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Re: My Current State Of Mind by fridayakpos: 7:21pm On May 21
My own worst pass your own, just be happy

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by youngllleo: 7:22pm On May 21
Reex12:
even if say I get 10mill for to lavish 1naira no go enter your hand better go find handwork and leave gambling
the ten million u will never have or which one?? Go nd rest nd stop talking rubbish.

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by Karlebolu(m): 7:26pm On May 21
Learn HTML, CSS and Javascript.

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by stanliwise(m): 7:29pm On May 21
Skillsnigeria:
hmmm, it is well. why not look for non certificate jobs like sales person, factory worker etc and start from there. you can start life with that, at least you will receive stable salary at the end of the months. later you can learn a good skills and start your business if good certificate job is not forthcoming
Stay away from factory job if you want to make it in life. Stay away from unskilled job if you want to make it in life.
Except you are so hungry then you can choose it to avoid stealing.

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by Maxvasia(m): 7:29pm On May 21
Religion will not be the end of us in this country undecided
santopelele:
You are jobless, standing with your two feets, eating, breathing and healthy. Thank God for your life because so many people are 30+ with all the wealth in this world but they are in the grave, some no even get shishi not to talk of going to school and still in the grave today.

THANK GOD FOR THE GIFT OF LIFE. YOU ARE A CONQUEROR
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Wang1tang: 7:31pm On May 21
Go to dangote refinery Ibeju-Lekki Lagos and look for causal work there. My own opinion
Re: My Current State Of Mind by VTJN(m): 7:34pm On May 21
Kokaine:
If you were in the north I would have told you to gather up to 50 people in your area, rent a land and approach nirsal. They will facilitate an agriculture business for you. If you plant rice for only dry season you will be okay for the year.

It takes 200- 300k to plant rice on one hecter of land. But when it matures, it produces up to 80 bags of paddy. One bag of paddy was 15k last time and companies will even come and negotiate before you harvest
Are you for real?

This sound interesting!

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by Glozaglobal: 7:36pm On May 21
I was once in similar situation but everything change quickly, like he said stick in there and believe God to turn your present situation around.
tiswell:
easy bro, just stay focused, soon your dots will fall in pleasant lines

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by Darkmode64: 7:37pm On May 21
Rossoneri01:



Try freelancing by registering to fiverr or upwork
Lol you're kidding right? If only you knew how hard it is to land gigs on these platforms.

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by InvertedHammer: 7:40pm On May 21
brimdans:
I would have loved to remain anonymous, but what's the point?

My problem is I'm a jobless graduate, who works for a friend. This friend I work for, doesn't even pay, he just gives me stipends after every work I do. It's a laundry work. He owns the shop, so he's in charge of everything in the shop including, collections of money and all. My work is just to work. I do virtually everything in the shop.

My problem is this guy almost all the time collects the money and doesn't even give me my share. The only time I see my share is when the I'm around when the monies are given to him.

I'm hooked because I mostly feed in there house, because the shop is just within the house. I tried to get a good job, but nothing is forth coming. I even tried applying for casual jobs, still no luck.

I'm currently in a dilemma because my parents are tired of me staying in there house, so currently I sleep in the shop, and it's not even conducive, but that's the only option I have.

I tried contacting my relatives in Lagos if I could go and make a living there, but they aren't really interested me coming.

Please I kindly need advise and help, because I'm heading towards depression.

I'm actually 30 years old. With nothing to show for, except "I'm a graduate" tag.
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Graduate is a broad term.
What's your discipline?

Some people may want to help even though helping a Nigerian usually ends up in sour notes.
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Re: My Current State Of Mind by akilo1: 7:43pm On May 21
I was at 32 and i have no job,i left nigeria to dubai and from dubai to USA ,trust in God and focus,i make the move when i have nothing in my pocket but all thanks to God..just beleive and focus

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by Fireson: 7:48pm On May 21
Davyyd1993:
Brother get a 30k to 50k phone and start yahoo game. I started this before I graduated when I realized things were going to be smooth after schooling now I'm doing better staying in 3 bedroom flat in lagos for that matter i won't mention location. I'm saving for business worth 2m right now and also planning to get a ride. Once you know how to read and write. Our government can't help and everybody is a criminal (yahoo) even the so called government officials. Think twice before its late. You can't build house, buy ride with even 200k salary comfortably talk less of doing petty things


Bros. Teach me work na
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Fireson: 7:50pm On May 21
Fxwarrior:


Do you have an Android phone? I'll like to mentor you in forex trading. I will equally fund your first account for you when I see your readiness. Cheer up.
Bros please , help me. I'm ready .
Re: My Current State Of Mind by maasoap(m): 7:53pm On May 21
santopelele:
You are jobless, standing with your two feets, eating, breathing and healthy. Thank God for your life because so many people are 30+ with all the wealth in this world but they are in the grave, some no even get shishi not to talk of going to school and still in the grave today.
THANK GOD FOR THE GIFT OF LIFE. YOU ARE A CONQUEROR
drizslim:
Being Alive is a Blessing


Someone is suffering and trying to avoid becoming depressed and this is your contributions! How does this help. Being alive but more like living dead.

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by aysnoopy(m): 7:53pm On May 21
KoshCAD:
Hmmm, brother, Though I am 32, a graduate of mechanical engineering. If I had allowed myself to be depressed due to my situation,I would have died. My parents are not rich and they are no more again.

Yes, I have brothers, one of them was ok, I told him to help me travel out, he doesn't answer. And I said this for the sake of the family.

I left my state for Lagos to stay with a brother that has wife n kid.

I trekked so hard in Lagos that I almost moved all around Lagos looking for job. Even so recruitment company still collected money from me and yet,nothing.

Even if I want to learn something, I will have to pay but where is the money.

I sold my land at home to do a maritime course at ikoyi when one of my brothers' friends linked me to a captain. I called tired after wasting that money on the course yet, I have not gotten any reply from captain that promised to help and asked me to go ahead with the course. Since last year August that I finished the course, I have not heard from him. Even when I call, he won't pick, so I gave up that that is not my job. I want to start as oiler on the ship.

I worked at a generator company for almost 2years just for peanut of 20k per month when I will still enter transport and feed. I currently live with friends after leaving that bro house when he moved to another place.

Presently, a bros I knew way back at home was the one that helped me get a casual work at a company. Imagine a graduate, 32years, I have not been able to rent apartment of my own, I couldn't go home,no girlfriend.

I lost two girls just cos I haven't gotten on my feet.

One even said I am not the kind of guy she wants to roll with. But I didn't die hearing that. I just let it pass.

I love the girl despite being a baby mama. And this is a girl we dated before I went for service, thinking things will be good and u will marry her. She's yet to marry now and she's 29.

Brother, let believe, things will surely work out well.

I love as you spoke out. You will see that help will come. We are in the same shoe.

I love your spirit bro. I'm also 30yrs with nothing to point at as an achievement. I only have the believe everything is gonna be fine.
I'm a Civil Engineering HND graduate and complete my NYSC in the year 2016.
I'm also tired of life but I just keep my head up

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by VanDerWaalforces: 7:54pm On May 21
Amuochicha:
i hate men
Who are you please?
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Offpoint1: 7:56pm On May 21
cry
Amuochicha:
i hate men
I love you too dear
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Kola5281(m): 7:57pm On May 21
Me and you dey same shoe bro just that you senior me. Baba where you dey stay, i might have an idea.

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by youngllleo: 7:58pm On May 21
Reex12:
even if say I get 10mill for to lavish 1naira no go enter your hand better go find handwork and leave gambling
its not difficult to detect a senseless bitter being!
u dont have money to give nor any help to render yet u are soo bitter and angry.
i knw hw many times uve mentioned me tagging me an tribalistic biggot to a lazy gamble.
dont let wat u dont knw kill you.!
dont quote me again.
if u think am lazy cus i'm financially unstable, football boots are sold at various market, get one, pass any academy trial, leave dat ur comfort zone,fight to make the starting XI, train everyday of the week nd feed twice daily, den after u can call me lazy, nd i'll happily accept, but if u cant, u mind ursef
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Bluntemperor: 7:59pm On May 21
CharisEleos:
I wish there's a place you can stay in Lag. There are so many teaching jobs you can start with then from there you can move on to your dream job.

There are even schools that will offer you accommodation. A nairalander got an offer like that and shared it here last week or so.


There's even another that advertised in lekki. They offer accommodation too.

Search for the thread in education or jobs section. You may be lucky to find her post.

Also do not forget to keep praying to God to open a book of remembrance concerning you. Prayer works wonders.

Quite frankly,this guy didn't sound convincing and even in his writing,he seems to have given up!
No bro.Look upward and pull your self together,there is HOPE for tomorrow!
There are openings here in Lagos or other parts of the States:
•Can you even face the pressure of interview drilling the way you sound?
•Can you tell us your grades from the University or Polytechnic,for you seems to be in depression flight Mode right now!
• Quiters don't win and to be a Winner,you don't dream to quit the very race set before you! A good job can knock out all these troubles but hope you one day too would remember where you come from when you climb up!
• Your present friend or Friends can't feed you right and don't curse him for your prdicament as he too is trying to survive,you need to press further for God to make a way and reveal helpers that would not see you as a burden!
• What can you do for yourself now; what have you learnt as a Skill,afterall, you have been hearing 'acquare'a Skill,in addition to your certificate'!
•Open yourself up,so that water of life may flow in.let people know your weakness,it may turn to be a foudation builder for those that wants to help.
Wish you the best!

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by Ambasado4lyf: 8:00pm On May 21
KoshCAD:
Hmmm, brother, Though I am 32, a graduate of mechanical engineering. If I had allowed myself to be depressed due to my situation,I would have died. My parents are not rich and they are no more again.

Yes, I have brothers, one of them was ok, I told him to help me travel out, he doesn't answer. And I said this for the sake of the family.

I left my state for Lagos to stay with a brother that has wife n kid.

I trekked so hard in Lagos that I almost moved all around Lagos looking for job. Even so recruitment company still collected money from me and yet,nothing.

Even if I want to learn something, I will have to pay but where is the money.

I sold my land at home to do a maritime course at ikoyi when one of my brothers' friends linked me to a captain. I called tired after wasting that money on the course yet, I have not gotten any reply from captain that promised to help and asked me to go ahead with the course. Since last year August that I finished the course, I have not heard from him. Even when I call, he won't pick, so I gave up that that is not my job. I want to start as oiler on the ship.

I worked at a generator company for almost 2years just for peanut of 20k per month when I will still enter transport and feed. I currently live with friends after leaving that bro house when he moved to another place.

Presently, a bros I knew way back at home was the one that helped me get a casual work at a company. Imagine a graduate, 32years, I have








not been able to rent apartment of my own, I couldn't go home,no girlfriend.

I lost two girls just cos I haven't gotten on my feet.

One even said I am not the kind of guy she wants to roll with. But I didn't die hearing that. I just let it pass.

I love the girl despite being a baby mama. And this is a girl we dated before I went for service, thinking things will be good and u will marry her. She's yet to marry now and she's 29.

Brother, let believe, things will surely work out well.

I love as you spoke out. You will see that help will come. We are in the same shoe.



This really touched me. I commend your tenacity. Believe me when I say, you will have the moments, when you will conquer better lands. Remain steadfast, keeping seeking opportunities, and ultimately, never cease to seek God's favour.

With Care,

A concerned Friend.

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by tunize(m): 8:05pm On May 21
Bros if you go mortuary or go cementry you go just sitdown begin thank God you know why? Being alive bro is something to be grateful of.
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Odogwu2023(m): 8:06pm On May 21
Amuochicha:
i hate men
with AMUOCHICHA abi?
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Odogwu2023(m): 8:07pm On May 21
Amuochicha:
i hate men
with AMUOCHICHA abi? ochicha get amu?
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Odogwu2023(m): 8:10pm On May 21
Hotshisha:
cool



Yahoo Yahoo



Register a premium dating and hook up site, and with a good picture stolen from Caucasians female social media page you are good to go

Soon you open, horrrnyyy American guys would flocck you especially if your mock ip is set at rich county like Houston texas

Ask for small amount like $20 to $50

Oya you pigs should stop qouting me

1: registering on dating site is not prohibited by any country

2: soliciting for money from Americans isn't a crime

3: Sexting is not a crime

4: getting paid to chat is legal


Las Las with$2000k USD you can open a betting/gaming site, viewing center, Uber cab, lounge a boutique, business Center,or small canteen and start forming entrepreneur

bellow are EFCC act and Criminal code so una pigs should state one section violated because your slave masters Americans got hustled as they hustle ignorant Africans

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nice write-up....
Re: My Current State Of Mind by Odogwu2023(m): 8:12pm On May 21
HAVE YOU APPLIED FOR ANY JOB BUT DID NOT GET IT OR WHAT?

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Re: My Current State Of Mind by Puhrs: 8:12pm On May 21
Hmmmm

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