything shouldn't be about your needs, be accommodating and understanding when the need arises. Both gender are all emotional beings just that the ladies shows it more than the guys but it doesn't mean that the men doesn't feel pains, that's why it's advisable to treat your partner the same way you wish to be treated.

If you want to be treated like a queen, treat him like the king. We know say life no balance but when two genuine heart wants to be together, they create room for each other in their hearts.

Sound too good to believe it's coming from a young Nigerian lady

Michelle55:
Let's not deceive ourselves, there's absolutely no manual in keeping a man / relationship. If it won't work out even after hoarding the pvssy till the wedding night, my dear it won't work out. Some dude are extremist in nature and can patiently wait to have the cookie even if it means till marriage and once they have tasted it, omo na away match get them oh. Be diplomatic when playing hard to get, no go over do am and expect the dude to worship the ground you walk on.

Don't force anything to happen, if it's going to happen it will happen. Men tends to drift away when they notice you're too clingy, no one likes to be suffocated all because they are in a relationship with you. Let them have their space and keep the communication level flowing naturally.

Never be too expectant in a relationship to avoid heart break, sometimes be on the same page with your partner. Everything shouldn't be about your needs, be accommodating and understanding when the need arises. Both gender are all emotional beings just that the ladies shows it more than the guys but it doesn't mean that the men doesn't feel pains, that's why it's advisable to treat your partner the same way you wish to be treated.

If you want to be treated like a queen, treat him like the king. We know say life no balance but when two genuine heart wants to be together, they create room for each other in their hearts.

Wow you are a star. You be genuine person for here, i needed to read it again to be sure am not dreaming. I am sorry to say i really like and love your blunt honesty.

Good write up
But easier said than done, this our heart no get manual ooh
It feels what it feels bro.....

I only loose interest if the lady stressed me before giving in and still continues to stress me after. I hate anything stress.

humilitypays:
all these one na theory, just pray to your God or whatever you worship to have mercy on you and give you cool headed guy who has made up his mind to settle down.


If you like apply professionalism or turn down all men and accept your most approved man of integrity, the way he will mess u up at the end will keep u wondering what u did wrong



Life no balance, most times it's not by intelligence or smartness or principle, it's all by His grace that u can get it right. If u doubt me, wait for time, life will bring you to reality lol

All you typed all there is totally unrelated to my post so I wonder why you mentioned me, or was it a mistake?
I never rule out the God factor, but even the Bible tells us that wisdom is profitable to direct. And your last statement sounds like a curse. Well, different strokes.........I'll remain single till I join my creator if I don't see what I want. Last time I checked, being ain't no crime not sin. And my theory has worked and is still working for me. I am single by choice because I can't settle for less than I deserve. You guys keep struggling to make sense and eventually end up failing. Because I'm still trying to understand the correlation of your message to my post.

BigDan69:
Most women must have experienced their men losing interest in them and pulling away at least once in their lifetime.

It's like one day your man is devoted and so attracted to you and the next thing you know they’re looking for ways to avoid you. And in no time, he seems distant whenever you both try to spend time together.

This is more like watching your break-up in slow motion. This feeling where the man starts to pull away and lose interest really hurts a lot and if you wish to find out reasons why this happens, we've got you covered.

*Your emotions are too loud*

When you first meet a guy, you aren't fully attached to him emotionally and so you seem cool and calm all the time. But once you both have dated for a while, you tend to become more emotionally involved with your man.

Your feelings will start to show, which is quite natural for women. Men start to sense how quickly the relationship moves from carefree to serious. And when they notice this, they don't know how to respond and so they pull away.

*Your insecurity*
As a woman, if you're the type who constantly nags your man about other women and/or keeps a check on him and his phone every now and then, he'll know you're very insecure. Interrogating your man about his female friends and questioning his every move is going to make him lose interest in you eventually.

*You sound desperate*

If you notice your man pulling away, it might be because you're emotionally unequipped. This means you're not happy with yourself and your man can easily become your sole source of happiness. This will suffocate him and in no time, he will distance himself from you.

*You gave it up too soon*
When it comes to having physical intimacy, women and men are total opposites. Women feel more emotionally connected and attracted when they sleep with a man.

Guys, on the other hand, sleep with a woman and easily lose interest and move on.


And so, giving up s3x with a guy too early on can be one of your biggest mistakes for him to start pulling away from you. If you give it up too soon, he won't have to work for it and chances are, he'll put you down as just another fling.

*You're trying to force love*
When you start dating a man, no matter how amazing it seems in the beginning, it's essential to keep your heart out of the situation. Only once you're both serious about your feelings is when you should move forward in a relationship.

When a woman starts to get too emotionally involved, she will try to force love on the man. This might not be the case for the man and he will soon pull away.

and you failed to include bad sex. If she isn't good in bed, this can make the guy leave quick

seunsiju:
Hahaha. ...Teach yourself to love one woman, fine girls no dey finish

Loving one woman will not stop you from getting attracted to other women

You don't have to campaign after election

Kobicove:


Loving one woman will not stop you from getting attracted to other women

Getting attracted to other women isn't an excuse to get them laid....wen ur Yes is Yes and No is No , u automatically an overcomer

ok

humilitypays:
all these one na theory, just pray to your God or whatever you worship to have mercy on you and give you cool headed guy who has made up his mind to settle down.


If you like apply professionalism or turn down all men and accept your most approved man of integrity, the way he will mess u up at the end will keep u wondering what u did wrong



Life no balance, most times it's not by intelligence or smartness or principle, it's all by His grace that u can get it right. If u doubt me, wait for time, life will bring you to reality lol

Bravo to you!!!

You've said it all.

Being too 'academic and superficial' is the catalyst for marital crisis that leads to domestic violence and divorce.

Our contemporary world is too deep in using logic, principle and recipe while choosing their better-half. None of these three superficials is the silver bullet to having a kingdom/healthy marital life. They all fail and fade as time progresses.

Some marriage coaches and pastors would say don't marry him/her if he/she is jobless. I've seen thousands of guys loosing their jobs after wedding while some become gainfully employed and promoted after the
Wedding. Life is a mystery and only GOD knows the end from the beginning.

Only the will and grace of God can connect a soul partner and not the recipes being taught online, or by marital coaches or some half-baked pastors.

Michelle55:
Let's not deceive ourselves, there's absolutely no manual in keeping a man / relationship. If it won't work out even after hoarding the pvssy till the wedding night, my dear it won't work out. Some dude are extremist in nature and can patiently wait to have the cookie even if it means till marriage and once they have tasted it, omo na away match get them oh. Be diplomatic when playing hard to get, no go over do am and expect the dude to worship the ground you walk on.

Don't force anything to happen, if it's going to happen it will happen. Men tends to drift away when they notice you're too clingy, no one likes to be suffocated all because they are in a relationship with you. Let them have their space and keep the communication level flowing naturally.

Never be too expectant in a relationship to avoid heart break, sometimes be on the same page with your partner. Everything shouldn't be about your needs, be accommodating and understanding when the need arises. Both gender are all emotional beings just that the ladies shows it more than the guys but it doesn't mean that the men doesn't feel pains, that's why it's advisable to treat your partner the same way you wish to be treated.

If you want to be treated like a queen, treat him like the king. We know say life no balance but when two genuine heart wants to be together, they create room for each other in their hearts.