if shes religious and spiritual then its normal to feel guilty.i am a guy but feel guilty after sex, sometimes idon't go to church after sex and would avoid bible study.
Hence, i had to end everything...
its based on individual upbringing, value, creed and conscience

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

Believe me is because of one this two reasons, firstly she might be feeling guilty as a result of her moral upbringing which she’s already working against, secondly she might be cheating on someone with you, you are the xtra tyre (side guy���)while she’s cheating on the main guy. Do your research.

donbachi:
She's cheating on someone with u..dats the reason.

I think so too

koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

How is she God fearing?

koladata:
its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .

How is she God fearing when she de collect apako?

Lol

If she truly and definitely loves you, she has no choice but to stay...

its normal, some young people who are still God fearing believes sex is a big sin. Everything will be fine after marriage .
There you will see are true colors

ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.

Lolzzzz I don't even want to talk.

ChangedMan1999:




I hope you will marry that girl.

You cwan't chop every thing in her and leave her for another man.

Is the Girl not chopping him too? You Guys should stop this thing. It's annoying.

Sebastine1994:


she might be online

Answer the Question Oga , you knew she might be online before bringing your matter online.

If you did not meet her a Virgin then she is a pretender and might be using that behaviour to hoodwink you into the security of a quick marriage

Dem dey scam my guy...lol...May the force open your eyes...

Sirmuel1:




Is the Girl not chopping him too? You Guys should stop this thing. It's annoying.

Dont mind those SIMPS who have fallen for the trick that it is a man that sleeps with a woman or it is only the Man that enjoys sex and the Woman is doing his a favor by having sex with him.

Two people have sex and two people enjoy sex and Bleep each other, Man and Woman. End of story

Premarital sex is not good

immortal2:
The poor girl might have been trained in the way of Truth. Unfortunately, she has not personally experienced the Truth so as to be empowered to walk in it. This is were the guilt comes from. Please encourage her to go back to the Truth, while you seek out evil people like yourself.

#the struggle between the flesh and the spirit.

Wetin?
Give her 'Correct Head' one time and see her lose all those shyness and become a master-leg spreader.

**** Sprinkles Holy Water on Post ****

Bro she’s either cheating or playing games with you to put marriage in your head Smdh.
Women are trash

smallsmall:


Dont mind those SIMPS who have fallen for the trick that it is a man that sleeps with a woman or it is only the Man that enjoys sex and the Woman is doing his a favor by having sex with him.

Two people have sex and two people enjoy sex and Bleep each other, Man and Woman. End of story

And at the end, the woman is shamed.. She bears the shame.. no pride.
While the man brags about fvcking her.

Passing by

Is her name Grace?

Both of you are jokes

stop the fornication repent & marry her at once.

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

I used to feel guilty too about sex when I was single. That feeling disappeared after I got married and I'm enjoying sex more now. If that's the only issue you have with her, then you shouldn't be bothered.

I believe that the fact I am doing it with the right person now, helped me to be more relaxed to enjoy it more.

immortal2:
The poor girl might have been trained in the way of Truth. Unfortunately, she has not personally experienced the Truth so as to be empowered to walk in it. This is were the guilt comes from. Please encourage her to go back to the Truth, while you seek out evil people like yourself.

#the struggle between the flesh and the spirit.

u nailed it, a case of the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak, if only she has learned to walk in the spirit, she would confidently say No

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

....... So she isn't supposed to feel guilty after fornication with a guy who talked to her about marriage? Bros go and do the right thing....... This world Don spoil finish....those days, people get small shame but these days, it's a different thing entirely...... It is well

Alex08101558404:
My girlfriend had such syndrome too ...doh I met her a virgin at 26. But after I bust d bubble ,she always feeling guilty after it cos she is a very devoted Christian...too bad for her she had to be wooed by a bad sharp guy. But it do exist dis guilt after sex..I googled it and it's a syndrome dat wit time they get out of it..mine is outa it now.

Treat her with respect

ahiboilandgas:
she is doing psychological work on your mind called mind games.teleguiding you to marriage.

This is an insensitive opinion. Some people uphold their moral values, especially when it was inculcated in them while growing up. If it's something they hold really strong, then you can't expect them to feel comfortable after going against it.

It's simple, it's because it is a sin.

Are you the one that disvirgin her?
If NO, then she will do that to another nigga when you're not ready for marraige.
HIT and RUN.

Hmmmm this one get as ebi ooo....local man refuse to comment

Hmmm......this one get as ebi oo....local man refuse to comment sha

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

You have a decent lady and trust me she would be faithful to you....not all these girls that have no guilt after ore marital sex and will not have guilt when they Cheat


Marry that girk, you have a wife material , s
When she is married she will not feel guilt