dammyagboola:
You have said it all my brother. Especially when you marry liability as a wife. Even if your wife is working. You will still be the one to foot all the bills.

Skillsnigeria:
Don't let anybody pressurized you into marriage, especially if you are not financially capable. 80k monthly in Lagos na small money considering the high cost of living over there. You can live comfortably with 80k in other south west state but not Lagos especially when you marry a liability as a wife. Even if you marry a Nigeria working class lady, you will still foot all the bill alone. just focus on how to double your hustle and increase your income, you will enjoy your old age if you plan your life very well, with or without a kid or wife. You can still marry and struggle with your wife if that's what you want. Honestly, marriage is not easy,is even worst if you are the only one providing for the whole family. Think Deep

lordatkinson07:
I remembered I married a few year back immediately after my MSc., programme. While I was preparing for the wedding my salary was just 30k. Imagine!

But

Immediately after my wedding, things turned around and the door of breakthrough opened. Today, I earn nothing less than 200k every month.

Meaning of this is that, pray and work hard. Be strategic at the same time. I'm sure, God will crown your efforts with divine elevation and success

oluwasegun007:
Wickedness....N80k is not enough for only you not too talk of another man pikin.

Olayinka8793:
Why not?
We all can not and will never be millionaires.
Just make sure your wife is also bringing something to the table and only give birth to the number of kids you are sure your combined income can comfortably support, preferably two.
Don't be afraid to try Lagos state government public primary and secondary schools for yoir future kids, believe me, some of the best public schools in Nigeria are in Lagos and far better than the mushroom private schools littering some of our streets. I lived in Ogun state and always grateful to my parents for having the vision to enroll me in Lagos government public schools despite the long distance.
Cut your coat according to your size.
Most importantly, keep striving for another source of income, for two are better than one.
Peace.

Olayinka8793:
Why not?
We all can not and will never be millionaires.
Just make sure your wife is also bringing something to the table and only give birth to the number of kids you are sure your combined income can comfortably support, preferably two.
Don't be afraid to try Lagos state government public primary and secondary schools for yoir future kids, believe me, some of the best public schools in Nigeria are in Lagos and far better than the mushroom private schools littering some of our streets. I lived in Ogun state and always grateful to my parents for having the vision to enroll me in Lagos government public schools despite the long distance.
Cut your coat according to your size.
Most importantly, keep striving for another source of income, for two are better than one.
Peace.

Futur1stic:
Available

jayboy112233:
Sorry I posted this on here.
Please i need your sincere advice most especially from the married men and women here.

Can a guy who is earning 80k in Lagos marry with that income?

31yrs and family have started bringing issue of marriage. Citing the advantages of early marriage and disadvantages of late marriage, that it's not good to have your kids in secondary school @60yrs when you should be relaxing.

Skillsnigeria:
Don't let anybody pressurized you into marriage, especially if you are not financially capable. 80k monthly in Lagos na small money considering the high cost of living over there. You can live comfortably with 80k in other south west state but not Lagos especially when you marry a liability as a wife. Even if you marry a Nigeria working class lady, you will still foot all the bill alone. just focus on how to double your hustle and increase your income, you will enjoy your old age if you plan your life very well, with or without a kid or wife. You can still marry and struggle with your wife if that's what you want. Honestly, marriage is not easy,is even worst if you are the only one providing for the whole family. Think Deep

Saintkollyjoe:
You can marry on that amount. Just ensure that employer does not owe salary. Secondly always strive to improve yourself by gaining Better work experience attend training and gain new professional certification as you grow. Don't let them scare you here. There is spiritual dimension of blessing to a man who takes care of his wife and family, you will be having more. Go and marry to the woman you love!

Greystone:



80k/mnth is just enough for u to get buy and start/ expand ur side hustle.

If u marry now, ur wife becoms ur responsibility.

Small time, belle don enter, pikin don show, more bills, more responsibility, less free money, and ur dreams may be truncated early.

Give urself some time to grow. Even if it's 1 year to increase ur income.

Marriage is not beans.

But If your wife is earning some money and will also bring something to the table, then u may go for it.

Las las, dis life no get formula...

koladata:
yes you can, but don't make babies until the next 4years . then you will be 35 or 34, by then you would have saved enough, being married will reduce your cost of living and make you more focus, but having babies will increase it immediately. now you can rely on your wife's food, no more urgent 2k. and if your wife is working , you add it up to save for a better business.

Noblepeace:
i married 2006 with salary of 84k, but i make sure that i save 50k monthly come rain come sun. i was leaving in one room self-contain in ajegunle. if ur prudent and marry economical lady u will enjoy d marriage with 80k

900warriorz:
Ofcourse....why not




But be rest assured




He'd die quick

Midas01:
I thought all women were bad according to you guys on NL, why are you people still marrying?