PinUp:
You can give him a chance.

Hashabiah:
Simply tell you're not interested in a relationship and if that doesn't suit him, then move on.

STARGREEN:
Follow your positive heart

Ginaz:


He’s my best friend ! How do I watch him slip from my life ?

No more crazy quarrels and moments. Why do everything have to end?

Carchoice:


Give me his number, we should sympathize with him.

Hashabiah:
You can't eat your cake and have it. Just call him up and tell him how you feel. And if he can't deal with you on your terms, then him space. Or do you want to go into a forced relationship... ? Haba...

Ginaz:


Hmmmm, don’t even know what to do again! He’s one of those people that I really do appreciate.

Carchoice:
Friend zoned for 6 years, I’m sure he’s been nursing the move for all the years only to be slapped with a rejection letter.

Give me his number, we should sympathize with him.

Ginaz:


He’s my best friend ! How do I watch him slip from my life ?

No more crazy quarrels and moments. Why do everything have to end?

Lovecars501:
If you don't mind me asking, are you in a relationship

paulolee:

just imagine, I dnt blame you sha...na dt gee i blame because I was thought dt such nigees are no longer in this country going by our intense spreading of the gospel of redpillz...

Ginaz:


It’s complicated.

paulolee:

just imagine, I dnt blame you sha...na dt gee i blame because I was thought dt such nigees are no longer in this country going by our intense spreading of the gospel of redpillz...

paulolee:
stopped reading when I saw "known him for 6 years"....meaning he have been friendzoned for dt long all in d name of bestie??
and even after dt long time you are still not sure about dating him abi??
some guys dey this life o, that gee is a simp n dnt need a girlfriend so pls leave him in dt zone n dnt gv him promotion to EPL since he isn't sharp...
Mrs op, na people like u be d reason why naija no dey go forward, 6yrs in friendzone n i know say u go follow dey insult buhari for keeping naija stagnant after 6yrs even If una two na almost d same..

Ginaz:


Oh pls!!!

I care about him , I do! It’s not all about red pills and shiittt. I really do care, I’ve never manipulated him for anything.

Ginaz:


Oh pls!!!

I care about him , I do! It’s not all about red pills and shiittt. I really do care, I’ve never manipulated him for anything.

Lovecars501:
Ginaz dear, you don't need to reply that paulolee guy, he doesn't understand your predicaments

Yusufisraelj:
@Ginaz

Great friendship doesn't have to end in love relationships, however I know that great love relationships is deeply rooted in great friendship.

Well if you aren't attracted to him in such a way that will give room for love relationship to work, then let him know, but know that this will change the general dynamics of your friendship.

I'm more of a recluse, but if I find any lady that I connect to deeply on a friendship level and she's willing for something serious, omo e be things, who do I date? My acquaintance? Hell no my paddy that I freely relate to and who knows me inside out. However do your thing, more importantly pray about it and let God lead, this the major part. Not all that glitters is gold, love relationship to a believer is not a game of choice but an assurance by the holyghost.

Ginaz:


He’s no longer picking my calls. He’s unreachable. He had a girl but he broke up with her. I don’t know where this whole feelings for me came from. I thought we were cool about our friendship.

The reason why I can’t returned his love is cos I don’t want to break this bond and happiness we have around each other . I have a history of not being responsive to love. It’s very hard for me.

Putting this topic here is out of my frustration. What can I do to make him understand I can’t date him cos I don’t want to hurt him?