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Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Ologundudu2020: 7:11am On May 14
Good morning,
I’m really confused right now and angry but holding up.
I and this lady meet not more than 3 month, the first time she visited, she was acting weird like not totally free. She refuses to pick out meat for her dinner.
Fast forward to yesterday, I already told her if she’s ain’t free with me she shouldn’t come. So we’ve got that settled.

I told her to cook, she did, we ate, and was relaxing to watch the premier league match, when my friend text me we going out. I told the lady we had to go together, there is practically no one in my compound that day, everyone has went out, can you imagine this lady rejected to follow me, she said want to sleep at home. I was mad but had to absconds from the madness. I went and retuned earlier, I wasn’t feeling comfortable. Do you know this lady on the generator behind me when they took off the light?? I don’t know why I’m angry tho but I felt it’s so wrong to do so why I went out. And crown it all, I went to the pot to find myself something to eat, Lord I’m about to cry like this............it’s all gone, all the turkey she cooked is gone. I only ate two out it in the morning. Just because I told her to be free with me. I had not touched her till now, even in the first visit, cos I’m
Trying to be well mannered, but I’m angry tho she’s very beautiful but her altitude needs amendments. No sense of courtesy anymore, I had to hide the remote control in the night when I got tired of reducing the decoder volume every 15mins. Her phone was disturbing everyone in the night, shouting on late night calls. Picking which side of the bed to sleep.
All because I told her to be free around me, just one free night, she ruined everything. What an altitude


Guys have you had similar experience or I’m not just lucky with this particular one.


Like this me have decided we won’t be seeing again ooooo, only waiting to break the news to her when she’s gone. And one more thing, she’s not dirty but lack sense.
All these nowadays Yoruba girls self. O ti su mi
Abi e dey happen for your side too

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Ologundudu2020: 7:14am On May 14
Suarezzz:
Once she visits, there's only one thing in mind lol.

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I don’t get you
Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Zendinho(m): 7:16am On May 14
Have got no fucking story to tell but to give out Ramadan chilled beer to everyone....... cheesy grin

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Ologundudu2020: 7:16am On May 14
Zendinho:
Have got no fucking story to tell but to give out Ramadan chilled beer to everyone....... cheesy grin



Koshi jor
I’m boiling like this

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Zendinho(m): 7:18am On May 14
[quote author=Ologundudu2020 post=101673485]

Koshi jor
I’m boiling like this

If you're boiling, don't worry three bottles of my chilled stout will do the magic grin cheesy grin

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by LINTUNE(m): 7:23am On May 14
I dunno what to say, but lemme tell u something which is fact...any lady that pretend to want to sleep after u must have entertained her (eg with food , and maybe movies etc) finish, bro that's an automatic greenlight that she wants u to make a move...

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Ologundudu2020: 7:27am On May 14
LINTUNE:
I dunno what to say, but lemme tell u something which is fact...any lady that pretend to want to sleep after u must have entertained her (eg with food , and maybe movies etc) finish, bro that's an automatic greenlight that she wants u to make a move...
Why refusing to pull her trouser and changing to something comfortable before coming to bed?? Bro beware oooo they come in different package. Those clingy social media girls littered all around can do anything to trend ooooo. If you ain’t coming to the bed naked, I ain’t making a move else we both induce on something.

Dem bitches can screen and scene record anything to trend. You make a move now start shouting you forcing yourself on her. Before you know it she done run to Twitter for advise that same night

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by LINTUNE(m): 7:31am On May 14
Ologundudu2020:

Why refusing to pull her trouser and changing to something comfortable before coming to bed?? Bro beware oooo they come in different package. Those clingy social media girls littered all around can do anything to trend ooooo. If you ain’t coming to the bed naked, I ain’t making a move else we both induce on something.

Dem bitches can screen and scene record anything to trend. You make a move now start shouting you forcing yourself on her. Before you know it she done run to Twitter for advise that same night
guy leave story..im talking from experience...are you for real, u expect a gal that is visiting you for the first time to just sleep naked on ur bed before u can make a move, is she a prostitute?...oga I'm telling u this from first hand experience.....the ones that don't have anything in mind will never pretend to sleep, they might lye on your bed while you guys gist and play, but they will never make that mistake of pretending to sleep..

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Ologundudu2020: 7:35am On May 14
LINTUNE:
guy leave story..im talking from experience...are you for real, u expect a gal that is visiting you for the first time to just sleep naked on ur bed before u can make a move, is she a prostitute?...oga I'm telling u this from first hand experience.....the ones that don't have anything in mind will never pretend to sleep, they might lye on your bed while you guys gist and play, but they will never make that mistake of pretending to sleep..

Ok I pray you can handle the other side of some bitches tho. it does not always go that way for some guys sha

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by DaddyRochie1642(f): 7:39am On May 14
Ologundudu2020:

Why refusing to pull her trouser and changing to something comfortable before coming to bed?? Bro beware oooo they come in different package. Those clingy social media girls littered all around can do anything to trend ooooo. If you ain’t coming to the bed naked, I ain’t making a move else we both induce on something.

Dem bitches can screen and scene record anything to trend. You make a move now start shouting you forcing yourself on her. Before you know it she done run to Twitter for advise that same night



grin grin

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by chatinent: 8:08am On May 14
I had not touched her till now, even in the first visit, cos I’m
Trying to be well mannered, but
Flee from sexual immorality, brov. She's not your WIFE!

Do you know this lady on the generator behind me when they took off the light??
Swears, na only this one dey pain you pass.




Na you tell am to feel free las las. You no yarn am say feel free no bi to drink my hollandia finish..to avoid see finish.


While in school, my course mate and her bro visited make I help them for one course laidat. Told them to feel free that I had some yams in the pot with some egg sauces... I had to remit some handouts money as per course rep.

Naim this girl dem chop am finish go fry more egg (half a dozen). They fried two, boil four.

E pained me die.

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Freestainworld(m): 8:10am On May 14
You told her to be free with you, she became free, and you start complaining, you have to learn to adapt with ladies, she is not your wife, so nothing to worry about, if you think her behavior isn't fair enough with you, when she finally leaves, never invite her again.

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Ologundudu2020: 8:17am On May 14
Freestainworld:
You told her to be free with you, she became free, and you start complaining, you have to learn to adapt with ladies, she is not your wife, so nothing to worry about, if you think her behavior isn't fair enough with you, when she finally leaves, never invite her again.
Yes exactly what I had in mind, was only wondering if my Attitude and hers is normal. She’s ate four meat in one seating
Tor share your horrible experience with one bro

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by paulolee(m): 8:17am On May 14
lolz..
Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Lalami3232(m): 8:26am On May 14
Guy na u fkup. If a babe dey visit me, I make sure say I give her 100% of my time and attention. Imagine say na you visit her and her friends come tell her say make she come, then she really mumuishly tell u about am, how u go feel? I no say make u be pussyass nigga oooo, but if person visit you, try as much as possible to give them that attention, no matter how boring dem be cus they left something at home just to meet you. People dey always like to visit me not because of sex or because of say I dey give money, but because of the way I dey treat visitors. Make sure say before u request/accept a visit, ur schedule dey very clear. Make I tell you one small story oooo.

As a corper, I visited one babe like that, the babe na indigene of the community. She was so happy to see me and coincidentally her friend come show that day. Three of us just dey catch fun and before I knew it, the babe don leave me and her friend to go fry garri wey her mama ask her to do. After a time, me a d the friend come dey find her, when we go backyard, she was there frying garri grin. As I dey go house, this babe give me almost everything wey she fry but I no appreciate am cus all I wanted was her presence and not garri. Though she apologized sha but the thing pain me cus if she know say she no go give me time, why invite me over? So bros, na u cause ur own misfortune. Next time, buy padlock for ur pots cus our babes are hungry ooooo grin

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by ChiefSosa(m): 8:48am On May 14
Pastor righteousness, oya come and share your experience

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Offpoint1: 9:04am On May 14
You asked me to 'feel at home' and I did and now you're still complaining.... Kayode what exactly is wrong with you?

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Babafash(m): 9:08am On May 14
Feel at home feel at home na him make visitor spoil remote grin

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by chocboi78(m): 9:23am On May 14
Feel at home, feel at home, u go fry seven eggs..
Shey na u dy lay am grin grin

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Kondomatic(m): 9:28am On May 14
LINTUNE:
I dunno what to say, but lemme tell u something which is fact...any lady that pretend to want to sleep after u must have entertained her (eg with food , and maybe movies etc) finish, bro that's an automatic greenlight that she wants u to make a move...
No light is a green light Enyi.

We no wan read your story on Twitter abeg

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by OSDD(m): 9:50am On May 14
Na only altitude I dey see.... She dey fly?
Abi you get aeroplane?

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by LINTUNE(m): 9:53am On May 14
Kondomatic:
No light is a green light Enyi.

We no wan read your story on Twitter abeg
them done do u strong thing

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by NnamdiN: 9:57am On May 14
She wasn't free you complained, she's free now you still complain?

You wanted her to feel at home so why e vex you say she on gen? grin grin
By the way, if na just gen and turkey dey vex you like this, let her be make you no go kpai person daughter on top say she no open leg.

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Godada(m): 10:16am On May 14
Lalami3232:
Guy na u fkup. If a babe dey visit me, I make sure say I give her 100% of my time and attention. Imagine say na you visit her and her friends come tell her say make she come, then she really mumuishly tell u about am, how u go feel? I no say make u be pussyass nigga oooo, but if person visit you, try as much as possible to give them that attention, no matter how boring dem be cus they left something at home just to meet you. People dey always like to visit me not because of sex or because of say I dey give money, but because of the way I dey treat visitors. Make sure say before u request/accept a visit, ur schedule dey very clear. Make I tell you one small story oooo.

As a corper, I visited one babe like that, the babe na indigene of the community. She was so happy to see me and coincidentally her friend come show that day. Three of us just dey catch fun and before I knew it, the babe don leave me and her friend to go fry garri wey her mama ask her to do. After a time, me a d the friend come dey find her, when we go backyard, she was there frying garri grin. As I dey go house, this babe give me almost everything wey she fry but I no appreciate am cus all I wanted was her presence and not garri. Though she apologized sha but the thing pain me cus if she know say she no go give me time, why invite me over? So bros, na u cause ur own misfortune. Next time, buy padlock for ur pots cus our babes are hungry ooooo grin




This is the best response. You said it all brother.

Learn to give people undivided attention. She came to spend time with you to the point of sleeping over and you dey here dey fumble.

Let me share a something real quick. I had this girl, real cutie, back then. She made the move, I was shy as fück. She was trying to bond, but I always wanted a third party around because I was uncomfortable around the opposite sex. Long story short, bae left. I had this ugly ass nigger, he destroys ladies with attention to the point that my bae and another beautiful lady quarreled over his attention. I learnt a lot.

Secondly, Op, you told her to be free, she freely took out her frustration on the lonely turkey. No one to keep her company, she on gen. As per the noise and calls, she dey tell you on code say she still get people wey get her time if you no get her time. So don't get it twisted.

The first advice I got in getting into a relationship is to decide what I want. Know what you want and what you can tolerate.


Pls shag that girl while its still hot.

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Ologundudu2020: 10:18am On May 14
LINTUNE:
them done do u strong thing
I guess he can really relate from my angle

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by ojotobiloba1(m): 10:23am On May 14
Ologundudu2020:
Good morning,
I’m really confused right now and angry but holding up.
I and this lady meet not more than 3 month, the first time she visited, she was acting weird like not totally free. She refuses to pick out meat for her dinner.
Fast forward to yesterday, I already told her if she’s ain’t free with me she shouldn’t come. So we’ve got that settled.

I told her to cook, she did, we ate, and was relaxing to watch the premier league match, when my friend text me we going out. I told the lady we had to go together, there is practically no one in my compound that day, everyone has went out, can you imagine this lady rejected to follow me, she said want to sleep at home. I was mad but had to absconds from the madness. I went and retuned earlier, I wasn’t feeling comfortable. Do you know this lady on the generator behind me when they took off the light?? I don’t know why I’m angry tho but I felt it’s so wrong to do so why I went out. And crown it all, I went to the pot to find myself something to eat, Lord I’m about to cry like this............it’s all gone, all the turkey she cooked is gone. I only ate two out it in the morning. Just because I told her to be free with me. I had not touched her till now, even in the first visit, cos I’m
Trying to be well mannered, but I’m angry tho she’s very beautiful but her altitude needs amendments. No sense of courtesy anymore, I had to hide the remote control in the night when I got tired of reducing the decoder volume every 15mins. Her phone was disturbing everyone in the night, shouting on late night calls. Picking which side of the bed to sleep.
All because I told her to be free around me, just one free night, she ruined everything. What an altitude


Guys have you had similar experience or I’m not just lucky with this particular one.


Like this me have decided we won’t be seeing again ooooo, only waiting to break the news to her when she’s gone. And one more thing, she’s not dirty but lack sense.
All these nowadays Yoruba girls self. O ti su mi
Abi e dey happen for your side too
What exactly do you want? °You blatantly told a lady to be so free with u, She dd and yet you re still ranting, Yoruba will say, You don't deep your leg inside water and be complaining of cold..

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Kondomatic(m): 10:37am On May 14
LINTUNE:
them done do u strong thing
A wise man learns from the mistake of others grin cheesy

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Nicklaus619(m): 10:43am On May 14
Why u self go leave her commot wit your friend, while u where away, what did u expect her to do when there is no one to talk to, she channeled her anger and loneliness on the innocent fried Turkey for pot grin

And don't be mad she on ya generator, she is just trying to tell you that you should be there for her and making her comfortable, after all nah you talk say make she feel at home, so when you ain't there, she tries to make her self comfortable, the matter no dey difficult to understand bro grin

Just give her your attention next time she comes, and yeah, fuckingly make the first move, and she's all yours, if u continue on this pat, this babe go just blacklist you, you dey behave like amateur for this game.


Take a pointer from me #KingOfSpades cool
Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by Khd95(m): 11:15am On May 14
first time girl visit me, there was a househelp at home that day, so i wasnt really free with her, while i was seeing here off, at the foot of the stair case, i hugged her good bye with shaky hands and trembling heart grin, but she said i wanted peck instead, i told her that i would rather kiss her, she was just looking at me like mumu, mind u this girl was more experienced than i was in all aspect, as per virgin boy i be sad

as i moved my head forward and kised her lightly, the manner she take dive my lips fear me, shewing me hungrily, grabbed my doomant right hand and put it on her left boob, ahhhh blessing you badt gaan cheesy

i took it up from there, raised one of her lets and worked her inner thighs/pussssssi area with my fingers, i was scared of penetrating her, cos i have never done that before and also anyone could barge in and meet us there, we did that for like 20 mins when we disengaged and promised to meet in school and finish business in one of the abandoned classes, na me later dey run from this girl, because i be virgin and i no wan fall hands for blessing wey be pro grin

but as tme goes sha, i gain confident and learnt how to explore cool

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Re: Share Your Experience On A Lady First Visit To Your House by MichaelSokoto(m): 11:16am On May 14
chatinent:

Flee from sexual immorality, brov. She's not your WIFE!


Swears, na only this one dey pain you pass.




Na you tell am to feel free las las. You no yarn am say feel free no bi to drink my hollandia finish..to avoid see finish.


While in school, my course mate and her bro visited make I help them for one course laidat. Told them to feel free that I had some yams in the pot with some egg sauces... I had to remit some handouts money as per course rep.

Naim this girl dem chop am finish go fry more egg (half a dozen). They fried two, boil four

E pained me die.
grin

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